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Life Can Be So Cruel.....

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  • Life Can Be So Cruel.....

    Just when I thought things couldn't get any harder.....

    I buried my father last week unexpectedly, and have been trying to deal with that grief and last night I was dealt a terrible blow. I went out in the middle of the night because it was starting to storm to bring my horses in and my heart sank when my filly didn't come to the gate. I found her somehow outside the paddock and her leg was broken....My beautiful Ella, only 18 months old, gone too soon...This is so gut wrenching, I can't even believe it is real, I feel like I am living a nightmare.

    RIP sweet Ella
    RIP My Beautiful Kevin
    RIP Sweet Ella

  • #2
    I'm so sorry.
    "Rock n' roll's not through, yeah, I'm sewing wings on this thing." --Destroyer


    • #3
      How absolutely awful. I am so sorry, and hope that the future is full of good things for you.
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      • #4
        I am so sorry for both your losses!!

        Life can be so cruel sometimes.......it is especially hard to lose the young ones. I lost two horses last year just two weeks apart. Both of them were once in a lifetime horses and one was my whole world. Also lost my father-in-law last year unexpectedly too.

        My heart goes out to you!! Sending a big old COTH hug to you
        RIP Sucha Smooth Whiskey
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        May 3, 1991 - March 11, 2010


        • #5
          I can't even fathom the pain you are in right. Hugs and jingles to you
          \"Tomorrow is a new day with no mistakes in it.\" Anne of Green Gables


          • #6
            (((( many hugs ))))
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            • #7
              I'm so sorry, I can't imagine what that second blow has done, there are no words that I can think of to even try and make things any better, so all I can do is send a cyber (hug).

              Things will get better, it just takes time for the sun to come out again.
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              • #8
                I am so sorry for your losses. Although it seems impossible now, things will get better, and perhaps in time a reason for this misfortune will make itself known. We never know what the future holds, and sometimes God's greatest gifts are unanswered prayers. May you find peace and acceptance in the memories of both your father and Ella.
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                • #9
                  I'm so sorry ((((((hugs)))))))


                  • #10
                    I'm so sorry for your losses..... hang in there {{{{HUGS}}}}
                    Y'all ain't right!


                    • #11
                      So sorry

                      I'm so very sorry! Hugs from KY.
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                      • #12
                        thinking of you

                        Yes, this is a nightmarish time for you. I'm so very sorry about your painful losses. Sending supportive thoughts your way.


                        • #13
                          I'm so sorry for the loss of your father and now your filly. I can't imagine the pain you are feeling now. (((hugs)))


                          • #14
                            More hugs.....


                            • Original Poster

                              Thank you so much for all the hugs and nice thoughts...I knew people here would understand my pain....This is the second horse of a lifetime I have lost in less then two years, both young, they are such fragile creatures....
                              RIP My Beautiful Kevin
                              RIP Sweet Ella


                              • #16
                                My father's unexpected death hit me very hard almost 7 years ago. You have my deepest sympathies on the loss of your father, I know that pain very well. It does just seem extra cruel to take your filly too. I'm sending extra {{hugs}}. So, so sorry for your losses.
                                "My biggest fear is that when I die my husband is going to try to sell all my horses and tack for what I told him they cost."


                                • #17
                                  So sorry, yes, things happen and just keep happening, some times good ones, others hard to understand.



                                  • #18
                                    I'm so sorry. Many, many hugs

                                    I reject your reality, and substitute my own- Adam Savage

                                    R.I.P Ron Smith, you'll be greatly missed


                                    • #19
                                      So sorry for your losses. (((hugs)))


                                      • #20
                                        So sorry. Lots of hugs!!!
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