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  • #21
    Originally posted by Anne FS View Post
    Good clubs will stress that USPC is not a drop-off club. You don't drop your kids off at the barn & take off only to pick them up hours later. Good clubs demand parental involvement. I guess as more parents are non-horsey, this contributed to the badges and crafts craze, but parental involvement is a big part of Pony Club. And I don't mean, "Mom, wipe my boots off" involvement.
    Bless you for mentioning this!! We struggle to get parents to come out and volunteer. You don't have to be horsey - we'll teach you. And there are plenty of jobs to do that don't require boatloads of horse knowledge. We make the volunteer commitment clear to new members but some just don't get it. We are still happy to accomodate the kids but it is does get wearing on the workhorse parents.

    For the record - we do not do crafts. And we finally have a boy back in the club. Woo Hoo!

    We also expect the kids to ride with other instructors regularly. The mounted lessons are supplemental. Which is what pony club is supposed to be. We have kids that event, show in dressage, show jumping and do the hunters. We are fortunate to have a diverse club. Our games program collapsed but hopefully some of the new kids coming in will show some interest.

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    • #22
      Originally posted by lcw579 View Post
      We make the volunteer commitment clear to new members but some just don't get it. We are still happy to accomodate the kids but it is does get wearing on the workhorse parents.
      Back in the day we had a DC who insisted on this policy, and IMHO, it's the only way to do it. As you're finding out, the drop-off parents will walk all over you because you are indeed "happy to accommodate" their kids. These parents will willingly let your workhorse parents do everything while they go shopping.

      Put your foot down and insist that if the parents don't participate, the kids don't either. (Of course there will be times when parents cannot come, but you know what I mean). Really, insist on it. And know that by insisting on it you are truly helping those children and those parents. Most of the PC kids I know well are now in their 20's, and what I see is wonderful, close relationships between children & parents, and I saw this through their teen years, too.

      Much better, closer relationships between the Pony Club kids than between the "wipe my boots" crowd or the non-horsey kids with their parents.

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      • #23
        Can anyone tell me how I can find out about these PC riding centers in the Central/Northern NJ area?

        Thank you!

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        • #24
          I am a Pony Club Parent as well as the Joint DC. My oldest son (just turned 18) joined when he was 13 y/o and was already riding and competing in some local hunter shows and low level events. My youngest son (12 y/o) joined when he was 10 y/o and was already riding. They both are very active and love Pony Club. My oldest is a C/HB that is going for his C3 in a couple weeks and my youngest just earned his D3.
          Our club meets at least once a month for mounted meetings. In the winter months we meet on a weekly basis for unmounted meetings in order to prepare for Quiz Rally.
          Our club also hosts a week long camp at Fair Hill that is a big hit. We also host the Tetrathlon Rally for the Region - which is becoming extremely popular.
          Our club also has many perks. For every hour a parent volunteers, the club will pay $10 towards rallies. Example, if a parent hosts one of our monthly parent meetings (which is around 2 hours) then they will receive a $20 credit toward a rally. We also reimburse entry fees to kids that attend and compete at championships.
          Many clubs are different and it's best to visit as many in your area as you can to see which one you and your kids fit in. The kids in our club range from 5-21 years of age and it's never a rare sight for the older kids to be out helping the younger ones.
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          • #25
            Not a parent either, but a PC member. I joined PC after a few months of private lessons, and could w/t comfortably off the lunge. I was 9 at the time. Our PC is run out of a prominent h/j barn in the area, so our PC is a little bit different than most "traditional" PCs. The barn has an indoor and a good supply of school horses (we had horses right up to showing 3' hunter/jumpers, this has now declined and we mostly have only beginner w/t/c school horses now).

            We did not do much "real" cross country, mostly due to the lack of PC eligible XC courses in the province. Our club runs September to May, and as we have an indoor arena, there is a weekly mounted lesson with the resident h/j coach for the more advanced students and a beginner coach for the first years.

            I personally was very involved in Quiz, and I loved every minute of it! I have always been a bit of a nerd (both parents having PhD's really didn't give me much choice, haha). I have not only met awesome people through PC, it definitely was a huge factor in teaching me tons of life lessons. This is partly due to having an amazing coach growing up (who unfortunately has since passed away) who we jokingly referred to as the female GM. She was tough as nails, but always pushed for and expected the best, and truly cared about every single one of us as individuals, and as more than just riding students. I definitely recommend PC to everyone that is interested in having their children join a club for riding.

            As someone pointed out earlier, it really is about the individual club, and I would definitely recommend watching a few lessons before committing to any club.

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            • #26
              Originally posted by NJMomma View Post
              Can anyone tell me how I can find out about these PC riding centers in the Central/Northern NJ area?
              You can start here: http://www.ponyclub.org/resource/res...newjersey.html

              Also includes this listing for a riding center in NJ: http://www.oxbowstables.com/OurStoryI/OurStoryI.html

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              • #27
                Thank you!

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                • #28
                  I wanted so much to be in Pony Club or 4-H, but you needed your own horse, and my parents wouldn't pay for her to board near me, instead of living with my sister in Vermont.
                  I realize that I'm generalizing here, but as is often the case when I generalize, I don't care. ~ Dave Barry

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                  • #29
                    Originally posted by Anne FS View Post
                    Well, a riding center is access to a horse, right?

                    That's what I meant. We didn't have a horse, but we got access to one. This was pre-riding centers. Riding centers were created to help in the "access to a horse" situation.
                    Not just a horse, but several horses. You start with one and when you "out grow" it, you move to another horse. That's one of the good things about Riding Centers, kids get the experience of working with many different horses. This really comes in handy later on they are required to switch mounts with another rider during a rating.

                    I've even let a couple of the older PC girls ride my Lipizzaner and one took her to the VRPC Dressage Rally last year. They did a great job, too. I don't let just anyone ride my horse, either, I'm pretty picky.

                    As for age in the original OP's question -- of the three of our girls that went to the Region 1 Youth Champs and won reserve, two are 12 years old and 1 is 9.

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                    • #30
                      Originally posted by Guin View Post
                      I wanted so much to be in Pony Club or 4-H, but you needed your own horse, and my parents wouldn't pay for her to board near me, instead of living with my sister in Vermont.
                      I hate hearing things like that ... did the PC and 4-H club actually tell you this? I was a 4-H'er and did 6 years with NO horse (during this time participated up to the National level at Horse Bowl and State at Horse Judging, Presentations, etc.) then for 2 years did barn work in exchange for a "project horse" that I could actually do shows with, and only for 1 year did I actually own my own horse. Oddly, the 1 year I had my own horse was probably my least involved year with 4-H.

                      My DD chose PC and while she has been fortunate that we can support her obsession with horses, quite a few members of her PC do not own horses and they can still be involved.

                      I think clubs that welcome the horse-less members are doing a great thing. Not all kids have horsey parents and really, we don't want the clueless parents staking a pony in the back yard so their kid can join 4-H or PC. Joining before owning gives them (kids and parents) a chance to learn before buying!

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                      • #31
                        Originally posted by Mad Mare View Post
                        Not just a horse, but several horses. You start with one and when you "out grow" it, you move to another horse. That's one of the good things about Riding Centers, kids get the experience of working with many different horses. This really comes in handy later on they are required to switch mounts with another rider during a rating.
                        That's exactly what happens at a lesson barn when you don't own your own horse. It's certainly not unique to riding centers, it's normal procedure.

                        I agree that not owning her own horse and having to be a lesson kid working for rides made her an excellent rider. She rode anything & everything and learned well how to adapt to all different types of horses.

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                          #32
                          Very informative! I was at cub scout camp for the last several days with my oldest and its awesome to come back to so many replies ;0). Thank you all!!!

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                          • #33
                            I'm a 25 yo PC grad

                            I think if you (kid and parent) put a lot into PC you will get TONS out of it.

                            Started riding at 7 and joined PC at 11.

                            I graduated with my HA rating, and I'm VERY proud of that. I went to PC Championships twice in 2 very different disciplines and love them both.

                            I teach lessons to some PC kids, I do rating clinics, ratings and our region's "D" Camp. It's helped put me through college and grad school...

                            Also- I'm getting married next week and my 3 bridesmaids are all former PCers. One is a National Examiner now.

                            I can't fully express how much PC influenced my life. It's not just about riding and ratings... It's learning how to cope with horses as an adult, it's gaining lifelong friends, it's teaching the kids everything you know so they can be as excited and prepared for life with horses as you are.

                            Feel free to PM me. We were not wealthy when I was in PC (still aren't) but we made it work and I'm so thankful for the experiences.
                            Yes, I ride a pony. No, he would not be ideal for your child. No, he is not a re-sale project...

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