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  • <BLOCKQUOTE class="ip-ubbcode-quote"><font size="-1">quote:</font><HR>Originally posted by Mallard's Mum:
    Happy birthday Gunnar, remember we are all like wine, as we age we only get better!

    Just got this email from a friend - it is so appropriate to our discussion, I just had to post it. Enjoy, apoligies to those under 40.

    ANDY ROONEY'S VIEW OF WOMEN OVER 40
    &gt;
    South Georgia Clique
    Why walk, when you can ride!<HR></BLOCKQUOTE>

    Hey Mallard's Mom and all others who have sent well wishes. I love my b-day and like to celebrate for a week. Age is only in your mind (and your flat butt, as one of you mentioned)but time sure does fly! Thanks for the b-day wishes and Andy's Rooney's view is appropriate for my age group.


    "Angels fly because they take themselves lightly."

    Steph
    Steph

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    • Oh man! I love this thread! I started up again after 8 years off, and boy! was I discouraged for a few months as my body refused to do what I remembered it bein able to do..and refused to listen to what I was trying to get it to do!

      And just as I was finally getting back..I had to stop lessons It's been 5 months since my last lesson and I REFUSE to go another 7 years again!

      I do think I appreciate riding more now than I did as a kid/teen.

      Member of the drafties/drafties X clique, and the tall people clique!

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      • Another vote for "Re-riders" as the official clique name!

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        • I was "blessed" with a trainer who was "fashion-forward", which meant that she would intimidate my mom into buying me nicer clothes with the threat that I'd never win an eq class looking like a dowd. [Note: my mom, bless her, didn't understand that I didn't usually win the eq because I was generally trying to keep my green baby horses from imploding and in consequence, was as far from "elegant and poised" as a clump of mud is from an orchid]. My fashionable trainer's husband, my other trainer who I'd ridden with since I was 8, couldn't care less, but Cookie was exceedingly scary when it came to this sort of thing, and she had my mom wrapped around her little finger.

          On to my point: due to Cookie's prescience about trends, I wore TS in the juniors when I was 16, so that was around 1985-86. I think. If not then, then it was 1987, but no later. I have photographic proof.

          Re-riders- walk (carefully) on!!!

          You can take a line and say it isn't straight- but that wont change its shape. Jets to Brazil
          You can take a line and say it isn't straight- but that won't change its shape. Jets to Brazil

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          • I am not quite sure what is required to form a clique on this BB, though this thread is just wonderful.
            I don't like Hags on Nags because it makes it exclusively female. Though all the posts on this thread appear to be female, do we want to exclude the Baby Boom boys? They may be out there, but not as verbal as we gals and just lurking.
            Rusty Stirrup is OK but not compelling.
            I like the Baby Boom acronym (fogot the details) but it won't be understood by anyone other than insiders.
            How about Vintage Riders?
            Since this thread is getting awfully long, I'm going to start a new one on a riding issue for us all, using Vintage Riders as a tag.

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            • <BLOCKQUOTE class="ip-ubbcode-quote"><font size="-1">quote:</font><HR>Originally posted by dizzywriter:
              How about Vintage Riders?

              <HR></BLOCKQUOTE>

              Man, first I'm a Hag, now I'm Vintage? One of those six men is never gonna give me a look.

              I don't qualify for vintage or baby-boomer. The juniors might tell you differently, mocking me for my old fashioned ways, but I just chuckle bemusedly to myself and mutter, "we'll get you, my pretty. And you're little dog too."

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              • Original Poster

                Well, whatever we decide to call ourselves, I just want to thank all of you. When I initiated this thread I was so sad and depressed, despite the humorous tone, yep, the night before I had gone home and cried in the shower. So thanks to everyone for making me feel much, much better When you are feeling down on yourself, it's nice to know that other people have the same feelings. It really got me to lighten up on me--and I am sure my horse would thank you too

                So everybody, Vintage Riders, Re-Riders, Rusties, whatever, a big THANK YOU and group hug!
                \"Tomorrow is a new day with no mistakes in it.\" Anne of Green Gables

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                • Right back at ya Skeezy! Can I call you Skeezy? Just kidding! I actually couldn't spell your username!

                  Seriously, though, I think there are so many of us Re-riders who have gone through the exact same thing. There are days when I don't even want to go out to ride because I hate how crappy I am it! To which my husband tells me- belt up, stop being a baby and go ride, you'll feel better. He's usually right, but it is *really* hard when what you want to do and what you are able to do at that moment are totally not in tune! In my mind, I see myself moving as one with the horse- in reality, I am often moving as one with myself while the horse (who probably wishes I'd just cut it out) is doing something else!

                  Here's to us- older, wiser, more stiff (I don't like the way "stiffer" sounds, do you?), but with better fashion sense and a well-developed palate- including knowledge of what good white wine is supposed to taste like!

                  You can take a line and say it isn't straight- but that wont change its shape. Jets to Brazil
                  You can take a line and say it isn't straight- but that won't change its shape. Jets to Brazil

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                  • Hey, how about the Fabulous Flabbies? That way those of us who are under 40 won't feel like they are old, aged or vintage (this does not include me by the way). Since most of us have problems with body condition and the function of those flabby muscles, I think this is appropriate.
                    What say you?

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                    • i came back to riding about a year ago after being off a good 20 years. It wasn't something i thought about doing seriously until my son quit riding and i suddenly inherited a horse. It has been hell both mentally and physically. I equate the whole thing to the difference in dial up internet access and high speed. I am slow, slow, slow! i dont process info as quickly therefore it takes me longer to give aides, my body is slow to responed once i get that info straight in my head. It really is a hoot, i am sure i drive my coach insane. The other thing is FEAR, why am i afraid, for goodness sakes what am i afraid of? For pete sakes will someone tell me how to breath? I seem to always be afraid of things that never happen. I like the rusty stirrup name, it fits, still good just slightly used.
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                      • Re-riders is great!

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                        • I have posted yet, but I also fall into this category after first a 13 yr hiatus away from horses and then deciding to buy a horse that has issues, which I later found including chronic chiro issues which kept me mostly grounded for another 2 yrs.

                          It is discouraging to remember that I use to start horses professionally and now I wonder if I'm on the right lead. Makes it worse that I don't have any possible instructors within a 2hr area that I'm impressed with.

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                          • Oh everybody, help! I am also an oldie returning to riding and having so much fun. Such joy to be dancing with your horse, to be out in nature, horses are so content and calming. I love to hear them munching their grass. I love their warm smell. I love the mystery of them, figuring out what they are needing, where they hurt, how they feel, what they are saying to us and to each other.

                            Except ... I have had two accidents now in the past year, both stupid, both hardly even riding accidents, but I got a mild concussion in both. Oh yeah I was wearing a helmet! Hey, I have had concussions in riding accidents as a teen but NOW it scares me. I am ready to give my horse away. Have scheduled a hand-holding riding lesson tomorrow with my dear instructor on a horse that is old enough to drink in the state of Utah.

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                            • Add one more to the list!! 20 yrs off from riding and STILL trying to get back in the saddle on a regular basis.

                              After 20 yrs. away from horses I finally found myself in a financial position to purchase a horse, start lessons (notice that I did things backwards???) and then ride off into the sunset. Yeah....right.

                              My first horse after 20 yrs. away was a rescue. After seeing her plight and the plight of others, I felt compelled to try to help some of the horses if possible. Sheesh......to make a long story short we are now a horse rescue and I don't have time to ride because I am busy caring for the horses. Plus, as I am basically the only one here most of the time, I find myself afraid to climb on my riding horse because 1)he hasn't been ridden in months; and 2)I am not confident enough in my mediocre riding skills to attempt anything without someone here. I feel like a BIG weanie and a fool.

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                              • <BLOCKQUOTE class="ip-ubbcode-quote"><font size="-1">quote:</font><HR>Originally posted by Babs:
                                Except ... I have had two accidents now in the past year, both stupid, both hardly even riding accidents, but I got a mild concussion in both. Oh yeah I was wearing a helmet! Hey, I have had concussions in riding accidents as a teen but NOW it scares me. I am ready to give my horse away. Have scheduled a hand-holding riding lesson tomorrow with my dear instructor on a horse that is old enough to drink in the state of Utah.<HR></BLOCKQUOTE>

                                Babs,

                                Just think of the smells and contentment from the ground. And if you have a talker, how excited to see those carrots... hmmmm, I mean you

                                I've had my gelding a little over two years and have come off him 7 times. The father of a gal who boards saw the one last week and was all concerned for me and gave me the oddest look when I told him I was okay and that it was best fall off Ah Men so far

                                For me it helped to figure out as best I could what caused the dumps and then work to keep that from happening again. Also helped for him to get a good physiologist and chiropractor involved.

                                Let us know how your lesson went

                                [This message was edited by Weebonilass on Apr. 15, 2004 at 03:26 PM.]

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                                • Can I join too? You guys are going to love this. I have concentrated on breeding for many years and suffered a head injury (non horse related) last year. I decided to get back into the saddle and have some wonderful warmblood mares. Well they are all way too powerful for me at this stage and just what a real rider would want. So I just purchased an OTTB that is somewhere between 8 and 13 yrs old. I had him for a week trial. I looked at him and told him that we had both seen better times and that he was either going to be my best friend or he had to go back to where he came from. He decided to be my best friend. He needs some tlc, he is short strided, jumps flat, has no engine and I love him. He is the horse no one would want but he is exactly what I need right now. The perfect old lady horse!!

                                  Denise Higgins www.bluemoonfarms.net
                                  Domestic & Imported Warmbloods
                                  It's not true that I had nothing on. I had the radio on.”
                                  ? Marilyn Monroe

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                                  • OK well I am old, but have been riding for 15 years...I'm only "back " in lessons after hellish winter weather messed with driving and footing issues. Does that count? My walk/trot lesson yesterday DOES have me crippled???

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                                    • Hey you guys, all are welcome. Our lives are intertwined with these wonderful animals, even if sometimes they throw us on the ground, kick us, bite us, they still love us unconditionally. They enrich our lives beyond measure and are always there to make that bad day seem better. I am a working adult rider and find it hard to ride after working but after I am done boy do I feel better. Keep on riding, however and whenever you can and enjoy it to the hilt. Life is short.

                                      And always remember what the mane is for (grabbing that is)!

                                      "Angels fly because they take themselves lightly."

                                      Steph
                                      Steph

                                      http://community.webshots.com/user/stephanne014

                                      Rerider/Haydunker Clique

                                      RIP Barbaro, you were my hero!

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                                      • I'm lovin' reading about all the Re-Riders. I like 'Hags on Nags' too, but it does rather draw a picture in one's mind that isn't--eh--attractive. Junior Seniors (JS instead of JA) would fit--or is that Senior Juniors???Heh, whatever.

                                        Like just about everybody else, I'm in that half-century range, and have loved horses for my entire life. Rode all summer long, every summer from the time I was 9 until I was 18. Had to give it all up when I married (at 18) and went to Hawaii with my soldier husband. Fast forward through one divorce, a new husband, and two (long ago) pregnancies--and I decided at 47 that I needed to get back to the horses, my first true love.

                                        Living here in the middle of Kansas, you'd think there were endless opportunities to ride. I mean, we're talking MILES of open land, cowboys abound, Quarterhorse country and all that. Well, I've found it anything but easy...

                                        Lessons were a nightmare. Either it's was too hot--or too cold, or 'way too expensive. The first instructor I went to insisted I pay from the moment my tires hit the gravel in her driveway--even if it took her 30 minutes to get her skanky butt out of the house and out to me! I took 4 'lessons' from her and never sat on a horse.... Which impelled me on to Instructor #2, who felt that besides taking lessons (I did ride an actual horse this time!) I got to feed her horses and muck stalls, which she considered part of EVERY lesson. Hmmmmm. There are many Western Pleasure-type lesson camps around, but English? Ha ha! I want to ride ENGLISH. I have a Wintec GP and I love the way it suits my expansive a$$ and expecially the way my ankles and knees aren't screaming after an extended ride.

                                        So now I'm trying to teach myself to ride while riding a western-pleasure trained horse--in a darned western saddle, too. Leg cues, neck reining, seat cues and position, and this horse HATES it when I post his trot. I've gotten a soft rideable trot out of him ONCE, just last saturday ( I actually cried, it was so beautiful), and I've been seeking that trot ever since. This guy is HUGE, 16.2, with massive bone and broad as a truck. He has so much power that his softest canter is far beyond me, and when he does an medium extended trot, I find myself up in the stirrups, gripping with my legs and my shoulders and hips playing 'speed accordian' with my belly. Predictably, he gets hollow, turns his head to the side and looks at me like "Jeeze, easy on the back there, blimpo!"

                                        Actually, he's a good egg--has never dumped me. He's moved to KEEP me in the saddle more than once--I love this horse, but--Alas, he's not mine, just a 'borrowed' gelding from the barn owner. No, MY horse is the 20 year young Arabian mare that I bought knowing she had a recently-injured big ankle and was suffering from neglect. She's a good deal closer to the ground, is an experienced trail horse, and owns every bit of my heart that my hubby and kids don't (oh, and the big gelding-guy).

                                        I am basically on my own because there is nobody who will come to the barn and give me lessons, nobody who will longe him while I work on position and leg strength. Nobody is interested in riding 'on the bit' when western pleasure horses usually ride 'on the buckle'. Sigh.

                                        It's almost enough to make one wish to move East.....

                                        My dream is to----GO FOX HUNTING! I don't want to show, I want to RIDE, and I fantasize about fox hunting. The entire idea of galloping cross-country with an entire heck-load of similarly-insane folks just appeals to me at a cellular level! I've done trailrides in the past year that consisted of fox hunts WITHOUT the fox (just a steady gallop, fast trot, over several miles of obstacle-strewn landscape--oh joy)

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                                        • I'm the first in 7 generations NOT to have foxhunted.

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