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  • #21
    I was *very* serious about riding and showing then about maybe 7 or 8 years ago I went through a mini midlife crisis where I got out of horses for a year or so.

    Now, I braid at shows, go to just about every show in the area either to braid or watch, cheer my friends on and am having the time of my life.

    I also get to spend money on horses because I joined the Arabian Horse Association and frequently sponsor their youth and ammy Sporthorse classes. I also do free clinics on turn out for the English sporthorse for the Arab folks.

    I am also sponsoring at a local farm for three days (Aspen Farms up here in WA), I love the focus on good horsemanship and encouragement from the eventing crowd for their team mates.

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    • #22
      BTDT, got the shopping bags full of ribbons & EOY Award that cost me roughly 40X what it would if I'd just bought the darn anti-sweat sheet!
      Of course it would not have Reserve Champion AO embroidered on it, but really.....

      I enjoyed the H/J shows when I was a kid and again starting out as a re-rider helping my new-to-the-business trainer.
      Then trainer replaced her eyeballs with "$$" and the fun evaporated.

      Tried dressage - which I enjoyed for the timing (you knew when you needed to be on your horse), scoring -me competing against ME!
      Then it became THE thing to do, WBs popped up everywhere (and me on a TB) and again: the fun quotient waned.

      Eventing was fun for the chance to do all 3 phases & if Life (read:budget & time) had allowed I might have stuck to that.

      As it is now, give me a clinic over a show any day.
      Along with the very occasional lesson (wish I could budget time & $ for 1X monthly) I find I am enjoying my horses w/o the need to compete.
      *friend of bar.ka*RIP all my lovely boys, gone too soon:
      Steppin' Out 1988-2004
      Hey Vern! 1982-2009, Cash's Bay Threat 1994-2009
      Sam(Jaybee Altair) 1994-2015

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      • #23
        I had no interest in showing, but my trainer convinced me to show at a local open show when my horse and I were getting better & better. I hated it. Trail class was the only class I enjoyed. I tried a few more times and then gave it up.

        But then I started showing Ranch Horse Versatility and LOVED it! People were supportive, you got to do a variety of classes and it was "working" tack/clothes NOT the blingy stuff, so right up my alley.

        Those shows lasted a few years, but then they closed. Now I'm doing reined cowhorse. Same thing I love about the Ranch Horse shows is what I love about this one - supportive friendly people, you don't have to clip your horse if you don't want to (I do the bare minimum), and working tack is fine. For me, showing in these shows is a chance to test our horsemanship AND hang out with some great people & horses for revaltively little.


        We also do cowboy races, trail trials & trail riding ... to do sometihng fun and different than the cowhorse shows!

        I have toyed with going back and doing a few "arena" Breed shows (AHA reining & trail) but one show it costs $287 in fees (minimum) BEFORE class fees - that is what two of my cowhorse shows cost total (fees for it before class fees is $20)! More than enough to deter me from those shows.

        I do understand burn-out or not interested in showing. And that's fine if you don't want to show. The goal is to enjoy & have fun with your horse - what ever you do to accomplish that is just fine.

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        • #24
          I like going to low key schooling shows just to hang out with horsey friends and oohing and aahing over each other's horses. I enjoy the bathing and grooming and making my horses look their best. But I could care less about the actual competition. For me its just a fun social event. If my horse carries me around without dumping me, I consider it a good fun day!

          If you're not a professional, showing is supposed to be fun. If its not, then don't show or find a show/group that is fun for you and your horse.
          Lowly Farm Hand with Delusions of Barn Biddieom.
          Witherun Farm
          http://witherun-farm.blogspot.com/

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          • #25
            Showing would be a lot more fun if other (fellow barn mates) weren't so darn competitive. My objective (dressage schooling shows) is to better my scores - ribbon or not. For others, it's just about the ribbons/winning.

            Finances won't allow doing any shows this year - I'll be lucky to get a lesson or two - and quite honestly, that's OK!
            http://fromdressagehorsetocowpony.blogspot.com/

            "I am still under the impression that there is nothing alive quite so beautiful as a thoroughbred horse." -- John Galsworthy

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            • #26
              I LOVE showing, but don't really have the money right now. So I guess you could say I'm not into it!
              "A horse gallops with his lungs, perseveres with his heart, and wins with his character." - Tesio

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              • #27
                Like a few others have posted...

                I showed as a kid and then again when I got back into horses.

                Last show was Nov 2008. Haven't shown since. Mostly because my horse has had some on again/off again issues or it's just been one thing or another.

                And you know what? I don't miss it. I, too, get horrible show nerves and always wondered why I put myself through it.

                I much prefer to take lessons, participate in clinics or just school away from the farm. More bang for my buck, in my eyes.

                My horse is slowly "winding down" in his career. So I just enjoy hacking around on him and doing a little flat work/jumping.

                My pocketbook thanks me... that's for sure.

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                • #28
                  I was/am miserable showing. It wasn't fun for me even when we won big money classes. The pressure I put on myself and the horses ruins it, makes me physically sick and I can't seem to turn it off. (Hugely competitive former volleyball player.)

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                  • #29
                    I used to love showing as a teen -- but now that I'm in my 30s, have an 80 hour/week job and very little spare money -- no. It just doesn't make any sense to me. Spend hundreds of hours training and drilling for what, an eighty-cent ribbon? My riding instructor and I have had blow ups over this -- she lives for showing, is highly competitive, and I think, needs to prove herself. I can't stand showing. All I think about is what other good things that money could be doing. I don't care what anyone thinks of my riding, nor do I need to "prove" myself. The hell of it is, I have the best horse I've ever had in my life, one who really could take me up the levels easily, but . . . meh. There's lots of other things I'd rather do on a weekend.

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                    • #30
                      I never had any interest in showing as a kid. My sister did and I went occasionally as her groom.

                      As an adult, I started showing my little mare in the local pleasure and found that I really enjoyed it. It was fun going on outings with her and going to new places. And then I lost her

                      I showed summer before last with my gelding, and found I really don't enjoy it much any more, so last summer I didn't bother.

                      But I am still horse show mom extraordinaire Now THAT is what I find fun!
                      \"Tomorrow is a new day with no mistakes in it.\" Anne of Green Gables

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                      • #31
                        I love showing... I did when I was a kid and I do now. But I went through a time when it lost it's luster for me. I had a challenging horse and we really just needed to stay home and work through some issues rather than put the pressure of showing on ourselves. We made huge strides, unfortunately I lost him to an aneurysm before we were really ready to get out there. I feel very fortunate to have found my current horse on whom showing is a total blast whether we do well or not and I've found my passion for it again... My bank account is not quite so passionate about it however

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                        • #32
                          I enjoyed it at first, but NEVER took it seriously. Not in that I didn't train seriously for it, but I just couldn't get into the mind-set that my overly-serious trainers had - that it was "kill or be killed". Good f*cking grief!

                          I showed in both rated & schooling shows, & enjoyed simply having a good ride on my horse - or perhaps a not-so-good-but-educational ride on my horse. Frankly, I didn't give a rat's patootie re: pinning. I do have a collection of nice trophies & ribbons - from Champion down to 6th - & enjoyed earning every one of them. But they were just icing on enjoying a nice day with friends.

                          What I didn't enjoy? The nastiness, psycho-competitiveness, & even friends fighting/losing friends over a stupid-ass 25-cent piece of colored ribbon. Will NEVER understand that.

                          So enjoy it, those of you who do. I can only hope that you're mature enough not to let it ruin your core values. Frankly, I'm past all of that stuff now. Watch it now & then, but don't miss being in the middle of it.

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                          • #33
                            People change, and so do what we want to do. I used to like it, now it just seems like too much work. Besides the fact I am getting older, which doesn't help. Now, I would rather watch my trainer ride him in an occasional event - she makes him look SO GOOD. Or, I like going to clinics and dressing up. Kind of like getting all spiffed up to show, but not having all the show crap to deal with. Besides, I get way more out of a clinic for the $ than a show. JMHO.
                            Some days the best thing about my job is that the chair spins.

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                            • #34
                              I've been really wavering on showing lately. This will be my third spring since starting back with riding. First show season I was definitely not even considering showing (still getting back into the swing of things on a horse... And frankly enjoying that enough to keep me happy without the showing!) Second spring back (last year) i was just getting used to a new horse who hadn't been in consistent work. It took a little while for us to click- and once he moved back to his home barn (and i went with him) he settled a lot.
                              Trainer asked if I would be interested in showing this season. I said I would but I'd have to figure out work (I work weekends) and balancing missed work with the cost of showing and probably a new show coat.
                              Truthfully, I would rather do clinics or more lessons with that money. Or a hunter pace for the off farm experience without the pressure of showing. At the same time, though, i am curious about how well we'd do... Or it could be a total disaster lol!

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                              • #35
                                I thought that showing would be a fun weekend, that I'd be spending a lot of time around horses, do a little shopping, and enjoy the people. What happened was not at all like I pictured it. The show nerves were so bad that I couldn't sleep and I was exhausted. I hated being around so much tension in other people as well. I was very time pressured when it came down to trying to get my tack clean and my stuff packed to go to the show as well as work on studying my test and other expected preparation. I felt like I was in a total panic.
                                On the way home, I, as an adult amateur rider, realized that I had blown quite a bit of money and an entire weekend on it, and I had absolutely hated it. While I am sure that being evaluated that way does help your riding, I hope that taking lessons is benefitting my riding more. I'd still like to improve my riding, but sometimes I do feel like it is a bit of a waste because I no longer show. Occasionally I think I might like it better under different circumstances, but I tend to get really bad nerves. As an amateur, I really want to be able to have fun. Showing was not even close to what I thought it would be. Right now, I would not even consider going to another one.

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                                • #36
                                  I have never thought showing was fun. It's competitive and I hate people watching me.

                                  So instead, I trail ride. What I lust for now is a truck and trailer to be able to haul to a friends house or a different set of trails.

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                                  • #37
                                    Nope. Don't show now.

                                    When I was a kid I used to go to a few schooling shows a year. They were usually fun. Adults mostly rode Thoroughbreds (often from off the track) or QH Thoroughbred crosses. One guy had a nice Leopard Appy. Kids tended to ride Morgans or whatever hairy pony was in their backyard. Clothing didn't generate lots of angst. Velvet hunt caps were the only helmets available, so that's what you wore. Kids were in rubber boots: even the parents who were loaded thought it was stupid to replace multiple sets of leather boots each year as the kid outgrew them.

                                    The current show scene was a real culture shock to me when I got back into riding. Skunk stripe helmets in the hunter ring? (I don't recall seeing striped helmets in any paintings of people riding to hounds.) Gazillion dollar warmbloods? (Back in the day the only people I knew who spent that kind of money buying horses either had a whole string of polo ponies or else had racehorses.) Strategizing how to put your horse where it blocks the judge's view of your arch-rival's horse in the ring? (How unsportsmanlike.)

                                    I took my horse to one show as an adult. He didn't really like being away from home. I didn't really enjoy worrying about him, sitting around in the heat, and watching the rival barns staring daggers at each other. We got our ribbon and went home.

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                                    • #38
                                      I think the other thing that turned me off showing, as an adult anyway, was the fact that so many horses are kept with a trainer. The owner only rides at shows so really, why are they getting the applause and ribbon, they didn't do the work.

                                      no. just no. What I like about my horse is developed by riding, grooming and handling her myself.

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                                      • #39
                                        Originally posted by threedogpack
                                        ………I hate people watching me.
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                                        It took me 40+ yrs. to realize that I HATE BEING WATCHED. Not great for showing....

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                                          #40
                                          Originally posted by threedogpack View Post
                                          I think the other thing that turned me off showing, as an adult anyway, was the fact that so many horses are kept with a trainer. The owner only rides at shows so really, why are they getting the applause and ribbon, they didn't do the work.

                                          no. just no. What I like about my horse is developed by riding, grooming and handling her myself.
                                          I have enjoyed hearing every one's experience and opinion. Your post ^^ I could not agree more with! Though I know horse riding is hard regardless of how many training rides a trainer puts in on a clients horse, all the rider's at my barn have their horses ridden by our trainer about 3x a week. They even have the trainer get all the bucks out at the shows and have a groom do all the braiding and tacking up. All they do is get a leg up and look pretty from all the lessons they've had (at least 2 a week!). Because I did win, I found satisfaction in knowing that all the work/training/grooming was done by me.

                                          I don't keep my horse at the barn I ride at or have them do any training on him. I only take lessons and work.

                                          Another thing, I find it very strange that a lot of barns require you to have a coaching fee at a show? I have used a trainer as a coach to me at a show and never saw the point aside from enlargening their wallet. My current trainer doens't requrie it but a previous one did. It isn't like I'm going to have some huge revalation by a trainer standing there and therefore win at the class. What I know, I know and what I don't, I don't.

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