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  • #41
    [quote=amastrike;6440018]It does seem to me that large animal vets are First Name, while small animal vets are Dr. Last Name. [\quote]

    I call both types of my vets Dr. First Name. Sometimes I even just call them by their first names.
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    • #42
      My vet introduced himself using first name and last name, didn't add Dr. to the beginning so I call him by his first name. However, my friend and I call him Dr. McDreamy in secret
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      • #43
        All of the horse vets we have used insist on being called by their first names, and will keep correcting you unless you do. This also goes for their clients' children, unless the parents insist on adding the Dr. to their name, as many do (which I agree with).
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        • #44
          I voted for Dr. [Last Name] because that is how I refer to most of the vets at the large practice I use. However, I do happen to board with one of the vets from the practice and I often call her by her first name because I see her in a lot of non-vet situations. It's weird. Sometimes, it is like I think of her as two people. So, I might say, "I need to make an appointment with Dr. ___." But then later the same day, say something like "I heard [First Name] had a great lesson today!"

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          • #45
            Originally posted by Alagirl View Post
            Maybe they skipped that step. One does not have to be a Doctor to be a physician either. Doctor is a academic title, earned by putting forth a thesis and all that stuff, a lot of work, generally done at the end of the college stay. but you don't have to.



            No - I think the qualification in the US (after 4 yrs) is DVM.
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            • #46
              Also, as a non-medical doctor professional, I will say that I don't like it when people use my "title."

              A lot of judges and other attorneys where I practice will refer to other attorneys as Attorney [Last Name]. I find it strange. In court, if being addressed by a judge, I don't mind, but would somewhat prefer Ms. _____. In court, I am also often refered to as "counsel for ____" or just plain "counsel" if the context makes it obvious who they are referring to. If another attorney or a client calls me, I prefer that they use only my first name.

              So help me if anyone actually says "Esquire" to me, as that is just totally strange!

              I assume it is a personal preference thing for vets as well.

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              • #47
                I am always perplexed as to why anybody would use "Esquire" in the US ?
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                • #48
                  Originally posted by mbm View Post
                  btw: it is an interesting question *why* we feel the need to use "Dr. last name" for someone who may be younger etc.

                  i dont like that kind of formality at.all. because it reeks of power and hierarchical structures which i am against.
                  Too funny. You have power and hierarchical issues with your veterinarian?

                  It's simply a sign of respect. Age has absolutely nothing to do with it. Your veterinarian had better be "higher" than you when it comes to equine disease and similar knowledge. That's what they're there for. I would most certainly say "Dr. Smith" to a veterinarian whether they were 60yo or newly-minted out of vet school.

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                  • #49
                    Originally posted by arabhorse2 View Post
                    Dr. Phelps. She earned the title, so I use it.
                    This. Definitely. Dr. [surname].

                    If they want me to call them by their first name, they'll say so.

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                    • #50
                      Large animal vet is Dr. Last name. Small animal is Dr. First name when working, just First name when we're in a social setting together.
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                      • #51
                        Originally posted by mbm View Post
                        btw: it is an interesting question *why* we feel the need to use "Dr. last name" for someone who may be younger etc.

                        i dont like that kind of formality at.all. because it reeks of power and hierarchical structures which i am against.

                        but it is hard to go against cultural training!
                        It's called "manners" and "respect."

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                        • #52
                          I voted First Name.
                          He's been my vet since 1996.
                          He's younger than me.
                          He is perfectly happy w/o the title - when he calls it's always FN LN - not Dr.
                          No loss of respect on either side.
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                          • #53
                            Originally posted by mbm View Post
                            btw: it is an interesting question *why* we feel the need to use "Dr. last name" for someone who may be younger etc.

                            i dont like that kind of formality at.all. because it reeks of power and hierarchical structures which i am against.

                            but it is hard to go against cultural training!

                            The problem is probably in your head. All it means is that the vet has taken the trouble and expense to spend 4 years learning about veterinary medicine followed by some exams etc., and you haven't.
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                            • #54
                              Well, I voted for FirstName, because that's how I address my primary vet. Her staff calls her FirstName when I call the office, and her horse lives in the stall next to mine, so I see her a good bit outside of working hours Since I don't refer to the MD that rides at the barn as Dr. Whomever when I ask how she's doing or how her ride was, it would feel silly to refer to my vet that way every time I saw her.

                              But when I've had to go elsewhere for a consult, further workups, surgery, etc, I've always called those vets Dr. LastName, and referred to my vet as Dr. Lastname when speaking about her.
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                              • #55
                                I always reciprocate by calling the professional by the same style name he/she calls me. If he/she wants to address me as Ms. IF, then I'll reciprocate by using Dr. XYZ. If he/she wants to call me by my first name, then I will do the same.

                                My vet would laugh at this poll as he doesn't care what he is called as long as the vet bill is paid. He and I have always been on first name basis, but if I am referring to him to a 3rd party, I will say Dr. XYZ.

                                And IF Jr. always must call him Dr. XYZ because it is good manners.
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                                • #56
                                  When I first found her as my vet, it was Dr. Lastname. As our relationship grew, it became Dr. Firstname - especially since her husband is also a vet and they're in practice together. Much easier to distinguish between which Dr. you want!
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                                  • #57
                                    Originally posted by mbm View Post
                                    btw: it is an interesting question *why* we feel the need to use "Dr. last name" for someone who may be younger etc.
                                    My primary care human doctor is younger than me too. That does not mean he does not deserve his title.

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                                    • #58
                                      I don't usually address them by name lol! Names just don't come up it seems.

                                      But, when talking about them or the occasional time I've seen them out and about and not at my appointment it's "Dr. Suchandsuch".

                                      But I've also been with my vet practice since I was 15, and I NEVER would have called them by their first names back then. Heck, I still call my parents' neighbors "Mr. and Mrs. Soandso" even though they all insist on a first name basis now that I'm all grown up.

                                      Can't shake the habit.

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                                      • #59
                                        I usually start with Dr. Surname but then follow their lead after that, spiff they callme up and say, "this is Firstname," I'll use that, or if they use Dr. Surname, I'll use that. If I'm talking to others about them, I'll use Dr. Surname often, like when speaking with my insurance or referring someone ("hey, you ought to go try Dr. Surname...").

                                        Most private practice horse vets, but not all, seem pretty comfortable with first names IME. Seems the university ones are more likely to expect the formal title, but that doesn't surprise me as Ph.D.s in that setting are more likely to use/expect the "doctor" reference. Or so it seems to me.

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                                        • #60
                                          I use first name unless client is standing there.. then I use Dr. So and so
                                          I expect all my clients to address him as Dr, in vet situation. as it happens we also do social functions and away from the ranch clients do call him by first name.
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