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  • Oh horse_poor, Im so sorry *big hug* You did a very brave thing for a very wonderful horse today.

    As I am in the process of making the same arrangements for my old draft mare today, I am certainly feeling and understanding your pain and I so hope I can be as brave as you were today.

    Godspeed Aero and Rest In Peace.

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    • <BLOCKQUOTE class="ip-ubbcode-quote"><font size="-1">quote:</font><HR>Originally posted by horse_poor:

      not loving him enough...... <HR></BLOCKQUOTE>

      This is just NOT possible. When I saw the topic "RIP Aero" I thought about how heartbroken you must be. I broke in to SOBS over a horse I do not know but feel I do because of your loving posts about him. Aero is real to many of us because of the love shining out from you for him. I hope you are beginning to feel better, but if not, I hope it comes with time. God bless you.

      Godspeed, Aero. There's a chestnut mare who has been at the Rainbow Bridge nearly 30 years that will welcome you with Willem and the others. I'm sure they will show you the ropes.

      Hugs, Molly.
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      • Hugs to you H-P and Aero.

        When I lost my dog Bandit back in December I found a wonderful website that was a huge help to me. Pet loss grief support website They have a wonderful chat room full of other people who are either going through what you are or have been there.

        It was a huge help to have people thath I could talk too that knew what I was feeling and going through. I would never have made it through some of the nights at work without them. Working midnights there aren't a lot of people I could call, but there was almost always some one I could talk to in that chat room.
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        • Just this side of heaven is a place called Rainbow Bridge.

          When an animal dies that has been especially close to someone here, that pet goes to Rainbow Bridge.
          There are meadows and hills for all of our special friends so they can run and play together.
          There is plenty of food, water and sunshine, and our friends are warm and comfortable.

          All the animals who had been ill and old are restored to health and vigor; those who were hurt or maimed are made whole and strong again, just as we remember them in our dreams of days and times gone by.
          The animals are happy and content, except for one small thing; they each miss someone very special to them, who had to be left behind.

          They all run and play together, but the day comes when one suddenly stops and looks into the distance. His bright eyes are intent; His eager body quivers. Suddenly he begins to run from the group, flying over the green grass, his legs carrying him faster and faster.

          You have been spotted, and when you and your special friend finally meet, you cling together in joyous reunion, never to be parted again. The happy kisses rain upon your face; your hands again caress the beloved head, and you look once more into the trusting eyes of your pet, so long gone from your life but never absent from your heart.

          Then you cross Rainbow Bridge together....

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          • Oh H-P, I am sorry for your loss, but like everyone else said Aero is painfree and happy. Cry all you need to and eventually the pain will lessen, even though it never goes away. I always feel like that pain I have when I think of my boys is my reminder of them. In some strange way it brings me comfort to think I still have that much of a feeling for them. I will be thinking of you.
            Life is not measured by the number of breaths we take, but by the moments that take our breath away.

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            • Typing through tears.. I am so sorry Horsepoor, my heart truly goes out to you.. (((HUG)))
              Godspeed Aero, run wild and free forever..

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              • So very, very sorry for your loss.
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                • Dear Fraulein horse_poor,

                  Don't not be worried. I have seen Aero this morgen. He haff comed by mein Haus to borrow meine ice cream maker. He be so happy becose he gesayed he don't not be on his Atkins diet anymore. He had a friend mit him too, a very big, sexy, handsome chestnut guy mit sunglasses on. They were planning a sehr big party and saying it vould be mucho fun. They have both said that we vill all be invited to the Party. Aber it vill take make time to get die invitations engraved. And they have gesayed that managing die traffic im der Tunnel vould take some doing too. They might need valet parking. But it going to be really fun.

                  Aero, he be zo funny. He must be feeling good becose he vas dancing! He beed zo happy. I haff not never seen him like dis. He don't not even be vorried about der papparazzi anymore. He even gesayed Di told him don't not to worry about them. He vas zo silly. He haff gesayed that it might take zome time to get the party ready and he vill be sehr busy. But we vill see him again.

                  Then my modder (I loff her) have come to der barn and I had to go. Aber Aero und his handsome friend have gived me sehr big smuchos and left. I can't wait to see them again

                  xoxoxoxoxox

                  Dorina

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                  • Oh, Dorina. I am so glad you saw both of them.

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                    • &lt;hugs&gt; I'm so very sorry for your loss

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                      • I am so very sorry. My heart is breaking for you.
                        Stay strong.

                        Cedarmyboy sends his love.

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                        • horse_poor, you did the right thing. In your heart you must know that. When I let Lady go, I was immediately hit with such a wave of love and gratitude that I actually didn't cry much. I expected to be a wreck, but I wasn't. I found peace in knowing that I had made the right choice. That's not to say there were never any gut-wrenching, bawling-till-you-gag moments...there were plenty of those for the first few days. But after that, things got better and better; a week or two later, I felt human again. Time heals; it doesn't make you forget, but it does heal. I lost Lady three years ago. I can now think of her and all we went through without shedding a tear (most of the time ), because I know I did the very best I could, and because I listened to her when she told me, "No more." I feel no shame or guilt for allowing her to pass with dignity and respect.

                          Aero will always be with you; nothing that touches our heart can ever be taken from us. I realized this after Lady died; it was as if all the love we shared came back to me, and suddenly I realized her legacy is ME. She taught me so many things: patience, persistence, trust, and so much more. Every time I use a skill I learned by riding and working with her, I honor her memory.

                          I will close by sharing something very special that happened to me not long after Lady's passing. I was at the barn one night, doing my regular chores, and just really, really missing her. I went up the ramp to dump a wheelbarrow in the dump truck, and I looked up at the night sky. For the two years Lady was sick (Cushing's), I would always look at the stars and wonder when she would be joining them. I would remind myself that those stars had been there since long before she was born, and would be there long after she and I were both gone. This cosmic reality always brought me some comfort.

                          On this night, the moment I looked up at the sky, a very bright shooting star flashed overhead...and somehow, I knew Lady had found a way to tell me she was now flying free. I don't clearly remember, as I was so emotional at the time...but I'm pretty sure I waved.

                          Godspeed, Aero...and many ((((((hugs)))))) to you, horse_poor. You will get through this.

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                          • May you find comfort in your memories and in your heart.

                            I am so sorry.
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                            • Horse_Poor,

                              I've been sitting here reading this thread with tears running down my face, and my heart is breaking for you.

                              Know that you are a true hero and horsewoman, to know when it is time and to let Aero cross the Bridge with love. Many many hugs!

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                              • omg hp - i don't cry easily - but i can't even see the screen - you did the good thing - but it doesn't make it any easier.
                                all i can say is my heart weaps for you. and i pray that i have your strength and grace when my turn comes.

                                aero - we all loved you.
                                hp we all love you.

                                dana
                                "The way to gain a good reputation is to endeavor to be what you desire to appear" ~ Socrates

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                                • We grieve for you, HP, the horses and I. May Aero be with you, sleeping and waking. You will feel him all around you, for he is, and will always be, part of you. Hugs.
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                                  • Big, giant, warm hugs for you!

                                    ((( )))

                                    Treasure everything Aero gave to you. Where are they? They'll always be right next to your heart.

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                                    • HP~ I am so very sorry for your loss. Godspeed to Aero, he's in a better place, and you did make the right decision, even if it was the toughest of your life. I dread the day when I have to do the same for my dear sweet Scarlett... {{{HUGS}}}
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                                        They came and picked him up. I was on the phone with a co-boarder when they did it. And I did not even know it. The co-boarder I was speaking to is the owner of Molly, Aeros best friend--I went to tell her what happened and as I walked to her stal tracey said "Be careful, she is very cranky--i cannot even get her out of her stall" so I walked into her stall and she sniffed my coat and pinned her ears, sniffed my coat and pinned her ears, sniffed my coat and pinned her ears and finally walked away looking sad.

                                        I had made a big ordeal to be gone when they came and left the check in the barn for Tracey to give to them---as I was walking out to the barn to tell Katie her car lights were on, I saw the blanket that covered him hanging on the fence.

                                        Immediately I was pissed---I did not want him to get cold. I wadded up the blanket and went to the round pen to recover him and he was gone.

                                        Stunned, I stood there staring at the spot he had laid in. He was gone.

                                        I went into the barn and asked Tracey if they came to get him. (Where else he would be I do not know--my mind is not working properly) She looked at the ground and said yes. I then asked if they were nice. She said yes. I asked if it was terribly horrific and she said not really and started too go into deatil and I covered my ears and said I did not want to know.

                                        I walked out of the barn and told Katie what happened and did not cry--then walked into the house and looked around. I had his tablecloth sheet that I took off him before he corssed, the blanket covering him when he crossed, a baggie of poop in my pocket, his sheet Iwas mending---what to do with it? His special miffins all over the kitchen and Rosinas blankets spread all over the floor for mending.

                                        I grabbed my purse and went to the store for pop, chocolate, and cigarettes, the 3 things sustaining me--driving was scary--was not really seeing the road and do not know how I got there and back.

                                        I got home and looked around again and was not quite sure where to start, so I did what any sane person would do and called Coreene.

                                        I feel like I smell like death and need to finish mending Rosinas blankets--browns PPE is tomorrow so I am hoping Aero gives him the energy to give it all he has as I simply do not have the emotion to deal with Brown issues right now.

                                        It is weird to not think of horses in 3's any longer--keep thinking I need to worm three horses, vaccinate three horses, etc. If Brown "passes" his PPE, I will only have one to worry about--that is very weird.

                                        Thank Gawd Rosina is already here as she will not have to carry the burden of being Aeros replacement---I cn only hope Aero comes back to me in her foals--i wish I knew Aeros bloodlines as I would breed her to someone in his line. But Aero is like legend--it all begins and ends with him

                                        i just cannot believ he is gone--
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                                        • I am so sorry...I am sitting here with tears running down my face, and will go give hugs to everyone.

                                          Take care

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