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  • #21
    Sannois, I agree. The book was awful. One of the few that I threw straight into the recycle bin rather than donate to charity as usual.

    Annemarie was still unbearably self-centered, disorganized and helpless - how she will raise a new baby is anybody's guess, even with the help of her new, long-suffering miracle husband to save the day especially seeing as she is still doing a horrible job of PARENTING her existing daughter

    Disappointing, insulting book. Infers that woman is nothing without her womb, woman is nothing without her man, etc.

    And then: the final kicker was the book jacket: "Author lives in an ENVIRONMENTALIST community outside Chicago with her THREE children..." Environmentalist? THREE children? Hello-o? Unless they're adopted, you're just another hypocrite, adding to "the problem".

    Then, the book cover has the gall to proclaim "You will love this book" from the wonderful Rita Mae Brown - uh, I think not.

    Giant raspberries from me to this book. (& I read anything & everything) Sorry!
    --o0o--

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    • #22
      I loved Horse Play, too. It was laugh out loud funny in some places.

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      • #23
        I didn't think the book was badly written, as such, I just starting wishing that Annemarie would pull herself up a little, and not just be reactionary and neurotic. She seems just crippled by all the things that have happened to her, but I would have liked to see a little more forward progress for a women of the heroine's age.

        Anyway, to each their own. I read so many different things, there are good and bad about them all.

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        • #24
          Hmmm... there is a book out there...

          I loved the first half- 3/4 then it just when crazy. The main character went complete bat-bottom insane and I really lost interest.

          I loved the first half - she falls in love with this horse and just 'clicks' with him. The author described it perfectly. I loved it. Then the horse dies, I believe, and she loses it. I couldn't follow

          I went crazy on e-bay once I bought a series of books that I remembered LOVING when I was a kid... "A Horse Named Bonny" and the sequels. Read it again and realized the (female) main character was stereotypical and nearly unbearable.

          What is it with these annoying women in horse books. We're not ALL that crazy! Seriously! Not all of us...

          ~Adrienne

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          • #25
            Only once have I torn up a book and thown it it in the garbage.

            I do not recall the exact name, but "Gentleman Jim [James?]" comes to mind for some reason. I did a google search, but nothing came up that looked right.

            Anyway, it was a convoluted, vulgar bit of trash. "Gentleman Jim [James?]" had nothing whatsoever to do with the good character of the characters -- it was a kind of bourbon or something. There was not one gentleman (or lady, for that matter in the whole thing!).

            There was something about a race horse (timber racer, I think) that was going to be destroyed and some guy (what passed for the 'hero') rescued him, and there is some sort of conspiracy, then eventually the horse goes missing for some bizarre reason and is recovered, only to be killed in a shoot-out between somebody and someother somebodies that had to do with some government intrigue that I never could quite figure out.

            Scattered around that, there is some sordid lesbian affair that is on video for some reason, and some bigshot in the White House is a gay guy running a gay brothel for government employees/congressmen, which somehow was supposed to matter to the plot, and a bunch of generally slutty women (one of which was in the lesbian video) hopping from one man's bed to another.

            A couple of people somehow connected with the missing horse get murdered, and the horrid mess spirals downward to a conclusion where the 'hero', who had inherited a horse farm at some point, gets rid of all the horses and donates the land for a veteran's cemetary.

            (I really need a projectile vomit emoticon here!)

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            • #26
              Speaking as a writer...

              Some books do deserve to be burnt.
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              • #27
                Absolutely loved HorsePlay!!

                As for Riding Lessons and Flying Changes, they were just ok. I just wanted to reach out and slap Annemarie and tell her to grow up and quit whineing!! My god she fustrated me. I am not surprised that she had so much trouble with her daughter, it is like one child trying to raise another. The books were a nice way to kill slow time at work but not something I will probably read again as opposed to Horse play which I have already read a couple of times.
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                ignorance!" Officer Beck

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                • #28
                  I must be the only freak to like "Riding Lessons". I really liked it, I finished it in two days.

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                  • #29
                    <BLOCKQUOTE class="ip-ubbcode-quote"><div class="ip-ubbcode-quote-title">quote:</div><div class="ip-ubbcode-quote-content">Originally posted by Amchara:
                    I must be the only freak to like "Riding Lessons". I really liked it, I finished it in two days. </div></BLOCKQUOTE>
                    There was a thread (or two) on here not too long ago about Riding Lessons and Flying Changes, and there were quite a few people who liked them.

                    I haven't read either. I leafed through them in the book store, but they didn't catch my interest. I liked Horseplay, except for the ending, which I thought was a little too saccharine/convenient.
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                      #30
                      OK And to ad insult to injury regarding Riding lessons! HAs anyone ever seen this so called striped horse coloring?? And they use a picture of an American Saddle bred, or wait an Arab on the cover! I am glad I am not alone in thinking annemarie was a total wack job.

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                      • #31
                        Here is a link to a page with real life brindle horses. They do exist, and are pretty neat looking animals.

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                        • #32
                          Also speaking as a writer, I think it is important to remember that if you have three different people read the same book, they can have three VERY different opinions of it.

                          There are very few things in this world that appeal to every single person artistically. A good analogy would be that of the 15k odd registered CoTH users, some of us do dressage, some event, some do reining, some drive, some race, some hunt, etc. And we own THOUSANDS of different breeds of horse.

                          So, just because we all like horses doesn't mean that we should all like every horse book that comes out. Some will love it, some will like it, some will be neutral, some will dislike it and some will hate it.

                          The one thing I would offer, again, as an author, is that when I am critiqueing a horse book here on CoTH, I try to remember that the person who wrote the book might well reading the critique.

                          That said, YES, I would tell Michael Korda to his face that he should stick to publishing and not write any more .
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                          • #33
                            Good points, RR! I guess my take on reviews is that I'd far prefer 50% of my readers to say 'I loved it!' and 50% of my readers to say 'I hated it!' versus having 100% of them say 'meh,' shrug, and forget the book the moment they're done with it.

                            Romance tends to be a polarizing genre- as writers, we sort of expect the bad with the good, though it's nicer if reviewers remember that authors are people, too.

                            I got much more out of the fan letter that said 'I was disappointed by your stereotypical portrayal of race horse barns in THE SHERIFF'S DAUGHTER', versus the one that said 'I hope your publisher never buys garbage like (BULLSEYE) ever again, and you die alone and miserable.'

                            No joke (rolls eyes).

                            Then there are the jail letters, but you guys don't want to see the picture of Big Louie's tats, do you?

                            Jess (who has both Riding Lessons and Flying changes on her TBR pile)

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                            • #34
                              Has anyone read In the Presence of Horses by Barbara Dimmick? I just started it and I can't seem to get Into it . I also just read Horse of a Different Color by Jim Squires. I thought it was hilarious, also well written and informative. It's about Monarchos.

                              And while I'm at it I also read D. Wayne by Carlo Devito. I also liked it, but it's not amusing like Jim Squires book.
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                                #35
                                In all fairness see Saras Comments to me on her other thread regarding this book, It was very kind of her, And she is right, not everyone will react to any book. Hense why I changed the topic of my thread!

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                                • #36
                                  Thank you all for the heads up! Yikes, ya think we could get a book that isn't so bad?

                                  Probably based on true facts, but thrown onto one person in the book. Back to looking for the antique variety of books.

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                                    #37
                                    Radio Talk, as I pointed out, it is just how I recieved the book, Others truly enjoyed it!

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                                    • #38
                                      <BLOCKQUOTE class="ip-ubbcode-quote"><div class="ip-ubbcode-quote-title">quote:</div><div class="ip-ubbcode-quote-content">Originally posted by greysandbays:

                                      Anyway, it was a convoluted, vulgar bit of trash. "Gentleman Jim [James?]" had nothing whatsoever to do with the good character of the characters -- it was a kind of bourbon or something. There was not one gentleman (or lady, for that matter in the whole thing!).

                                      &lt;sic&gt;
                                      Scattered around that, there is some sordid lesbian affair that is on video for some reason, and some bigshot in the White House is a gay guy running a gay brothel for government employees/congressmen, which somehow was supposed to matter to the plot, and a bunch of generally slutty women (one of which was in the lesbian video) hopping from one man's bed to another.

                                      A couple of people somehow connected with the missing horse get murdered, and the horrid mess spirals downward to a conclusion where the 'hero', who had inherited a horse farm at some point, gets rid of all the horses and donates the land for a veteran's cemetary.

                                      (I really need a projectile vomit emoticon here!) </div></BLOCKQUOTE>


                                      Sounds like a large newspaper to me - maybe the Washington Post?

                                      Sorry - I simply COULDN'T resist!
                                      "The way to gain a good reputation is to endeavor to be what you desire to appear" ~ Socrates

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                                      • #39
                                        <BLOCKQUOTE class="ip-ubbcode-quote"><div class="ip-ubbcode-quote-title">quote:</div><div class="ip-ubbcode-quote-content">Originally posted by greysandbays:...Scattered around that, there is some sordid lesbian affair that is on video for some reason, and some bigshot in the White House is a gay guy running a gay brothel for government employees/congressmen </div></BLOCKQUOTE>

                                        Was it the "Biography of Congressman Barney Frank meets Teddy Kennedy"?
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                                        • #40
                                          For some reason, this thread reminded me of the old tv show In Living Color, where those two guys were film critics... "hated it!"
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