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Lost a friend today -- Vale Eva Marie Morrison

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  • Lost a friend today -- Vale Eva Marie Morrison

    I got the sad news this morning that my dear friend, who posted here as Tory Relic, passed away of what apparently was a massive heart attack. This was a huge shock; I’m still reeling, as are her husband, family and friends. Since we met via COTH and TR was a fairly regular poster here, it seems appropriate to post a small tribute.

    TR was the first to befriend me when I moved to this area. We had “met” first on COTH and then serendipitously in person shortly after I arrived here. Talk quickly turned to horses, COTH was mentioned and we realized we already knew each other, at least electronically. Some people don’t live up to their electronic personas in real life; TR was not such a person! She was amazingly easy-to-be-with, very generous with her time and skills, and a very dedicated horsewoman. She had recently returned professionally to her true passion – horsecare, training and riding instruction – and was very happy, as well as becoming successful. I am in shock that she will not be here to see that dream all the way through to fruition.

    Vale, TR, my wonderful friend. I hope you are having some wonderful gallops in the Summerland.
    Last edited by coloredhorse; Jul. 13, 2008, 08:43 AM.
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  • #2
    i'm so sorry!

    i remember tory relic's name from here.
    (((hugs))) to you and condolences to her family.
    TQ(Trail Queen) \"Learn How to Ride or Move Over!!\" Clique


    • #3
      So sorry,.....
      Tara, Formerly BlackWatchLady
      Located In Illinois


      • #4
        How shocking and horrible!! Prayers and healing thoughts to her friends and family. I am so sorry to hear this. R.I.P. TR.


        • #5
          I'm so sorry! (((hug))))
          My thoughts and prayers are with you and her family


          • #6
            I'm so sorry to hear this, I remember Tory Relic's posts well. My thoughts and prayers are with her family and friends.
            Please don't sabotash my conchess.


            • #7
              So very sorry, many prayers to you, to Tory and her family as well....


              • #8
                Truly sorry to hear of this. My heartfelt prayers go out to her family and friends.

                \"If you are going through hell, keep going.\" ~Churchill~


                • #9
                  Oh. I'm very sorry to hear about this - she was one of the many people I'd always meant to catch up with next time I was in the Camden area.

                  Condolences to her friends and family. This is really kind of shocking.
                  "talking about love is like dancing about architecture..."
                  A Wink & A NodPlaying by HeartA Wing & A PrayerBest to be Elusive


                  • #10
                    I am so sorry to hear this.
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                    • #11
                      I enjoyed reading her posts, I am so sorry for her family and your loss.
                      Yo/Yousolong April 23rd, 1985- April 15th, 2014



                      • #12
                        I am so very sorry to hear of Tori Relic's passing.

                        I'm sorry for the loss of your friend and my heart goes out to her husband and family.

                        I'm a frequent lurker, infrequent poster but I certainly do remember her very well.

                        Very, very sorry to hear.


                        • #13
                          My deepest condolences to TR's family and friends.
                          Save lives! Adopt a pet from your local shelter.


                          • #14
                            Aw what a shame! A true horse person!

                            My prayers from the repose of T.R.'s soul, and my thoughts and prayers for the friends and family. Godspeed T.R.
                            "If you don't know where you are going, any road will take you there"


                            • #15
                              Wow, so sorry to hear this. Condolences to her family and friends.


                              • #16
                                I'm so sorry to read this. My condolences go out to all her loved ones.

                                (Might I suggest that you consider putting her name in the title of this thread so people will be more likely to see it? Unfortunately there are so many "lost an [equine] friend" threads, especially lately it seems, that people who fondly remember Tory Relic might not ever see this thread.)


                                • #17
                                  Anymore, I try not to open threads with sad news, but this one somehow I looked at and I am glad, as I too looked forward to her posts, that will be no more.
                                  We never know when things will change in a second.

                                  Condolences to her family.


                                  • #18
                                    My deepest condolences to all who love her.
                                    Fenway Farm


                                    • #19

                                      coloredhorse - please PM me!!! Tory Relic and I had developed a friendship and I had so looked forward to her emails about the lessons the two of you had worked on.

                                      Please please please PM me - I am so very sorry.
                                      Brothers and sisters, I bid you beware
                                      Of giving your heart to a dog to tear.
                                      -Rudyard Kipling


                                      • #20
                                        What a shock! Condolences to you and her family!v