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  • #21
    Originally posted by Go Fish View Post
    I've never thought of it that way. I normally think "that's not the horse for me," or "that horse would scare me to death." Something like that.

    I've OWNED horses I hated. Does that count?
    HAHAHA!!That is EXACTLY my take on it. Although I do have one friend who has a horse and if her were my horse I would have killed him by now. But,she has worked hard with him and I respect her for that and I couldn't say I don't like the horse just because he ain't my cup of tea..

    Now, this mare I'm about to get back - she's a bitch on wheels. I don't even like her but I wouldn't expect my friends not to like her..unless I expected them to put up with her sh*t.

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    • #22
      Ah my friends all have nice horses. At least most of them do. Nice as in good, solid citizens, relatively sound. Not necessarily fancy but fancy doesn't matter to me.

      I'm usually the one with the crazy, misfit, project, reject, b@stard horse that no one else likes! My current horse is kind of aloof and gives the hairy eyeball but he's a good egg, and many of my friends have grown to love him.

      I can't wait for the day I get to be the cool kid and have the nice horse again.... maybe someday!!!
      We couldn't all be cowboys, so some of us are clowns.

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      • #23
        There are only one or two horses I've ever REALLY disliked, and none of them were owned by friends! All of my horse-owning friends are mounted appropriately and give good care, so i'm not really fussed about it.

        Though my best friend from college has a little Arab gelding that she says is going to me if anything ever happens to her. Sweet, cool little horse, but definitely has the Arab spook/only works his best for HIS person/is slightly neurotic... so I secretly hope I never have to take him!
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        • #24
          I like almost all horses, including my friend's horses. Rarely have I met a horse that had an evil soul and was a genuine jerk. Usually jerk horses are poorly trained, in a lot of physical pain, have had extremely bad/abusive experiences in the past, or have neurological issues. Disliking a horse's training or situation is not the same as disliking the horse.

          If my friend owned a horse who lashed out at people in the barn aisle and behaved abysmally under saddle, I'd strongly suspect pain.
          Last edited by jn4jenny; Feb. 24, 2011, 01:02 PM.
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          • #25
            Yep I can name 2 right off the top of my head. One I can only think (in my head of course) why oh why did you buy THAT horse. Nothing to look at, nothing... just nothing...


            The other one is a head job...

            Sorry friends!

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            • #26
              Originally posted by SAShugars View Post
              I normally like most horses, but I absolutely can't stand my friend's horse. He's mean in his stall (pins his ears and tries to bite, even if you're just walking by)
              How bout you guys?

              LOL that is my horse. However, put a saddle on him and you will have a nothing but stellar performances from him..

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              • #27
                A good friend of mine has one I cannot stand. She tried to give him to me. I told her she'd have to pay someone to take him.

                He's the type that's nasty (kicks & bites HARD making tacking up such fun! , will ignore your leg, etc.) if he's allowed to, but if you kick his @ss, he's fine.

                She used to pay me to ride him when she was still having hopes of glory days... then when I got super-busy with others, I handed that job off to one of my students. I told her it was a good experience to remind her to always have self-preservation.

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                • #28
                  Originally posted by Bluey View Post
                  Hmmm, never gave that a thought, because I imagine if they have those horses they have is because that is the horses they want to have.

                  My friends have barrel racing horses, or arena roping horses, or their own breeding horse preferences and that is fine, not for me to judge.

                  Now I wonder, do they like MY horses?
                  when all you do is hear them complain about their beloved Muffin then you get to judge...but only then.

                  ugggh.

                  Some people just like the self abuse of having an sour horse.

                  for me, I can deal with a VICE if the horse dishes out stellar performances consistently.

                  I have a friend who tortures herself with her horse. Not only is he an ass but he's always unsound and needing the next best treatment and he shows poorly on top of it all. Furthermore, she has a perfectly sweet 4 year old in the pasture with better breeding and a great personality that she won't touch.

                  I would not be bothered at all but I have to hear about said horse and his antics alll the time. And I also am the shoulder to cry on at every show when muffin once again blows a boiler in Dressage.

                  Why people deal with such a horses I have no idea. I always say that horses cost too much to deal with BS. There is always a good natured one down the road that would love to live it up. I have a zero tolerance for poor personalities.
                  Last edited by purplnurpl; Feb. 24, 2011, 01:28 PM.
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                  • #29
                    Originally posted by Bluey View Post
                    Hmmm, never gave that a thought, because I imagine if they have those horses they have is because that is the horses they want to have.
                    excellent statement.
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                    • #30
                      Several....in almost all cases it has been due to relatively novice owners (or owners that view them as pets) and a lack of training (in the owner as well as the horse in at least one case).

                      Only two horses that I can think of that I really truly disliked the horse itself...one was a Paint gelding that my aunt/uncle owned when I spent a summer on their farm at the age of 13. That nasty SOB almost cured me of horses. Bite, kick, scrape you off on anything he could find, flip himself over to get you off, bite the rider on the neighboring horse (or the horse), grab the bit/run like hell to the pond (which contained both snapping turtles and water moccasins...both of which I'm certain, 50 years later, this horse was well aware of)/drop his head as he got to the top of the bank and slam on the brakes....my uncle wouldn't let me ride with a saddle (due to flipping over issue!)...so I'd launch over his ears into the pond.

                      The other was a stallion owned by a friend...big gorgeous very well bred (halter/pleasure) bay leopard thing with pedigree up the wazoo and attitude....her other stallion was one you could play "tag" with in the arena and a lot of fun. The new boy was loose in the arena when I showed up to see him...owner didn't say anything about bad behavior (still trying to give her the benefit of the doubt and saying she may not yet have known...but....) so I went INTO the arena to see him, meet him. Dumbie me invites him to play and he acts like he wants to do this...so I do a little duck and dive (playing with cutting horses is a bit different!) and he's right on... matching me, blocking and giving me a truly evil staredown. I freeze and hear a voice (girlfriend) saying not to move, that he would pick me up next (WTF!!!) and she'd come get him....never moved a hair, scared to breathe! She got him caught and back into his stall....turns out he was dangerously aggressive if you were moving around him and he was free....had to be cross tied for nearly everything. Also was a raging maniac at breeding. STILL trying to convince myself she really didn't know but....I think maybe she did....why else tell me not to move?
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                      • #31
                        My one friend has 2 QH crosses. One isn't so bad but is obnoxious when you ride her because all she wants to do is go sideways to the barn when you get in the closest corner of the field. The other? Ugh. She's pissy and has these short choppy gaits and a short ewe neck. Friend hardly rides and won't get on if she does anything naughty. I know I sometimes lunge my guy first so he bucks on the line- not with me on him. Plus her mare doesn't respect her handler.

                        My aunts horses don't respect anyone either. It's a pain when she wants me to pull their manes or anything. She babies them to no end and it drives me nuts.

                        Every single one of mine have excellent ground manners and will respect whoever is handling them. Riding on the other hand? Well they aren't the least bit barn sour! And w/t/c when asked.

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                        • #32
                          There are a few that I don't like too much. Of course, my horse has moments where I don't like him too much either.

                          None of my friends' horses are bad (nasty kickers/biters), but they just aren't my style, so to speak.

                          There is one you would have to pay me to take though...

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                          • #33
                            funny, since I feel much more on the opposite side of the issue....
                            My friends have long put up with my eccentric gelding---He is who he is, and he's ours and well loved, but he's not the sharpest tool in the shed, and I've always been so appreciative of those who care about me, and him ...even with his faults.
                            Its helped so much over the years to have good friends to ride with and share with that often have much better citizens under their saddle.
                            ayrabz
                            "Indecision may or may not be my problem"
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                            • #34
                              There's a horse I ride for owner LOVE him undersaddle but really can't stand him on the ground. Pins ears and bares teeth when grooming or even petting at that matter. But he's just so nice undersaddle it's hard to dislike the guy
                              Spend so much time improving yourself that you have no time left to criticize others.

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                              • #35
                                Well, I do dislike some... I can't stand spoiled and rude ( horses and human).
                                Quirky is Ok ( horses and humans). I kind of have that saddle psychiatrist problem w/ them.
                                Come to the dark side, we have cookies

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                                • #36
                                  like jn4jenny said...

                                  I know that "to understand all is to forgive all" and "hate the sin not the sinner" but I strongly dislike horses that have hurt my horse or ones that have attempted to hurt me or have done so.....I know they're the victim of their early handling/training or lack thereof...but I also think there are some that are just plain sh!ts....it's the old nature versus nurture debate.

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                                  • #37
                                    I'm not particularly fond of one of my friends' horses, nice (Very Nice) horse, just not my cup of tea. I don't necessarily like/agree with some of her policies regarding the horse and care/management (nothing unsafe/inhumane/etc, again, just not my preferred style) While the horse would not be my choice to own, friend absolutely loves him- thats really all that matters to me, I'm glad shes happy. I'm just glad to go see my horses after I'm done working with her horse, which only happens on occasion anyway.

                                    Same friend, however, Does Not Like my older horse (incidentally, same goes for most people, he's not a popular horse by any stretch)

                                    We just happily accept that we each aren't particularly fond of eachothers' horses, she loves hers, I love mine, and go merrily on our way

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                                    • #38
                                      I know of two. In both cases horses are nice, cute,solid citizens, but I just do not like them. It isn't as strong as dislike, just apathy. I have no reao idea why. I think it maybe because they both has minimal personality. I am glad that my friends love them, and appriciate them for that, but I would not take them if offered.
                                      The Procrastinators Anonymous meeting has been postponed again.

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                                      • #39
                                        o'rien is a sweet heart.

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                                        • #40
                                          I hate to say it, but I don't usually like other people's horses. Not because mine is so marvellous, or theirs are so awful, it's a bit like my husband - I'm just used to my horse, we fit each other and are comfortable for the most part together.

                                          I can't ever say I've ever wanted someone else's horse over my own - again, sort of like my children, for better or worse, I love them more than any body else's kids.

                                          My horse goes how I like her to, responds to my aids like I like her to, and I don't enjoy riding other people's horses at all...and avoid them at all costs. I could never go and join a riding school. All my horses go my way.
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