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    #21
    Originally posted by arabhorse2 View Post
    No need to get snarky. You're the one who asked, remember?
    Sorry, that didn't mean to come off snarky, it was meant as a friendly teasing .
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    • #22
      Originally posted by ahf View Post
      There are other vets, by virtue of their standing, I could never bring myself to call them by their first name, i.e. Dr. White, Dr. Cowles, Dr. Flynn.
      Good Point! I would have a hard time not calling that cadre "Sir"! Well I don't
      know Dr. White, so maybe "Mame"?

      So yes, some vets are virtual institutions, and they get the full vocabulary of respectful terms.

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      • #23
        Originally posted by ReSomething View Post
        Doctor Last name to start with and then as the relationship progesses it may change. The regular vet is Doc, one of them was Doctor First name, the dentist is Doctor Last name. I would always introduce or recommend them as Dr. Last name.
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        • #24
          I used Doc and first name with my regular vet, and Dr. with any new vets.

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          • #25
            My own vet, when I talk to her, is Emily. When I call the office, she is Dr. ____ because there are several vets. When I refer to her at the barn, she is Dr. E. Other boarders refer to their vets as "I use Bill at .... clinic...", but then we all know who Bill is!
            She is young, out of school 2 years, had many of the same profs as my daughter and they are good friends. I love her!

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            • #26
              Originally posted by amastrike View Post
              Pure curiosity .
              Fair enough. And here I was thinking there was some long story behind it. I don't know, like an argument at barn, a vet in a snit, or a burning question about whether or not you were being flirted with when a vet insisted you call him by his first name.

              Still, it is an interesting poll (obviously, since I voted and commented)!

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              • #27
                Hmmm - it depends - if I was still in Britain it would most certainly be Dr. Lastname, since that was what I was taught. But here where everything is more formal and those institutions are more or less relics, I use first names generally, unless phoning, or introducing. Most of them I have known for years, we socialise together, and are younger than me, and they would not know if I had similar degrees or not.

                My newish lady doctor, I have not progressed to her first name, but my dentist, I have. They call me by my first name. Same as at work, it was mostly first names, but at school the kids call their teachers by Mr Sirname. My kids' friends still want to call me Mrs Lastname and I have to work to make them change - I usually say that that is my MIL's name. Correctly, one should use title and name, until asked to do otherwise...so, it depends.
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                • #28
                  I address my usual/main vet as Dr. Firstname, which is typically how he refers to himself.

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                  • #29
                    We mostly call ours "Doc" or simply by their last name. We're close with them and I know they would have no issue with us calling them by their first names, but we're just so used to using their last names.

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                    • #30
                      Well I know that the girls at my barn have been know to ask for "the hot vet" and the girls booking the appointment know exactly which horse that is
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                      • #31
                        First name. After lots of late night farm calls when I was working on a broodmare farm, she told me she was tired of hearing me say "Hi Dr. X!" and told me to use her first name. We'd spent lots of time together covered in various fluids so it wasn't a big leap.

                        Just realized that sounds kind of wrong...oh well.

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                          #32
                          Originally posted by LLDM View Post
                          Fair enough. And here I was thinking there was some long story behind it. I don't know, like an argument at barn, a vet in a snit, or a burning question about whether or not you were being flirted with when a vet insisted you call him by his first name.

                          Still, it is an interesting poll (obviously, since I voted and commented)!

                          SCFarm
                          Nope, nothing interesting at all! It does seem to me that large animal vets are First Name, while small animal vets are Dr. Last Name. I thought about doing a poll for that, but it just seemed way too complicated .
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                          • #33
                            Originally posted by arabhorse2 View Post
                            I always address my vets as Dr. Last Name, unless they tell me otherwise. I leave it up to them to let me know if they prefer something else.
                            This.

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                            • #34
                              Usually Dr Lastname till they get to know me, then they call me Dr Firstname. Either is fine. Staff call me Dr in front of clients and just firstname when not with clients.
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                              • #35
                                Where I come from Vets are not referred to as "Doctor" and do not use that prefix, because they neither have an MD nor a Doctorate.
                                ie; John Smith BVetMed MRCVS
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                                • #36
                                  Dr. Lastname.

                                  Now the old horse vet we had....he was one of the crowd my mom and dad ran with, took riding lessons with and went to dances and balls with.
                                  I don't think I ever directly approached him, but he was known by his nickname. (But then again, he was so to most of the people around)

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                                  • #37
                                    Originally posted by Equibrit View Post
                                    Where I come from Vets are not referred to as "Doctor".
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                                    • #38
                                      I call both my vets by their first names. When they call me they always say it's "first name", not Dr....plus I'm good friends with the wife of one of them, and it would be weird to call her husband anything other than his first name when I see them socially.

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                                      • #39
                                        Depends which clinic I call. The one clinic, I ask if Dr ______ is in but always address him by first name because it is a very long-standing vet-client relationship that crossed the line to at least coffee buddies years ago. Two other vets I used were always first name basis since we all worked together in the race office, and they quickly became Rick and Al rather than Doc and while one is now gone, I am still in contact with the other, at least once a year despite him being retired. The other clinic I use, they are all Doc, haven't been with them long enough to be on a first name basis yet.

                                        ETA: I also had another vet for a brief time and always called her Dr _______ until she finally said 'Just call me by my first name' but the other large animal vet, well, he was just too much of a stuffed shirt to call anything but Doctor _____
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                                        • #40
                                          Originally posted by Equibrit View Post
                                          Where I come from Vets are not referred to as "Doctor" and do not use that prefix..

                                          ie; John Smith BVetMed MRCVS

                                          Maybe they skipped that step. One does not have to be a Doctor to be a physician either. Doctor is a academic title, earned by putting forth a thesis and all that stuff, a lot of work, generally done at the end of the college stay. but you don't have to.

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