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  • #21
    I got into horses "late" in life~~ always loved them, but never even rode as a kid as my parents just thought it was silly :-(

    anyway, my husband and I bought our first pony in 2000, not having any hands on experience, and it's been one learning experience after another! :-) we've had rescues, babies, big and small ones. I take lots of lessons, show when I can afford it, and I'm just loving it!

    if you can afford it, do it now so you don't have more regrets as the years go by!!

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    • #22
      I think volunteering your time would be a great idea. At least that way you can be around them. Sometimes stables even have that slightly neglected schoolie or retired horse that needs a person-no riding really required, just a lot of love!

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      • #23
        Originally posted by erew View Post
        Thanks for the offer. I actually grew up in GA... small world.
        Well, come on down next time you are stateside. While I worked for years in downtown Atlanta, I grew up here in Savannah and returned home after retirement. Cloudy and Hattie are available to you at no charge. Well, they will want treats but both cannot have them.

        I always worried about the kids (and now I guess the adults also) who wanted horses and couldn't have them. So mine were always available to my friends. Although a lot of people were afraid to ride the hot Callie, ottb mare!

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        • #24
          Oh yeah I can relate. I'm 25 and in less than a month I'll be moving to horsey heaven, aka Middleburg VA. I think I'll finally be at a point in my life when I can buy my first horse. I've been waiting for this moment for so long.

          I agree with others, if it's something that you can afford to do, you should. You're not acting on a childish whim, you're trying to fulfill a dream that isn't going away!

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          • #25
            Any barn would be lucky to find a responsible adult to come out and love on the horses, groom, etc. maybe you can turn it into a little money making endeavor. I know that I love going to shows and grooming.

            Or get your daughters involved. I love living vicariously through my DD, buying cute little riding clothes for her and watching her joy when riding. Definitely have some horse time that's just for you though.

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            • #26
              I rode and leased horses on and off for 30 years before I finally became a horse owner at the tender age of 40. Now I have 3.... :S

              I too had a badly messed-up back -- two discs so badly herniated that the radiologist reading my MRI wasn't sure how I could walk. It took some time to heal but it did -- and riding was highly therapeutic. (I argued with my doctor who strongly disapproved of my riding, but when he saw my discs healing without surgery, he grudgingly had to go along with it!). Now I have NO back pain (knock on wood) - I have some residual numbness in my lower leg but I ride 5-6 days a week and compete in eventing. I know each case is different (and far be it for me to dispense medical advice over the internet), but I do want to say that maybe the situation isn't as hopeless as it might seem...

              Sometimes it just has to be the right time and place and it all comes together -- I hope it works out for you!!
              I don't mind if you call me a snowflake, 'cause baby, I know a blizzard is coming.

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              • #27
                Originally posted by Bacardi1 View Post
                Everyone seems to mention "driving" as a less rigorous part of the horse world - especially for folks with health problems.

                In reality & in my opinion, driving requires even more skill & physical ability than riding in many, many cases.
                There's always gaited! Why bump when you can glide? When you get where you can keep a horse, physically and financially, I hope you'll investigate breeds like Tennessee Walker and Missouri Foxtrotters; you'll be able to fulfill your dreams, and your disks will be happy too!

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