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MY HORSE PERISHED IN THE FIRE IN NORTHERN VA

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  • <BLOCKQUOTE class="ip-ubbcode-quote"><div class="ip-ubbcode-quote-title">quote:</div><div class="ip-ubbcode-quote-content">Originally posted by LUVMYQH:
    You know that all of us on COTH are grieving with you, not just for you...with you. You are experiencing one of our greatest fears and have lost one of your greatest treasures. </div></BLOCKQUOTE>

    My thoughts exactly. So, so, so sorry for your loss!
    Amwrider: May the fleas of a thousand camels infest their genitalia and may their arms be too short to scratch.

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    • RTR - tried to write something comforting, but just can't find words. Deep and sincere condolences on your loss.

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      • So very sorry for your loss.

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        • My sincere condolences go out to you and all your barn buddies. How awful...my worse nightmare!

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          • I am so sorry. I offer my deepest sympathies, and hope you are OK. What a nightmare.

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            • I am so sorry. My thoughts are with you. Lots of hugs from GA.
              Life is great when you can hug a horse.

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              • My deepest condolences for your loss....

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                • <BLOCKQUOTE class="ip-ubbcode-quote"><div class="ip-ubbcode-quote-title">quote:</div><div class="ip-ubbcode-quote-content">You know that all of us on COTH are grieving with you, not just for you...with you. You are experiencing one of our greatest fears and have lost one of your greatest treasures. Oh I wish that none of us would ever experience a loss due to fire ever again. </div></BLOCKQUOTE>

                  My thoughts too. I am so sorry!

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                  • How tragic. My sincerest condolences.

                    RIP

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                    • Original Poster

                      Thank you all so much for all your warm wishes. It means the world to me and my family. I have found out more since I posted the first time and I have to share it with everyone.

                      Everyone needs to know that Teddy and his buddies, as I said, died of smoke inhalation. None of them saw or felt anything- not a thing. None of them tried to escape.

                      I plan very soon to add some pics to the OP- I'll edit the post title to say when I do. Your thoughts, jingles, and prayers, have meant the world to me and my family and are so comforting. The outpouring of love and support is incredible. I had no idea how much this would impact people and the horse world, and it's so comforting to have the horse world behind us and beside us. We all appreciate it.
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                      • I am so glad to hear that at least your bud and his friends didn't suffer and know too much pain or fear.
                        Beth Davidson
                        Black Dog Farm Connemaras & Sport Horses
                        http://blackdogconnemara.com
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                        • RTR, I lost my first pony in an arson fire when I was 13, right after losing my father to cancer, so I can thoroughly empathize with what you're going through. Unfortunately, my pony did try to escape--she was tied in a slip stall and she broke her neck.

                          As I posted on the other thread, the smell if what has stayed with me through all these years. If you are having the same problem, pick up some Vicks VapoRub. It's the only thing that works.

                          I wish I could give you a big hug. Please know that there are those of us here that truly know exactly what you're going through. Please PT me if you need to talk.
                          Life would be infinitely better if pinatas suddenly appeared throughout the day.

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                          • RTR, I can only imagine how you're feeling. I am truly sorry.

                            http://community.webshots.com/user/ballyduff
                            \"If you are going through hell, keep going.\" ~Churchill~

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                            • RTR,

                              I also want to extend my condolences to you and your friends who lost horses in the fire.

                              *hugs*
                              Tara & Timberwolf
                              Prince George's County, Maryland

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                              • hey girl - just wanted to let ya know that my friends up here in the cornfields are praying for you. (yes, your big sister joined this discussion thing just so she could post after what happened to teddy.) i wish i could be there with you right now... hopefully i'll be able to drive/fly in for whatever happens next. when i see you i'm gonna give you the biggest hug ever and we can cry together and maybe we'll laugh some (like about the time teddy tried to kill me, even though you say he didn't!) it hurts so much to know that we won't be able to ride him when i get back and to know that he won't be standing in his stall, bobbing his head and all. if you need me, give me a call, k? you've got so many people behind you... i didn't know much about the horse community before this, but from what i've seen, i like it very much. no one will forget the disaster at little full cry... and we're gonna remember teddy forever.

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                                • sprinklefriend - RTR is very lucky to have a sister like you!!!!
                                  Honey badger don't give a sh!t.

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                                    Aren't I, though?

                                    I've showed my family all of the messages on here I got for Teddy; my mom, who isn't familiar with COTH, couldn't believe how fast the numbers went up by the minutes that first afternoon. I believe by the afternoon's end, there were over 100. It's nice to have Sprinklefriend around!
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                                    • That's so cool.....My sister and I are very close as well....and I'm so glad to hear how suppportive your family is...there is so much comfort in the love a family can give

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                                      • I found this link which I think came from the Coth BB sometime ago.
                                        I saved it as it just makes me tearful but happy believing animals are waiting for us in Heaven.
                                        RoyalTrider you are blessed to have had Teddy and to now have your sister and mom giving their love and support.

                                        RIP sweet Teddy and friends

                                        http://seattletimes.nwsource.com/htm...97_dale11m.htm

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                                        • Oops the link did not work so here is the article from The Seattle Times

                                          Saturday, December 11, 2004 - Page updated at 12:00 A.M.

                                          Religion / The Rev. Dale Turner
                                          Pets who gave us love in this life are waiting to greet us in heaven

                                          Editor's note: The Rev. Dale Turner, who began writing a weekly column on religion for The Times in 1983, is retiring as a columnist in January.

                                          Turner began his column after his retirement in 1982 as pastor at Seattle's University Congregational Church. In the ensuing years, he has written on a range of topics, from kindness and prayer to life's difficulties, the power of humor and the loss of a pet.

                                          We invite you to share your thoughts about Turner and how his messages have influenced you. Mail your comments to Judy Groom, The Seattle Times, P.O. Box 70, Seattle, WA 98111, or e-mail them to jgroom@seattletimes.com. Include your name and telephone number so we can verify authenticity. We will include a selection of responses in a special tribute to Turner to be published in January with his farewell column.

                                          Until then, we will republish some of Turner's most popular columns. This column, on the loss of a pet, was published May 26, 1990.





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                                          We are a nation of animal lovers. Turnstiles tell us that animal-watching at our zoos attracts more people than any other spectator sport.
                                          Each of us has a favorite animal. Harry Truman, who lived on Mount St. Helens before it erupted, owned 15 cats.

                                          My favorite pet has always been a dog. Looking back across the years, I see how very important dogs have been in my life. I had been an ordained minister only a few weeks when I received a phone call from Larry Chisholm, an 8-year-old boy. His dog had just been killed by a car. "Mr. Turner," he sobbed, "do you conduct funerals for dogs? I do not want to bury my dog without some kind of ceremony."

                                          Seminary had not prepared me for such an eventuality, and I was nonplused. Remembering the Scripture's affirmation of God's care when even a sparrow falls to the ground, I replied, "Why not?" I conducted a service, reading Scripture, reciting a poem and offering a prayer. As we walked from the burial plot, my young friend asked, "Mr. Turner, are there any dogs in heaven?"

                                          I was not ready for that, either, and I am afraid my answer was less than satisfactory. At least, my innate love for dogs enabled me to console him to some degree.

                                          Through the years, our family has had a succession of dogs, and each one was special. It was our most recent pet that I remember most vividly. Our dachshund Gretta had died, and we were eager to bring another dog to our home. We went to the pound to claim another dachshund pictured in the paper.

                                          But by the time we arrived, the dog had been claimed. A Manchester terrier puppy, sensing our mission, thrust her nose through the wire fence. The plaintive look in her eyes seemed to say, "Pick me." Our children did — and promptly named her "Pick."

                                          I had read that 40 percent of Americans owned dogs and vice versa, and I began to understand what that meant. Pick thought she was one of us.

                                          Each evening, Pick waited for my arrival home. She'd wag her tail as if to say, "Welcome." "Pick," I'd say, "you've got it made. Other animals work for their keep. A canary sings, cows give milk, and chickens lay eggs, but you don't have to do anything."

                                          Undaunted, she seemed to reply, "That's not true. I give love, and that's something. Besides, when you roll on the floor with me and make a fool of yourself, I make a fool of myself, too, and pretend to enjoy it. Furthermore, I don't tell anyone beyond the walls of this home what we do." She had a point.

                                          After 14 years, Pick had a series of convulsions. Our veterinarian counseled that it would be merciful to have her put to sleep. It was an agonizing decision, but one that had to be made. When the hour arrived, Pick and I drove off in our car as we had done countless times before, but this was to be our last ride together. I left her and drove directly to my study, and there, alone, I cried for fully an hour.




                                          A parishioner sent me a consoling poem titled: "Message From a Little Ghost."


                                          I've explained to St. Peter I'd rather stay here
                                          Outside the Pearly Gate.
                                          I won't be a nuisance, I won't even bark.
                                          I'll be very patient — and wait.
                                          I'll be here and chew a celestial bone,
                                          No matter how long you may be.
                                          I'd miss you so much — if I went in alone,
                                          It wouldn't be heaven for me.

                                          I was mourning for nearly a week, but then, amazingly, I had a dream. I saw Pick with many other dogs at heaven's gate. They were rollicking together in friendly play, each awaiting the arrival of its master.

                                          When I awoke from that dream, my mourning had ended. I wished I could see Larry again to give him a better answer than I had given 40 years before.

                                          The Rev. Dale Turner's column appears Saturdays in The Seattle Times.


                                          Copyright © 2004 The Seattle Times Company

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