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  • Anna, I know who "Sarah" is. And you people reading this, it has gotten VERY scarry. Many of us are afraid to ask ro talk to her about things because she will get VERY defensive. Everyone at the barn knows something is wrong, but nobody knows what to say.
    Being best friends, its hard not to say anyything to her. But any help at all would be wonderful! Thanx in advance!

    ~**Nut N Honey**~
    ~*Rainy Day Blues*~
    ~*Cowboy*~
    ~*Molly*~
    ~*Molly*~
    ~*Cowboy*~
    Proud member of the Indiana Clique! Theres more than corn in Indiana...
    http://community.webshots.com/user/nutnhoney55

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    • I was forced into the hospital (my job said they'd declare me "unfit for duty" if I did not go---which to me meant not feeding my horse--YIKES, I went for the sake of my horse!).
      That is how I was forced into taking a look into myself and choosing to live. I use forced and choosing because that is EXACTLY how it was. I would have died otherwise...no doubt. Lori

      Founder and sole member of the "Nobody Clique"
      Proud to have two Takaupa Gold line POAs!
      Takaupas Top Gold
      Gifts Black Gold Knight

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      • After reading the first page or so on this thread it made me feel overweight and fat...and yes i do sometimes feel that way depending on my mood...but then after reading some of the later posts about people struggling with eating disorders and what not made me feel quite good about myself..my closest friends being quite a bit skinnier than i am (although they are a healthy looking thin) doesnt help my body image all the time..but thinking about it I am pretty muscular for a girl and am big chested and big hipped to go with it...and just doing the BMI thing i realized im just about a 21 and thats lower on the scale of being in the range of normal...it helped me realize im not all that fat...sure sometimes i feel like i would rather wear a 7 than my usual 9 but i know even if i didnt have any fat on my body whatsoever i would NEVER be able to fit into a 2 or even 4 b/c of the way i am built..this thread was just a little bit of an eye opener for me! Here are some pics of me riding my mare who is on the greener side.
        Addies webshots page

        ~Nicole~
        -Nicole

        You said, "My life is like a bad movie"
        And I said, "It's true of all of us"

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        • Hey EventGurlie...

          I meant to tell you on another thread that your horse is beautiful, especially her name! (I have an Addie too).

          What is "Addie" short for? My mare's name, as you can tell by my handle, is Adelita...

          >^.,.^<
          ~~Linda


          "Today is not the day you quit. Nor is it the day you cry. Today you know that you have all the passion and wisdom to find that quiet center of solace, serenity and strength necessary to create and sustain an authentic life."
          ~Sarah Ban Breathnach~
          ~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~
          You can't have everything. Where would you put it all?

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          • Event Gurlie, yyou look fine! I love your horse too! She is wonderful. An you look AWESOME on your horse!

            I weigh 108 and im 5'4'' just a little over. I look fine the way i am, but im trying to gain someweight in the form of muscle.

            ~**Nut N Honey**~
            ~*Rainy Day Blues*~
            ~*Cowboy*~
            ~*Molly*~
            ~*Molly*~
            ~*Cowboy*~
            Proud member of the Indiana Clique! Theres more than corn in Indiana...
            http://community.webshots.com/user/nutnhoney55

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            • Thanks Adelita! Addie is short for "Addictive" is what i call her for shows...although her registered name is Princess Attaway and her old owner had her barn name as Atty so it was just kinda a varied spelling!
              Also thank TheGreatPious!! I'm 5'8 and addie is just 16h (i actually prefer them on the smaller side!) but shes big bodied so it helps fill up my leg!

              ~Nicole~
              -Nicole

              You said, "My life is like a bad movie"
              And I said, "It's true of all of us"

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              • Hah! I'm 5'7" and a healthy 175-180lbs and my 15.1hh guy never complains. I wear a size 12 (or 14) and am VERY happy with my looks. Could I stand to lose a few? Sure! Do i diet? Nope! I watch what I eat and i don't over indulge. I enjoy life to the fullest, and I think I am quite beautiful. So does my wonderful boyfriend.

                BOTH of my sisters, one older and one younger have eating disorders (bulemia/anorexia). I have a very healthy self-image. I always have.

                "All Hail President Kang!"

                ..."Don't look at me...I voted for Kodos..."
                Remember...though eagles may soar, weasles never get sucked into a jet engine.

                Soar like a weasle my friend.

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                • I'm just over 5'1" and weigh just under 120 lbs. I am in my 30's and have 2 kids. I've weighed as much as 130 lbs and as little as 110 lbs. I seem to be an easy keeper, and maintain my weight between 115 and 120.

                  I used to worry a lot about my weight, especially because I have a pot belly, I've always had it. but I read somewhere once about a old woman on her death bed, and she said if she could do it all over again she would have spent less time worrying about her weight, after all, she was never more than 25 lbs over weight. That article put it in perspective for me, and I resolved not to worry about my weight anymore!

                  I like the way I look, I am as active as I can be, and training for my endurance ride has brought up my fitness level. My mare is just under 14.2hh and from a distance with me on her she actually looks bigger than she is. she carries me no problem!

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                  • Firstly to Pheonix- WOOT you go girlie! Beauty is in the eye of the beholder and I too am tattooed and LOVE it.

                    Secondly:
                    I am taller than I am wide- and I won't get more specific than that! I am actually the perfect weight, I just need to grow taller.

                    ROFLMAO

                    Thirdly:

                    I love me
                    My horse loves me (although sometimes, when I'm out of carrots, he questions that)
                    My partner loves me (even when he rolls over in the morning and see;s my hair all over the place!)

                    Glad I read the whole thing as I thought I was a freak after reading page one

                    Have to say ALL the pictures I've seen of folks on this board look WONDERFUL, there is not one person I thought 'ohh they were right they are a little heavy'.

                    I've weighed more, I've weighed less but DAMN I've just eaten a piece of the most amazing chocolate cake and boy am I happy

                    Not that you need it but I'm 5'7 and about 150

                    JackSprats Mom
                    I have horse to sell to you. Horse good for riding. Can pull cart. Horse good size. Eats carrots and apples. Likes attention. Move head to music. No like opera! You like you buy.

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                    • The only reason I am replying to this is because I am finally happy when I look in the mirror. I have never been overweight but have always wanted to tone certain areas of my body. I have finally gotten serious about working out and eating right (I eat soo much fruit a day!!) and its working! I am losing weight and building muscle - my biceps are awesome, I love my muscled arms

                      I do love that my boyfriend tells me how much he loves it when we go to dinner and I eat real food, and don't just pick at it. He loves that I like to eat! I treat myself to some junk once a week and work out for at least an hour and a half four times a week. Instead of eating chips I eat an orange, it makes the difference. And with all the miles I put in on the treadmil, bike, and eliptical I get a lot of reading done!!

                      I am 5'5" and 116 and I love me!!

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                      "We learn from history that we do not learn from history." ~ George Bernard Shaw
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                      \"I found my inner bitch and ran with her.\" ~ Courtney Love

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                      • Wow! I love hearing these success stories! Congrats to everyone who is finall happy and has worked hard to feel goo about your self. wow, I hope that came out the right way!
                        One of my friends is always saying how skinny she is, almost to brag, but also to make people feel bad for her. does that make sense?
                        But my friend "Sarah" need serious help! On the previous page carribean wrote about her, and I would love to hear how we can help. ITs scaring me and all my friends, that why I love hearing success stories!
                        And like JackSprats Mom said, you guys all look great on your horses, and I would have a hard time saying anyone looks overwieight or even heavy the slightest bit!
                        http://community.webshots.com/sym/im...1gojGbl_ph.jpg
                        ^ thats me, the girl obviously, and my date Clinton before Semiformal
                        ~**Nut N Honey**~
                        ~*Rainy Day Blues*~
                        ~*Cowboy*~
                        ~*Molly*~

                        [This message was edited by TheGreatPious on Mar. 23, 2003 at 09:04 PM.]

                        [This message was edited by TheGreatPious on Mar. 23, 2003 at 09:07 PM.]
                        ~*Molly*~
                        ~*Cowboy*~
                        Proud member of the Indiana Clique! Theres more than corn in Indiana...
                        http://community.webshots.com/user/nutnhoney55

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                        • sorry people, my posts are going spaztic! Im on SOTH and TH at the same time, so everything is getting messed up!

                          ~**Nut N Honey**~
                          ~*Rainy Day Blues*~
                          ~*Cowboy*~
                          ~*Molly*~
                          http://community.webshots.com/user/nutnhoney55
                          ~*Molly*~
                          ~*Cowboy*~
                          Proud member of the Indiana Clique! Theres more than corn in Indiana...
                          http://community.webshots.com/user/nutnhoney55

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                          • TheGreatPious and Carribean....

                            Someone needs to confront Sarah regardless of how you think she will react. No, she probably won't appreciate it at first and you may even lose her friendship but you could possibly lose HER if someone doesn't take that step. It's not easy for a person with an eating disorder to admit that they are sick - I was extremely reluctant to post my own story b/c it's embarassing to admit that you have or have had this weakness, but I had hoped that it might help someone.

                            Sarah will deny it until she's blue in the face b/c often you don't realize that you really have a problem until you've gotten over it. If you are still in highschool...contact your guidance counsellor and DRAG Sarah to a meeting! Is Sarah an avid rider? Perhaps her parents would consider witholding any riding funds until she smartens up or refusing to take her to the barn or to shows? Also, there is no reason to hide the scarier aspects of an eating disorder - does Sarah know that she will most likely be unable to have children if she persists with starving her body? That was a huge wake-up call for me.

                            It is fine to tell someone that they ARE skinny and that they don't need to do this to themself - but that is not enough. If you really want to help your friend - it's going to demand some honest-to-goodness caring on your part. You may have to be more aggresive about it than you'd really like but gentle suggestions will only be disregarded especially since at this point, Sarah does not believe she has a problem.

                            Good luck and keep us posted on Sarah's situation.
                            \"Don\'t go throwing effort after foolishness\" >>>Spur, Man From Snowy River

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                            • 34yo female, 5'7, ~160#, 36-28-38

                              People don't believe that I weigh what I do. Actually, I feel my healthiest at ~140-145 so I really ought to drop a few. However, as soon as I think about the word "diet", I immediately need to eat everything in sight.
                              So, I am upping the exercise (I have to pass the Combat Challenge in June anyway), and attempting to lessen my intake. I don't eat badly, just too much sometimes. So, I try to only cook enough for one meal (instead of trying to make enough for leftovers and eating them anyway)
                              Also, I am reactive hypoglycemic, so I eat more than 3x per day. More like 6 actually. BUt some of those "meals" are and apple and peanut butter, or salad.
                              I don't own a scale at home, I do weigh myself here at work every week. I have gotten to the point that I can basically tell you by how my clothing fits whether I have gained or lost, and a good estimate of the actual amount.


                              Oh- I have a 16.3hh warmblood-looking OTTB and a 17.0hh (and growing) Clyde cross
                              http://www.geocities.com/posse977/ho...?1043947240210

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                              • Kind of a weird Topic, but I'd like to post!
                                I am between 5'7 and 5'8 and weight in (today) at 105lbs but I just underwent surgery for breast cancer on tuesday, so i haven't had much of an appetite! I generally fluctuate between 110-120lbs depending on my exercise and the weather. I suffer from sesonal anxiety and they believe I am allergic to snow, believe it or not. lol! so I often stay inside during the winter and do nothing, hence the weather thing. here is a picture of me riding my 16.2H TB mare, think I'm too big for her?

                                ~*persistence pays off! hehe!*~
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                                ~*persistence pays off! hehe!*~

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                                • I am 5'8 and weigh 105 lbs. My horse is 16hh 1/2 TB 1/2 WB. At first I was afraid of being too tall for her but in pictures I think we match perfectly. I am happy with how I am now, but I used to be very insecure about my legs. My bones are very small so I always thought my legs looked like chicken legs. So being insecure about weight goes both ways. Now that I am done with undergrad and am in grad school, my schedule is more flexible, and I can ride more. So my calves are getting a little bigger and stronger every day I hope!
                                  ~ Mirror Image (1998-2010) ~

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                                  • No way cookie! I think we are all just a little too used to seeing people who are too small for their horses.

                                    I was talking to this western rider once and she was describing her horse. SHe was about 5'8" and her horse was about 15.2 and she said "He's the perfect size for me...of course I ride western, and ....uh... we like to fit our horses" I laughed! I think she had a point.

                                    I'm a hair over 6' and my TB is only 16.1. I don't think eventers care, but in hunters, I would probably be considered a bit big for him...maybe, I'm not sure.

                                    I do not smirk. But if I did, this would be a good opportunity. - Worf
                                    The truth is rarely pure, and never simple. Oscar Wilde

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                                    • 5'11", 24 years old, 165 lbs. (right now). I have a 16.1 TB we keep round to take up my leg.

                                      I have gone up to the 180's & down to the 150's. Last summer/fall I was 155. As a junior, spent 2 years at a barn where "weight" was a major issue. It's been 7 years since I left that barn & I still have moments when I revert back to issues like food & how I look compared to others. I look back & realize how unhealthy it was & how lucky I was not to develop a major problem (most of the juniors were anorexic or bulimic ). Being the tallest didn't help either. Kind of hard to compare me with a 5'4" person.

                                      All I can say that has helped me is accepting who I am (I will never be a 5'2" waif) & realizing "gee...there are a whole lot worse things in the world than a couple extra pounds". As long as the show clothes still fit, I am happy!
                                      "I'm not crazy...my mother had me tested"

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                                      • TheGreatPious and Carribean,

                                        One of my good friends in college was anorexic. She and I lived next door to each other freshman year in the dorms, and we used to split pints of Ben and Jerry's... she came back sophomore year having lost about 20 pounds (and she was not overweight, and only about 5' tall) and ate just about nothing. And she thought she was fat.

                                        There were several of us who tried to get her to eat, told her she wasn't fat, etc. We were never able to get through to her. Finally she called me on the phone one day, crying, admitting she was anorexic and bulemic. I took her to her first therapist's appointment, and afterwards we went to McDonalds and she was very excited to eat a cheeseburger. Then she felt so "fat" she didn't eat for two days.

                                        She dropped out of school and went into a rehab facility. I saw her for the first time in several years at her wedding in 2000, and she was still too skinny and almost passed out at her own reception. She just recently completed another stint at an inpatient facility.

                                        It is almost impossible to reason with a person with an eating disorder. I would STRONGLY recommend taking your concerns to an adult and then enlisting a professional... a doctor or counselor. There just isn't anything you can say to someone with an eating disorder that's going to get through to them, in my experience.

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                                        • I'm almost ready to start smoking again, I'm so fat.... Not really, but it's pretty depressing...

                                          "I can justify anything!"
                                          \"Riding a horse is not a gentle hobby, to be picked up and laid down like a game of solitaire. It is a grand passion. It seizes a person whole and, once it has done so, he will have to accept that his life will be radically changed.\" -- Ralph Waldo E

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