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  • #81
    I am 5'5 and around 135, my horse is 15'3. We are well proportioned. I focus way too much on my weight and struggle with trying to accept my body. I know it is stupid, but the little voices in my head dont know how to shut-up sometimes. I still have all my 26 breeches with the thought I will wear them again.

    Something I am starting to realize though, women just don't look the same in their late twenties as their early twenties. AND life is to short to worry about that. If you are happy and healthy that is all that should really matter.

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    • #82
      5'5", about 155-160. Curvy, southern born and bred, and my Mr. Katarine loves me oodles, squish and all.

      "Shoot me now! Shoot me now!"
      Bugs Bunny
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      • #83
        Portion sizes are a huge contributing factor to the growing obesity here.

        That and "supersized sodas". Huge juice drinks, etc.

        Back in November I decided it was time to get fit and possibly drop some excess weight. I started out walking 20 mins 3x a week. I worked up to walk/running for 36 minutes 3-4x a week (slacked off last week...need to get back into it) and I also started to MEASURE my food and eat appropriate portions.

        I got used to eating smaller portions and as an example, last night, grabbed string beans schezwan at a chinese place, split the order with my son and STILL have enough for my lunch today. Before I started paying attention to how much I ate, I'd have eaten that entire container of string beans by myself in one sitting.

        I am going by the numbers though. It takes 3500 calories a week to gain or lose a pound. I've chosen to lose weight by increasing my calories burned and monitoring my intake...not so much decreasing it as not increasing and doing the most important exercise...pushing myself away from the table before eating 2nds.

        So far, I've dropped 10 lbs. I've maintained that for almost 2 months now, and I'm about to go for the weight loss again, then after 7-10 more lbs, I'll just use activity level to control my weight. If I eat extra, I exercise a bit extra. I'm also feeling MUCH better now that I'm fit and I'm having less problems with my hips.

        I was a bit overweight according to BMI, and I used to rationalize it with "lots of muscle", "large frame", but now that I'm not overweight so much on the BMI scale...I'll admit it. I was packing around 20 excess pounds...down to 10 excess pounds now.

        Mel

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        • #84
          Catalina - isnt THAT the truth!
          You have the easy option to "SUPERSIZE" everything here for a few more pennies. I mean come on - those jumbo drinks would easily feed a family of 4, who really needs 3 patties of beef, a huge *supersized* order of fries plus that huge goblet of Coke - for lunch ???

          When we were down in NC picking up a mare and foal a few years ago, we stopped in at Denny's for breakfast one morning and it was an All You Can Eat buffet.
          It was sobering to watch what people piled on their plates because it was "free".
          I mean - mounds and mounds of grits, and bacon and eggs and toast, and french toast slathered in butter and syrup, and cinnamon buns and pastries and you name it.
          And going back again and again for more and more of this stuff. I mean - where can it all go? Surely no one's stomach is THAT large?
          Of course, they were all what you would consider in the obese category and no wonder...

          There was something we were watching on the Guinness Book of Records about these guys that had contests for eating the most, and one guy was bragging how he could eat something like 50 hot dogs in 10 minutes and the method he used to do so, and another would brag how he could down 30 gallons of ice cream in 10 minutes and the secret to doing so.
          Now - each weiner alone has 18 grams of fat, let alone the bun, so this idiot was well over 1200-1300 grams of fat in one sitting.
          real smart ...

          I would love to lose a few pounds and have been consulting with Fred because she and her hubby have been successful in losing a few pounds with the low carb diet that Robby recommended to them.
          We have gone on a modified Zone diet and so far, so good - the food choices are excellent, and other than missing my pasta, breads and grains (agh!!! horribly!!!), it is really not that awful a diet to follow. Plus - it is balanced and makes sense.

          So - wish me luck!

          "Spot"

          PS - when I have a bread/carb craving, can I come on here and you can all encourage me like they do at the group therapy sessions?!
          Please???!!!

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          • #85
            I'm really bad with numbers - I don't know exactly how tall I am (I like to say 5'5 or 5'6.. my friends say 5'3.. We'll go with 5'4, then ) nor how much I actually weigh. I know, the last time I went to the doctor (uhm.. a year and a half ago) I was 135 and felt overweight - I've lost weight since then, down about two pants sizes (granted, I've also started buying clothes that come close to fitting, so it wasn't all weight-loss - though, since the start of college, I've dropped about 4 sizes).

            A friend commented the other day that she's never, in the year or so I've known her, actually seen me eat - I'm usually munching on something, but don't go all-out and have a meal often. But, when I do, it's a scary sight Still, the thought of super-extra-huge sized everything for lunch disgusts me.. there's no way that much should be able to fit where you want me to stuff it, thanks.. Ickie.

            When I was riding with my coach regularly, she'd point out that perhaps a few less stops to Burger King would do my horse some good - now, I'm working on a balance between staying healthy enough to ride effectively and losing the extra bit of squish that drives me NUTS. But, I still don't know, nor do I really care, exactly how much I weigh.
            \"A redhead and an appaloosa mare... heaven help us should one of you get mad...\"

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            • #86
              Oh, yeah I can relate for the portion "factor". Seriously, when I order something at a restaurant, I always feel like they want me to eat the same thing for 3 days non-stop ! One plate here is like 3 or 4 in Europe.
              In France, I can easily eat a starter, an entrée and a dessert.
              Here I'm lucky, if I can finish either one !
              As a good European, I don't snack. I have 3 meals per day, that's it.
              When I started to cook for my hubby, he was suprised because the food and sauces were really rich (yummy ). And he felt kind of guilty to eat it (self concious for his weight !).
              He droped probably 10 pounds without any diet !!! He is totally amazed.
              The other thing is that in France we walk a lot (not golf cars at the shows). We don't have so many drive-trhu and malls.
              The first show, I entered in the US I killed my hubby (it was an event), and I walk the course 2 times in a row, I walk all over the place (barn to the dressage arena a few times, go to the office, go to the trailer ...). At the end of the day, he couldn't take a step. And I was, ok let's go to have a walk in the woods, it seems beautiful.
              Crazy French People !

              "www.lechevalfrancais.com"

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              • #87
                The dichotomies to which we're subjected as women in North American society are mindless - the physical standard of beauty is one that's virtually impossible yet we are simultaneously innundated with ads for fast food restaurants and over-processed foods.

                At the end of the day, don't we all know what constitutes a 'healthy diet' - avoiding sugars, too much alcohol, sodas, balancing proteins, starches, carbs; avoiding processed foods, eating smaller portions, etc., etc., all of it moderated by a reasonable level of physical activity.

                It would be wonderful for a chorus of women's voices to chime out, "you know, I am good enough!" against this tide of an artificial standard which constantly reminds us that we're not.

                As much as it pains me to say this...but my mother in law has a healthier body image (she's 5'5 and probably 175 lbs) than anyone else I know. She eats what she wants, doesn't fret about the 'squishies', and plays tennis five days a week. I'd also bet she's a helluva lot stronger and healthier than I am at 95 lbs. In that regard, I'd much prefer that my 12 year old daughter emulate her grandmother's attitude towards her body than my circle of girlfriends who are on Perpetual Diets.

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                • #88
                  The thing about all this is....it all has to do with the way you see yourself. I have looked at every single picture on this thread and not once have I thought that anyone looked the least bit overweight. I thought everyone looked perfectly in proportion, ie when looking at someone else, I only see positive things. But with myself, if I gain even one pound I am on the scale 5 times a day to see if it has gone away yet and start avoiding bad food. I don't think I have an eating problem but I can see how when people do, telling them they're skinny isn't going to change their mind.

                  **Member of the Ocularly Challenged Equine Support Group**
                  **Member of the Ocularly Challenged Equine Support Group**

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                  • #89
                    I am 41, 5'9" and, 160 lbs. and a size 10. Just call me "Xena", lol.

                    Had weight issues all my life, feel better now about myself than I ever have. I dance six hours a week (tap and jazz, SO much fun) and also ride. Such a sensitive issue here, always has been a tough one for me. I mean, sheesh, when a size 10 is considered a 'plus' size in the fashion world... it's time for a major reality check.

                    It's all about 'fit', not 'fat'. Somersizing has worked for me, it's been something I can live with pretty easily. And it has kept my high BP under control (a whole lot bigger issue than looking good.) The very best to all of us who live with this daily. diana

                    Life is short, do it now. www.dianasart.com
                    Life is short, do it now. www.dleestudio.com
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                    My CANTER cutie, Steely Dan - IL
                    My Exceller cutie, Ace (aka FiftyThreeCards)- NY

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                    • #90
                      I'm 5'3" and weigh 135 - my BMI is 24.5. My weight has gone up about 10 lbs from what I used to be as a result of my medication. Hopefully, I'll drop those pounds once it's warm and I can be active outdoors again.

                      I've attached a picture of me riding. (Sorry about the crappy quality; it's from a video.) My mom says I look much taller and thinner on a horse as opposed to on the ground. I think it's because I stretch my short torso up and stretch out the fat.

                      "Living on Earth is expensive, but it does include a free trip around the sun."
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                      • #91
                        i'm 5'6" and a chart-topping 180#. I am sooo frustrated about losing weight, (for my pony, not mr trig) and its irritating to hear all of you who are my height and weigh 135# complain about how fat you are

                        I am happy as fried clam cake with my "image" i just feel bad for horsie. i eat a mostly veggie diet (meat maybe 2x/week), walk 2 miles a day, nordic track for 15min 5x/week, and ride 4x/week. my weight fluxuates and sometimes i get to almost 170 before goin back up. i would bet i'm waaaaay healthier than most of you skinny mamas!

                        here's a pic of Al carting my butt around.

                        Al and Trig

                        **horsie art**

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                        • #92
                          5'8" and 170lbs of muscle (oh well... okay, a little flab here and there). But actually I am well over 40 and I work out with a personal trainer 3 x a week. Both my horses are over 16hh and don't seem to mind carrying me around too much. I feel great and my trainer tells me I have great muscle tone.

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                          • #93
                            I feel sick to my stomach reading these posts-- 5'7 115, 5'5, 103....

                            Guess Im one of those who shouldn't read this thread, as I am on my way to GNC to start on a liquid diet. Medication has put 15 pounds on me, and i cant cope with it

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                            • #94
                              As many of you know, I suffered a very serious riding injury last fall. As a result, I lost over 15 pounds.

                              For those of you suffering from those few extra pounds ... let me tell you something. You have strong, fit bodies that will do almost anything you ask of them. Cherish that. It is going to take me MONTHS to get as strong as I once was, and even though I hobbled onto the treadmill with the halo on, my endurance is shot, too. I would gladly take back those 15 pounds if I could be as strong and fit as I was before the accident - I was running 3-4 miles a couple of times a week, swimming over a mile, doing bicep curls with 20 pound dumbells... and I could easily ride 15 miles without getting sore or exhausted. I didn't appreciate my body then. I will now, and I hope you all will too.

                              I know that none of us can magically change our body image. Even now I have problems with it. But the next time you start beating yourself up, think about all the things you can do with that less-than-perfect body of yours. THAT is beautiful!

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                              • #95
                                <BLOCKQUOTE class="ip-ubbcode-quote"><font size="-1">quote:</font><HR>Originally posted by KT 1900:

                                This the important issue. If you are comfortable at your weight, well, screw what ANYONE thinks. If you are uncomfortable at your weight, DO something about it.


                                <HR></BLOCKQUOTE>

                                Unfortunately, the issue is being comfortable with a healthy weight for your body. There are many women that posted that are underweight and yet aren't comfortable...they want to lose more. They will probably never find a place that they are comfortable with.

                                The trick is not buying into what society and you think you should be, but instead find the healthy weight and blow everyone off who tries to tell you you're too this or too that, including yourself.
                                Keith: "Now...let's do something normal fathers and daughters do."
                                Veronica: "Buy me a pony?"

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                                • #96
                                  <BLOCKQUOTE class="ip-ubbcode-quote"><font size="-1">quote:</font><HR>Originally posted by dianad:
                                  I dance six hours a week (tap and jazz, SO much fun) and also ride.

                                  <HR></BLOCKQUOTE>

                                  Ah! I'm not the only one. While riding is my first passion, I also dance quite a bit. I've been tap dancing for almost two years and absolutely love it! Great exercise too. I also swing dance (for about 6 years nows) and love that both tap and swing give me a little in with the older folks of my community. It's not uncommon to see me dancing with the 65+ crowd and enjoying every minute. Keeps me in touch with a demographic that isn't as available in the horse world.
                                  Keith: "Now...let's do something normal fathers and daughters do."
                                  Veronica: "Buy me a pony?"

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                                  • #97
                                    Thanks for those who pointed out that the BMI is NOT the be all and end all. It is just one more objective notion to use when someone is thinking they're fat when they're underweight.

                                    Not that knowledge really does anything for someone with an altered body image. I know that having a normal BMI does very little to help me feel not fat. I can't tell you how many times I've seen the height and weight of a patient (who I get to see dressed and undressed) and think, "We weigh the same amount????" I'm a muscular person and fairly large breasted - so clothes hang on me funny.

                                    Anyway, I've always had a lot of problems with eating. It is no longer a huge fight with myself on a daily basis but it is constantly a highly conscious decision making process about eating, etc. There are days I can look in a mirror and days I can't. There are days I just have to stop myself from thinking about it at all (thank the goddess I can do that now - it took many long hard years to do that, I'm 46 now). I was very fortunate to lose about 40 pounds about 15 years ago - I live in constant fear that it will mysteriously come back on and I won't be able to stop it.

                                    Proudly haven't weighed myself in over a year.

                                    ***
                                    "Not in my name!"

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                                    • #98
                                      <BLOCKQUOTE class="ip-ubbcode-quote"><font size="-1">quote:</font><HR>Originally posted by RugBug:
                                      Unfortunately, the issue is being comfortable with a _healthy_ weight for your body. There are many women that posted that are _underweight_ and yet aren't comfortable...they want to lose more. They will probably never find a place that they are comfortable with.
                                      <HR></BLOCKQUOTE>

                                      Exactly. I was amazed when I first opened this- people about my height and weight feeling hugely fat? We're pretty normal, and actually underweight!

                                      I admit to my own issues, but these usually have to do with "can I get my boots on?" or being healthy, not so much what I look like. In fact, if it didn't mean having to buy new custom boots, I would quite happily stick to 135. I like the way my body looks at that weight (that's when I get just enough cush on my tush to fill in the cellulite dimples, LOL!)

                                      I knew body image was a major issue for people, but it's amazing to me that people who are my height and way 15-20 pounds less think they are "huge"- girlies- you are not huge!!!

                                      And the women who were brave enough to say "hey, I weigh 170+" and post pictures- you guys look great too- by societal standards this might be "heavy" but I really think that is ridiculous.

                                      Heck, one of my good friend is 5'4" and 200 lbs and she looks good. She's got great legs, she's strong, she's healthy, and she can kick my butt at just about anything. It's a shame we have become so caught up in numbers instead of "what we can do" Dunno what to do about it, and sorry about rambling... but, you know...

                                      **and people say gov't employees are useless... HA!**
                                      "smile a lot can let us ride happy,it is good thing"

                                      My CANTER blog.

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                                      • #99
                                        Amen KarenC !!!!

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                                        • <BLOCKQUOTE class="ip-ubbcode-quote"><font size="-1">quote:</font><HR>Originally posted by Lonny'sMom:
                                          Several years ago, I was very ill and lost a lot of weight. I was down to 128. Not only did I look horrible, but I found that I couldnt ride as well.
                                          <HR></BLOCKQUOTE>

                                          I'm 5'8" as well and I also got sick a few years ago and got down to 123. Yikes! I looked like a skeleton so I know what you mean. Not only could I not ride worth a crap (and I was under doctor's orders to do no more than walk), I didn't have the energy to do anything at all!

                                          I'm now holding around 135-140 and that's fine with me.

                                          BTW, for anyone wondering, sickness is a very effective diet but it sure ain't worth it!
                                          "Dogs are man's best friend. Cats are man's adorable little serial killer." -- theoatmeal.com

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