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  • #81
    I was teaching a class of 7th graders, Language Arts, when I got a knock on the door. I went to the door, and one of the secretaries told me to step outside and close the door. She told me that all TV's were to be turned off. I asked why, and was told about the Pentagon and the Trade Center. I told her that one of my student's dad was in NY. She said they had already talked to her mother, and they could not locate her dad. He was either in bldg. 7, or the Trade Center. I had to go back in, and pretend that everything was normal. Hard to do, especially when that kid was in my classroom. I was told to keep her with me until her Mom picked her up. During my planning time, I turned on and watched the reruns of the horrors. The rest of the day was horrible. I finally told my last period class what had happened, so they would be prepared for the bus rides home with high schoolers. I heard from my kid's mom about 10:30 that night, the dad had been in bldg. 7, and he and his co-worker were the last 2 out before the bldg. collapsed. The guards had blocked the doors, and said it was not safe to leave with the towers collapsing. Luckily, they disobeyed the guards, and broke through the barricade, and got everyone out safely. He works for the govt., and was there as part of a security briefing. Just had cuts and burns, but was ok. I never want to go through that again.

    Older is just a state of mind. Where is mine?
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    • #82
      [QUOTE]Originally posted by rileyt:
      Flying Circus, I now think I know where you work. I used to work there too, (over 5 years ago) and I knew that promising wonderful lawyer you're speaking of. [QUOTE]

      RileyT, I've been here since June 1997, so we might have met. I think you and I used to ride at the same barn as well, but I was gone before you arrived last summer.

      Karen was wonderful, kind and friendly and we will always miss her. There will be a moment of silence for her and all the lost on Thursday morning.

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      • #83
        Aw Coreene, thank you! Give your mom a hug back from me.

        It certainly was a double-whammy. Last year's anniversary was hard, but for some reason this year has been harder. Just a few weeks ago I had a 9-11 nightmare; never had a single one before that. Strange.

        Tomorrow and Thursday are going to be hard days for me, but I am going to stick with my routine. I'm all for "never forgetting," but I think getting hung up on 9-11 is exactly what the terrorists wanted. It is over now, and we must pay our respects and move on. I will say a prayer on the 11th and get on with my life, just like I did on each Sept. 11th before that one, and just as I will each 11th after.

        I don't think we should allow ourselves to be hung up in all the sensationalism. I have lost count of how many times I've seen the planes hit, the people jump, and the buildings fall. Once was more than enough. Every time the TV networks show that footage, they reinforce the very image the TERRORISTS want us to remember. Instead, let's watch the "after" videos of people helping one another. Let's talk about the miracles of mercy that took place that day, like the planes not being full, the thousands of people who did escape the buildings, and the superhero passengers who took over and crashed their plane before it could hit its target. So many things went wrong that day, but so many more went RIGHT! Let's focus on THAT. 9-11 was a dark moment that quickly became our finest hour.

        Still, I will be glad when next week rolls around. The atmosphere here, 60 miles from NYC, is already so sad.



        "It's not getting what you want, it's wanting what you've got." -Sheryl Crow

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        • #84
          I had just come in from riding (gorgeous morning), and was taking a bath before going in to work. I heard it on NPR, and at first I thought it was fiction (like HG Wells's War of the Worlds).

          When I drove in to work, there were traffic jams going the other way, and when I got to the office they told me the building was officially closed for the day, but I could go in if I wanted to. Since I had seen a soldi backup of about 5 miles leaving, I figured I might as well at least go into the office until the traffic let up.

          In fact, almost everyone on my project was there, and stayed there working all day. Some of them needed to be there to support the Emergency Preparedness workers who use GETS (Government Emergency Telecommunications Setvice). But even those of us who were working on future enhancements rather than the current service stayed. It was kind of eerie as the rest of the building was empty.

          A friend of mine is a doctor at a hospital in NYC. She said that they were all on call to receive casualties- but there weren't any sent to her hospital. Which was kind of bad news because so many were dead and in no need of medical help.

          Janet
          chief feeder and mucker for Music, Spy, Belle, and Brain
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          chief feeder and mucker for Music, Spy, Belle and Tiara. Someone else is now feeding and mucking for Chief and Brain (both foxhunting now).

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          • #85
            We were in the middle of physiology rounds that morning and we heard talking outside the room. When we finshed, we went outside and heard about it. We then went to the TV in a back room in the hospital office to see CNN.

            i'll always remember watching the buildings collapse and thinking I was watching a Tom Clancy novel. I remember seeing patients/clients during the day and every one was just numb. The university was closed, but the hospital stayed open.

            I was supposed to fly to CA that coming weekend for a wedding but called my friend that morning to tell her I doubted that I would be able to make it. She hadn't heard the news. Needless to say, I couldn't get to CA because no planes were flying.

            A day humanity will never forget....

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            • #86
              I was taking one of the last lab exams for my pharmacy mba that day, still in the Netherlands. It is a 2 day exam, takes forever, is incredibly hard, and I was completely drained after I left the lab.

              I went over to my locker and got my phone and found out I had 42 voicemails. Holy cr*p was all I could think.

              Drained and eager to go home I dailed voicemail while walking over to the bus, to catch the train. All the messages were from my brother who gave me 'live' report over the phone as thing were happining on tv.

              The emotion went first from disbelieve in his voice to anger and fanatism against whom ever did this. When the first tower went down the only thing he said was 'o my god'. By the 2nd tower we were both crying, he on my voicemail, me in the bus. Then for the first time since I had gotten on I looked out of the window.

              There was a mass display of flags at half mast (almost every house has a flag because of queensday). It was immens, it was like a sea.

              If it did one thing, it sure united the world.

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              • #87
                Janet, a friend of mine from college is also a doctor in NYC. He sent a long email telling his 9/11 story a few weeks after... he's a very good writer, and the way he described how gurneys and IVs and personnel were all lined up to receive casualties, everyone nervous and waiting for the injured to show up in droves... until hours later, when they realized there would be none... it was just heartwrenching.

                I got into work a little after 9 that morning and heard people talking about a plane crash, but didn't really think much of it. Then I logged onto my computer and saw the news stories. My boyfriend at the time worked in midtown Manhattan... his roommate actually worked in one of the towers. (She was late to work and wasn't inside.) My BF was able to send me a quick IM from his office saying all hell was breaking loose and he was going back home to Queens. Fortunately he got out of the city before the subway shut down.

                We had a tv in our conference room and I kept wandering in to see the news footage. I remember thinking that the towers would have to be demolished... there's no way they could be repaired. Then I saw the first tower fall...

                Annapolis is about 30 miles from DC, but it was like being punched in the stomach when I heard about the Pentagon.

                Rumors were rampant... people in my office were getting phone calls from friends and family in the area saying there was a fire at the State Department, that the USA Today building had been hit, that the Washington Monument had been hit. You really had this feeling of impending doom... like, "What next??"

                Like so many other people, I spent a great portion of the day here on the BB, sharing the shock and fear with everyone here. And thank goodness for the internet, because my friends and family from other parts of the country couldn't get phone calls through. I sent out an "I'm OK" email, and started networking with friends to make sure that everyone I knew in NYC was OK. The vast majority of my friends from college work in NYC... there were a scary few days before everyone checked in.

                On the afternoon of the 11th, I left work early (no one was working anyway) and went to the barn, and I remember the chilling feeling I got when seeing fighter jets overhead in that gorgeous September sky.

                I'm glad those two threads are in the archive, because it really brings back the way that day unfolded and how we all felt.

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                • #88
                  Oh, Marieke, the part about the flags has me all teary-eyed... that was part of the news coverage on the 11th that really got to me, hearing about how countries all around the world were flying American flags.

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                  • #89
                    Thank you for this thread. On 9/11 2001 I was at Mt. Sinai hospital in uptown Manhattan. I found out what happened from a voice mail message my dad left me at the office. It was there when I got in, in the morning, the planes crashed while I was on my way to work. My dad was across the river and watched the whole thing happen. My mother works in Staten Island, but travels the whole city for her job. We couldn't find her for a while. In the end everyone I loved was ok, though some friends of friends were not so lucky.

                    During the rest of the day, with the bridges all closed, there was a powerful sense of wanting to do somthing, and there being nothing that could be done. I logged on to COTH, talked to e-l friends, checked in on the booger board. Got e-mails asking if I was alright, helped those outside the city connect with friends and family inside it...Anything to be connected to the outside world while Manhattan was closed and phone calls couldn't get through.

                    I don't post here very often though I've been here (with a different address) since 2000, but I am so glad I made these online connections. They helped keep me going that terrible day.

                    also to SBT who wrote...

                    "In my mind, it is also inextricably linked with the death of my horse. It certainly put my loss into perspective, but at the same time my grief for her was met with little sympathy; cheapened, if you will, by this much greater tragedy. In a selfish way, it was hurtful. In an unselfish way, it made me realize that as much as I was hurting, many others were hurting more. So 9-11 for me served the dual purpose of helping me move on, while at the same time leaving me somewhat emotionally stranded. How do you grieve for a lost horse when all the world is grieving for nearly 3,000 brutally murdered people?"

                    I know just what you mean, my family had just returned from burying my grandfather the previous week. Its hard to grieve for a 92 year old man at the end of his life when people around you are grieving for their children, spouses, friends. I think the wisest advice I've been given though is that there is no tally card of loss, and what you have lost you need to grieve without worrying about the measure.

                    To make this horsey...I know non horsey people don't always understand how much one can grieve for an animal, but that is why we do have groups like this one...so that there will be others who do understand.

                    This week I have the week off, and I've just finished writing a 14 page account of my experience from Sept 11 to Sept 14 (my birthday) and I will take a vacation at home where I now live in quiet western MA, my husband and I will go someplace quiet and be together and reflect and enjoy the world we do live in.

                    However, this weekend my cousin is getting married in LA so my parents, and one of my brothers will be flying on Thursday. They thought they were brave enough but now they are scared. My mother also has said that this year the anniversary is harder. Last year they were greatful just to still be hear, this year it seems like there is still so much healing left to do. So I will also be sending thoughts of protection to them, and to anyone else brave enough to continue their life after that day.

                    wishing you ALL peace that day and every day.

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                    • #90
                      The weather was beautiful, I remember,

                      The first tower was hit during the 15 minutes it took me to bike from home to work at a busy vet clinic. I got to work and nobody was working- all in the break room around the TV. We watched all morning, horrified...nobody called the clinic about anything, nobody stopped in, there was hardly any traffic on the streets. I went home at lunch to find my big, strong fiance in tears watching Dan Rather report.

                      Somebody left an American flag in our mailbox the next day and we flew it outside our house until we moved this past spring- its very worn and tattered, but safely folded up and stored away.
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                      • #91
                        Just another note, we are on the flight pattern to Hartsfield, from the south, I go running every morning at about 4:30, and see the lights of planes coming in to land. After 9/11, the sky was blank. Was so neat to see plane lights coming in a few weeks later. Has anyone heard of a lights on after dark memorial like last year? Maybe we BBr's could turn our house lights or barn lights on the night of the 11th.

                        Older is just a state of mind. Where is mine?
                        Life is great when you can hug a horse.

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                        • #92
                          I was actually getting our Mounted Patrol Horses ready for an interview with the newspaper. One of the officers told me a plane just crashed into the Trade Center. At first I thought"How stupid was he to do that" Then I realized it was a terrorist attack. We had to still interview, and I could not concentrate at all. I live 10 minutes from Norfolk Naval Air Station and 1/16 mile from the Naval Shipyard, so to say the least the interview was cut short.
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                          • #93
                            I was standing outside my freshman Geometry class when one of my classmates moms who worked for the school rushed up and asked to speak to her. I asked what she had said and she said oh some plane crashed into the World Trade Centers, she said it will be something our grandchildren are going to ask about. We blew it off and went on to sit through Geometry. Directly after class an emergency meeting was called of the entire upper school explaining what had happened. The rest of the day was mildy productive, every classroom had a TV on all day and we sat and watched and discussed what had happened. It's tough to see when you're only 14. I flew on the 6 month anniversary back from Fl into Norfolk, the security was amazing. I took 16 flights back and forth from Ocala last year and every one I remembered that.

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                            • #94
                              I was in class... trying to get to work in downtown DC. I worked for a newspaper.

                              Office said, don't bother getting down here. But we're gonna need you to shoot some of the aftermath stuff, write articles. I was in a daze. That night I went out. I couldn't stay in and watch the news anymore. Everything was closed except a few fast food joints, places that don't ever close. But even some of those were closed. I wound up at a friend's house watching more news. There was nothing else to do. There was nothing else on. There was no escaping it.

                              So last September 11th and this next one since, I am to shoot memorials. That is one of the hardest things about being a photojournalist - you have to put your emotions on hold. And let me tell you - it's not easy. I've always been good at dissociating. But you feel it all later, harder, ripping into you and pulling you down. Then you have to wake up the next morning and do it again.
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                              • #95
                                I was sick that day. My mom came in and woke me up and told me that "America had been attacked". It was so strange and sad to see the planes going in the buildings.

                                Andrea
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                                • #96
                                  <BLOCKQUOTE class="ip-ubbcode-quote"><font size="-1">quote:</font><HR>Originally posted by KathyR:
                                  Has anyone heard of a lights on after dark memorial like last year? Maybe we BBr's could turn our house lights or barn lights on the night of the 11th.

                                  Older is just a state of mind. Where is mine?<HR></BLOCKQUOTE>

                                  I haven't heard of anything but I will do again this year what I did last year.

                                  I will light three candles out in front of my house at dusk. One red, one white, one blue.

                                  Red: For all the firefighters and EMS workers we lost that day.

                                  Blue: For all the law enforcement officers and Military people we lost that day and in our continuing fight against terrorism!

                                  White: For all the civilians that died so tragically that day!

                                  "Member of the Western clique"

                                  All gave some...And some gave all...God bless the USA
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                                  • #97
                                    Never Forget

                                    I was at the barn that morning, cleaning stalls b/c my hired help had pneumonia. It was my birthday and I wanted to get done early so I could go fly for awhile, it was a gorgeous day, and then go out to celebrate. I had on talk radio, and caught the tail end of something about a plane hitting the WTC. I had just been there in NYC in June with my Mom, aunts & cousins and figured it was a tour plane that went off course. So I put down my pick and went to the house to turn on Fox News. Dad was sitting on the couch in the sunroom reading the paper and told me "Happy Birthday" as I turned on the TV, just in time to see the 2nd plane hit. I knew then that something terrible was unfolding and had the gut feeling it was terrorism. Our entire family is in the aviation field, and my Mom, my Dad, & I sat there and sobbed for those fellow pilots & crewmembers lost, along with all of the passengers and other victims. 9/11 will always be vivid in my mind, as though it happened yesterday. Those images are burned there in my memory forever. We must never forget.

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                                    • #98
                                      I was cleaning stalls at my dressage barn. All of my co-boarders are commercial pilots, some for American Airlines. It was chilling and I too, remember the defening silence in the days following. It's amazing how much you miss the noise when it's no longer there. I also remember giving the horses extra hay that day and hurrying home to my family. What a sad day for the world!!

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                                      • #99
                                        I WILL NEVER FORGET AND WE WILL NEVER BE THE SAME

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                                        • I was at work when when my mother called to say a plane had crashed into the WTC. At first, we thought it was an accident. We moved a tv into my boss' office and turned it on just after the second plane had hit. The entire staff stood in his office and watched both buildings come down. I'll never forget that day. Everyone had tears in their eyes, disbelief in their minds and a terrible ache in their hearts.

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