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  • I am 5'4", and anywhere between 120 and 130 .

    Stewie is a tall, lanky TB, and Fieval is a cutie WB/TB.

    I look tiny on Stew, and normal on Fieval.

    http://www.angelfire.com/darkside/smited/Stewart3.jpg


    Rebecca and Stewart and Fieval
    tearin it up in the AA's, Eq, and 2'6" jumpers...
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    [This message was edited by Pirateer on Mar. 19, 2003 at 06:03 PM.]

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    • Okay I will bite. But a few thoughts first.

      1. In HS @ 18 I was 5'10 and weighed in at 145. I was perfectly content with this weight (I rode about six horses at the time and showed every weekend so it was mostly muscle).

      2. Got married/preggo at 18 and had a muncher at 19. This skewed my body image horribly (even though I only put on 15 lbs w/my son who weighed in at a healthy 7 lbs 15oz!) and has caused me to struggle w/'normal' weight vs. real weight.

      3. 6 mos after having my son I had grown an inch and a half (I am now 5'11.5") and was 119. I thought I looked great! I was so stoked to be a size 0 (as in ZERO). Those pictures today horrify me. I was like a skeleton w/skin stretched over it.

      4. When I hit about 27 weight started to stay on a bit easier then it used to. So I began the struggle to keep it off and stay slim and in the size 8 range, preferring instead to be a 6.

      5. I was a size 4 (and a size 3 in some clothes!!) when I met my husband. I was single again after a 7 year relationship and my body image again was totally messed up. Since being with my husband I have gone up to 165 (more then I weighed when pregnant) and back down to the 140's (where I currently hover). He loves me through it all. Wow am I lucky to have a man who appreciates having a woman w/curves and a body!

      7. I don't use a scale. I use my clothes. When they get tight I know I am putting on some weight and need to take it off. That works for me. What I see in the mirror answers my questions. I use 'portion control'. I stop eating when I'm full and I PURPOSELY don't order the super size or the large burger, etc.

      My TB is 16.3 and about 1100. I think we are a fair match. I have a 40" inseam so tons of leg. UGH. It makes finding clothes that fit a nightmare! It has taken me years to realize I have to be comfortable w/my weight. For the most part (today at least), I am!

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      • you know what makes it real tough too, is family background and upbringing (honestly - making NO excuses here!)
        Our background is European - Slovak to be exact - and meals consisted of perogies with butter and sour cream, cabbage rolls, fried everything, schnitzel, and mounds of desert. The rule in our house was that if you didn't finish dinner, you couldnt have desert (which we would have every single night)so being a typical kid - we ALWAYS wanted desert, so you would stuff copious helpings of dinner down your throat (and remember - Mom dished out the portions, and more was definately better and healthier in her eyes!), be ready to burst, but still have that huge helping of chocolate cake, or whatever.
        I swear once those fat cells have been plumped up, they are total Hell to get rid of in later years.

        Whenever Mom cooked, if we were expecting 12 people - she made enough to feed 20, because it would be the ultimate embarassment to run out of something at the meal table. It would show that you werent a good wife, good hostess and didnt care about the stomachs of your guests.

        We never just had turkey for Thanksgiving - it was turkey, ham, cabbage rolls, perogies, sometimes roast beef, every vegetable and side dish known to man and then this whole sweet table with 8 or 10 desert choices on it. It put every all-you-can-eat buffet at every restaurant to shame ... She would cook for days
        in advance just to get all of this stuff ready.

        Its so darned tough, when you grew up with that, to forge proper and healthy eating habits. I could relate to the parents and relatives in My Big Fat Greek Wedding in droves - no matter what was wrong with you - EAT!!! - it will make it better ...

        "Spot"

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        • http://ladybughillfarm.vaix.net/karma/k4trot.jpg

          http://ladybughillfarm.vaix.net/Chris&Paul1-web.jpg

          Okay, I will admit--5'3" barely and currently 141 lbs. I have weighed as little as 105 and as much as 145. This has been a tough winter.

          Pictured above I am on my TALLEST riding horse who is a petite/narrow 15.2. The second pic is with my husband who is 6'7". That picture always reminds me of the one in the Guiness book of world records (from 1970s) where the shortest woman in the world is standing on a piano next to one of the tallest men in the world.

          I ride mostly small horses and ponies. The smallest I have ever ridden was 11 hands and the largest was 18 hands. I felt pretty comfortable on both. I have rarely felt that my weight or height was an issue for any of them.

          Chris

          Ladybug Hill--Hunters and Ponies
          Specializing in Palomino TBs

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          Chris
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          • Spot, you just made a friend for life! You just described my life story WRT food! I describe my body type as Polish potato farmer; alas, not terribly compatible with equestrian endeavors.

            Alas, food is still my comfort friend, and that clean plate habit is a killer. I'm just now, at the tender age of 51, really beginning to recognize the concept of feeling full as a cue to stop eating. And with a large frame (size 9 ring, before the arthritic knuckles) and endomorphic tendencies that would make Arnold jealous, reading "I'm 5'8" and feel FAT at 125" is a concept I can't quite get my mind around (I'm 5'9" and was dangerously lean at 135).

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            • I weigh 125 and I am 5'3". I never obsess over weight. I look to be fit, and feel good, regardless of numbers.

              Julie
              Julie

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              • Oh God monstrpony - isnt THAT the truth?!

                You skinned your knee - here - have some ice cream - that will make the bleeding stop and you'll feel much better.

                What do you mean you're not hungry??? You must be sick - here - have some food to get better ...

                A chicken couldnt live on those portions - here let me put more on the plate for you!

                What do you mean ham and turkey and cabbage rolls are enough? Whose going to eat the roast beef - here - its good for you and its just a *small* piece ...

                Your grandmother spent hours cooking and you arent going to eat her XXX and xxx and &&& - come on - you'll insult her - just eat it. You're young - you'll work it off.

                Amd on and on and on it went.

                The only thing no one in our family did, thank goodness, was go around squirting us with Windex!

                "Spot"

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                • Mademoiselle

                  For a 1.5 years, I lived abroad in France studying in high school. I have never been small framed. My mother is and you can feel the difference between the circumfrance of her wrist and width of her kneee versus my own. Her's is small and petite while mine is heavier larger boned.

                  While in France, I was comfortable with my weight and interestingly enough I di dnot feel as if any of my french friends felt that I was fat or overweight (whereas here in the states, I had continuously felt as if I needed to starve myself and loose weight to get into the size 2 or size 4). While abroad, there were some naturally very thin people, but there were also people my size and a little bit larger. Noone seemed to really get hung up on size.

                  The few people I knew who were concerned about their weight (one girl had just returned from the USA from being an exchange student) would go to a doctor for assistance and advice to loosing weight.

                  I loved being in a country where I can not remember seeing any "Fat-free" and "Light" products. While I was in France, I can not even remember seeing detailed food ingredients with how much fat and calories are in a product. (You can correct me if I am wrong. ).

                  One french man and I were speaking one night and he said he was shocked by the US's obsession with weight. He says we have all of this fat free and light food yet people still are getting more and more overweight or you hear so many stories of eating disorders.

                  I would like to say while I lived in France I ate more than I would eat here and I ended up loosing about 15lbs. I think that was due to a combination of things-- naturally people were more fit. Cars and petrol are expensive. I walked EVERYWHERE. Meals were set and balanced. As one of my french mom's said-- eat what you want to eat but make sure you balance it with a good meal-- and do not eat too heavy in the evening.

                  Now unfortunately, it is difficult to adhere to the same manners as I had in france. Lunch breaks here are so much shorter and here there is a constant rush rush rush rush. Dinner in my home is eaten late due to my work hours as well as overtime at work.

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                  • When looking for an appropriatly sized equnie match, remember the "butt rule". As long as the horse's butt is still bigger than your own, your'e OK. I know you all have seen those in violation of this all important rule.
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                    • <BLOCKQUOTE class="ip-ubbcode-quote"><font size="-1">quote:</font><HR>Originally posted by baileygreyhorse:
                      When looking for an appropriatly sized equnie match, remember the "butt rule". As long as the horse's butt is still bigger than your own, your'e OK. I know you all have seen those in violation of this all important rule. <HR></BLOCKQUOTE>

                      My SO's bratty little cousin saw me riding a few years ago and hollered out to me "I've never seen a horse with two rear ends!" What a twerp! At the time I was at a nice good weight too!

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                      • On sizing of clothes in the industry....all I can say is OMG and we need to go to sizes that are just "inches" like men's coats.

                        Ok, those of you who have met me know I'm not a large person.

                        5'1", 131 lbs (down 10 from last fall and much more fit cardiovascularly), size 6 or 8 in most pants, 10 in tops.

                        When I was shopping for show coats...guess what sizes I had to go to?

                        Size 14 or 16! Now, the 14 and 16 both were a smidgle loose in the waist, but my shoulders and biceps require a 16.

                        So, if I require a size 16 in a coat, all I have to say, is how high do the sizes go?

                        I don't really care what size something is, I wear it if it fits.

                        Mel

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                        • <BLOCKQUOTE class="ip-ubbcode-quote"><font size="-1">quote:</font><HR>Originally posted by Duramax:
                          My SO's bratty little cousin saw me riding a few years ago and hollered out to me "I've never seen a horse with two rear ends!" What a twerp! <HR></BLOCKQUOTE>

                          This is where you turn the horse and attempt to mow the kid down. "yep, two rear ends, and 4 sharp hooves!!"



                          One of the lessons of history is that Nothing is often a good thing to do and always a clever thing to say.
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                          One of the lessons of history is that Nothing is often a good thing to do and always a clever thing to say.
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                          • well i guess i will be brave here because i know my weight is high and if people saw me they would know. i am at 199, and 31, after having my son i was in the icu for 3 days and i have a rare skin disease that reacts on my body and makes me tired and i can go into antifalactic shock. Anyway i have been fighting this for 6 years now and have had back problems. the mares i have i have been breeding, but now i have 2 younger mares that i am excited about, and have been visiting a friend who has been riding a couple of my horses and i have been getting enthusiastic. i bought my new 18" dressage saddle last year and was a little excited but not enough i guess. Now within the last 2 weeks i have been eating good and i have rode my 3 year old who was just broke out more in the last 2 weeks , than i have rode in the last 6 years, needless to say isn't much. Anyway; i am finding having the excitement of the 3 year old is making me work at my weight and eating healthy. I don't like being fat, i am ashamed but thats all i can do is try, i don't believe in liquid diets and all these fad diets. But i am finding with eating right and limiting myself to 2 cans a pop of day i feel better and want to ride. i won't drink diet because i have read bad things about saccahrin and find it makes me crave. i have had back problems for years too, and even that is much better. I think the posting is helping strengthen muscles. Another thing that hurts is because i used to be a decent rider and break all my young horses and now my friends think because i am heavy that i can't ride a young "green" horse. Well i am enjoying proving them wrong. i am still the same rider. anyhow that is my rant. And everyone remember our genetics are made differently.

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                            • The eastern European diet

                              To this I can relate, if only because my husband is Czech. A typical dinner at his parents is a meat dish, in a flour-based gravy, many helpings of a Ccezh dumpling; veggies rarely accompany a meal, unless it's a pureed spinach thickened with yet more flour and onions fried in a half pound of butter. His family also tend to be speed-eaters.

                              I'd hazard a guess that they are all 20-50 lbs overweight, including my husband. In his mind's eye he'd ideally weigh 20 lbs less but, the old eating habits of one's childhood die hard: no, darling you do not need to eat every single scrap off of your plate, no you probably shouldn't be eating after 6:00pm, no you really do not need to snack on an entire bag of Doritos.

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                              • I'd just like to say that Duramax, Triggerfoot, and all the other people who posted jumping pictures look great. I would have never guessed your weight, or thought that you looked at all heavy.

                                As for me, well, I am 5'8 and 130 pounds. This is the least I have ever weighed. Through high school I was 135-140.

                                I'll admit that now that I'm down that low, I don't want to gain more. Why? Because I know that this is the healthiest I have ever been. In the last year my mom has gone on a health food craze, resulting in us eating healthy, low fat meals every day, with little red meat or dairy. I also jog 7 days a week, and walk everywhere. My two problems is that I am a snacker, and addicted to sugar -- when I buy a bag of candy, I will eat the entire thing, no matter the size. (I ate an entire 20 piece box of chocolates in one day a little while ago). But I don't buy it often, and am happy with my weight. But I still cannot help but wish that I had flatter abs(how can I be thin enough that my ribs almost show, and do 200 crunches a day and still not have a flat stomach? Aggh) Funny how we can know we are healthy, but still somehow wish to be different. Some days I wake up and wish that if I couldn't have that rock-hard body, I would like to be more curvaceous. Ahhh, life.

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                                • I have a question for Mademoiselle and others with experience of France:
                                  Apparently the French walk a lot.
                                  Also, French women apparently wear only stiletto-heeled footwear.
                                  So are these ladies just immune to pain? Do they have their feet secretly removed and replaced with prosthetics?
                                  Because been to Paris more than a few times, and I've Never seen a Parisienne sporting the stockings-and-Reeboks look. Or even loafers.
                                  Please enlighten me.

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                                  • Focus on health and overall fitness - both are so very much more important than numbers on a scale!

                                    Your body is one of your most precious assets. Respect it, please take care of it. You are each one of a kind, unique, and so is your body! First value your health - if you are battling any problems, make solving them and helping your body solve them the highest priority. Only with good health can you focus on gaining fitness - which should be your second highest priority.

                                    Take periodic honest looks at your fitness (like twice a year - not every day!) If you feel you need more of it, is something very attainable, it just takes planning, time and commitment. Scan the 'net for programs in an activity you might enjoy. Find a buildup program which helps you improve at this activity over time. Write the schedule on your calendar, commit to the goal, and go for it!

                                    I hate the focus on numbers on a scale. Would you do that to your horse? No! You look at your horse's overall health and fitness, and take action to help him/her improve both. Respect your own body as much - it is very good to you; it's gotten you this far, hasn't it? Right now your heart is beating, your cells are renewing every second, your blood is carrying all needed nutrients to each of your precious organs... it is working so hard for you, every minute. In return, try to be a friend to it, respect it!

                                    For the record, my favorite cross training activity is running. I'm 36, 5'6", 130 pounds, and fitter & healthier than I've ever been in my life. In two weeks I'm going to complete my first marathon, a lifelong dream I never really believed I could achieve.

                                    Back in high school I was a weak, miseable anorexic fighting to get under 100 pounds, never happy with my image no matter what I weighed and so unhealthy. I'm so glad I learned a better attitude before too late.

                                    Well, those are my thoughts on this topic. Take care all,

                                    Cheers,
                                    Arcadien
                                    arcadiafarm@msn.com

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                                    • stonefieldfarm:

                                      good for you! I agree with you totally on saying "no" to fad diets, drugs, etc.

                                      If God had intended for us to consume only liquid diets, He would have made a SlimFast tree instead of an apple tree.

                                      I spoke to my Dr. about weight management/diabetes mellitus management (both run in my family). All he would talk about is fat-blocking drugs, appetite suppressants, etc...I told him that I wanted advice on exercise programs and food intake selection, not meds.

                                      He just said, "Oh," then started talking about prehistoric humans chasing their prey, and how hard they had to work in order to obtain food, the genetics of weight gain (you get the picture.) I told him that I read all those books, too. In the end, he didn't really say anything that satisfied me.

                                      After that experience,I decided it's not only the supermodels that contribute to body image problems, it's the medical community. Prescription drugs are not necessarily the answer to every problem! I guess it's up to us to find our own solutions to weight management.

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                                      • <BLOCKQUOTE class="ip-ubbcode-quote"><font size="-1">quote:</font><HR>Originally posted by artienallie:
                                        <BLOCKQUOTE class="ip-ubbcode-quote"><font size="-1">quote:</font><HR>Originally posted by sarapony:
                                        That is only because we have matching manes <HR></BLOCKQUOTE>

                                        I didn't notice yours standing straight up! (and hers STILL is! arg!)
                                        <HR></BLOCKQUOTE>

                                        Are you hinting that another barbie day is needed? Wings has got current dibs, but I should have time sometime soon. Exactly how far away IS Nokesville?

                                        "No time to marry, no time to settle down. I'm a young woman and I ain't done runnin' around." - Bessie Smith

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                                        • Ok I have to step on my soapbox here, so bear with me. I have to say when I hear women , not here but anywhere, get down on their appearance I get so upset. Does anyone remember the "Body Shop" ad that ran years ago? it was along the lines of "There are 200 million women in the world - only eight are supermodels"
                                          Society ingrains us to want to be "perfect" only "perfect" has so many different meanings. God, I see it with my grandmother, hair always needs to be done, make-up flawless etc. And my niece who is seven and dressing like Britney Spears and will only leave the house with make-up on - and she is seven! Why do men get distinguished (sp?) and women get old?
                                          Who the heck decides what beauty is anyway. I have my back tattooed and last summer, while shopping I became the target of another mother's comments to her daughter about what attractiveness is and that I wasn't it because of my tattoos. All loud enough ( quite purposefully ) that I could hear. So I walked over an told her little girl - what makes you attractive is your personality and your understanding of people's differences without passing judgement before you know them. That is what is wrong with all this - to coin an old phrase 'Beauty is in the eye of the beholder" Life is to damn short to feel bad about your self. Stepping down. Youre all beautiful treat yourselves well!

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