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  • #21
    Originally posted by Pennywell Bay View Post
    So sorry for your precious Luna. I know you are in pain but letting the dog "take its chances" by just turning it loose, hoping it will leave or get killed, is cruel. Maybe the humane society? A rescue?

    I think you serve the memory of your beloved cat better by continuing to show compassion and grace in the midst of sorrow.

    Serious condolences to you in your time of pain.
    This. So sorry for your loss.

    Where are you located(generally). Maybe someone on this board can help you with the dog.
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    • #22
      Oh come on, folks, have a heart, the dog just killed her beloved cat. I would hate it too and not want anything to do with it, then I'd actually do the responsible thing as I am sure EFF will. Emotions are not actions, she is not to be blamed for her emotions any more than the dog is its instincts.

      (((hugs))) to you, OP. I am so, so sorry for the loss of your Luna. I hope you are able to find the dog a new situation soon. A shelter would be a quick and easy solution.

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      • #23
        I am so sorry for the loss of your kitty. How traumatizing to witness such an event.

        I must agree with the other posters, the dog did something by instinct, and while I certainly would be angry also, the dog does not deserve to be turned loose to fend for itself.

        You have been more than generous giving the dog a home for all of these months. I would contact your "friend" and give her 24 hours to claim the dog. After that, I would bring her to a rescue/shelter, and explain the situation in full. You are certainly within your rights to longer want to see this dog!

        I am sincerely hoping you do the right thing, even through your grief. I hope the harsh words are from your bitterness and grief, and you don't act on those feelings.

        Best of luck to you.

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        • #24
          Originally posted by KristiKGC View Post
          Wow, your post is the worst thing I've heard in a very long time. And I don't mean the part about the dog killing your cat. I am very sorry that it happened, but the dog doesn't deserve to be kicked out on the street. YOU took the dog in, THE OWNERS have abandoned him with you, YOU accidentally let the cat out. And yet, you feel that its ok to let a dog starve to death, scared and alone? The dog was acting out of insticts. You, however, can think about your actions and still want to be a horrible person, which IMHO, makes you worse than the dog.

          I felt bad when I started reading your post, now I just feel disgusted.
          This.


          Originally posted by Rivermeer View Post
          Yup,

          I'm disgusted too Kristi! People never cease to amaze me.
          And this.

          You're obviously not a true animal lover if the thought would even cross your frigging mind to turn the poor dog loose. Jeebus what is wrong with some people.

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          • #25
            I'm so sorry for the loss of sweet Luna.

            And yeah, if the owner didn't want her dog back I would be rehoming it, today.

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            • #26
              Originally posted by elysian*fields*farm View Post
              I just lost Luna- one of the sweetest cats ever -- because I did a good deed for a friend who was involved in an awful divorce. I am just heart sick.

              Luna was a beautiful brown tabby with fluffy hair and a stumpy tail who looked like a miniature wildcat. She was just eight years old.

              Last May a friend who was involved in a really icky awful nasty divorce asked me if I would care for her dog until she was able to get on her feet and get a place where the dog could live with her. I really didn't think I would have the dog this long. But anyway, she assured me that Indy got along with just fine with dogs and cats.

              Well I was always careful-- just in case-- because Indy is a rather large dog- a lab- golden retriever mix.

              Anyway, tonight, Luna apparently slipped out of the house when I opened the door to let Indy out to do her business-- something Luna had never done before (my cats are all indoor cats.

              Luna was in the yard when Indy finally decided to go out to do her business. Indy grabbed Luna, and shook her to death before I could reach them. I am just so mad.

              Now understand that Indy has been in the house with Luna and Hugo and never even looked cross-ways at them-- but tonight she grabbed my sweet Luna and killed her right in front of me. I did try to do CPR, etc. but it was no use.

              I hate the sight of that dog now. If I had had a gun, I would have shot her then and there. I called her owner and told her she had to get that dog off my property tomorrow. If only I hadn't agreed to help a friend, my poor Luna would still be alive.

              Right now I truly believe that no good deed goes unpunished. Needless to say, that dog will stay outside, and crated except for bathroom breaks until she leaves here.

              Rest in Peace poor Luna, I'm sorry I could not save you.
              Originally posted by elysian*fields*farm View Post
              Thanks for your condolences. Unfortunately Luna is still dead and will remain so. She wasn't running. But doesn't matter anyway- Dog WILL be gone. Her owner told me to just turn her loose, and let her take her chances if she doesn't find somewhere else for her to go by tomorrow evening.

              Since I don't even want to have to look at that dog, much less feed or handle her, that is probably what I will do -- put her out of my fenced yard -- if her owner doesn't come through for her -- too bad. If she is stupid enough to leave the front yard and - gets hit-- too bad-- so sad-- one less cat-killing dog.

              When I went out to put dog in her kennel-- outside now-- I had to really stop myself from the almost overwhelming urge to just kick and stomp her.

              But I also blame friend's daughter who kept bringing little fluffy stuffed toys for her to play with even after I had asked that young woman not to bring such toys to her. She would come while I wasn't home and toss these to her over the fence.

              The daughter also kept telling my friend that she didn't think I was taking good care of her, and that I was cruel because I insisted she be kenneled at night.

              Of course "dear daughter" begged off taking her because her landlord wanted a pet deposit.

              Dog was only supposed to be here a couple of weeks to begin with and it has been eight fricking months.

              As I said -No good deed goes unpunished. I'm sitting up unable to go to sleep with my beloved Luna wrapped in a towel awaiting burial as soon as it is light enough for me to dig her grave.

              One thing for sure-- I will NEVER allow another big dog anywhere near my property, let alone in my house or yard.

              Looking back on things- I wished I had just grabbed a shovel and bashed her head to make her drop my cat.

              And I wouldn't have bothered to bury her- I would have put her out with the trash.
              Just want to quote the OP in case she decides to poof her posts.

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              • #27
                These latest posters who've come out of the woodwork to chastise the OP - shame on YOU.

                If you've never had thoughts such as hers after something traumatic and upsetting, you are lying.

                The OP needs our support and sympathy right now. She is venting. She needs someone to "talk" to. That is how people get emotions out of their systems. Would you all rather she didn't vent and instead turned her rage on the dog? I, for one, don't think she is going to harm the dog. She may want to, she's horribly angry and crushed and her emotions are whirling. She needed to get that out. But she's not going to - she may want to, but she won't.

                Seriously (especially kristi, and dressurpferd01 - you are just acting like an ass) - show the OP some compassion at a terrible time.

                Those who shared realistic ideas about what *to* do with the dog, good on you. Those who just want to come down on the OP, and not even try to understand, you suck.

                To the OP - I am so sorry for the loss of your beloved Luna. And I *get* your anger. {{{hugs}}}

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                • #28
                  Thanks for your condolences. Unfortunately Luna is still dead and will remain so. She wasn't running. But doesn't matter anyway- Dog WILL be gone. Her owner told me to just turn her loose, and let her take her chances if she doesn't find somewhere else for her to go by tomorrow evening.

                  Since I don't even want to have to look at that dog, much less feed or handle her, that is probably what I will do -- put her out of my fenced yard -- if her owner doesn't come through for her -- too bad. If she is stupid enough to leave the front yard and - gets hit-- too bad-- so sad-- one less cat-killing dog.
                  You know what? You’re really awful.

                  Go ahead and rehome the dog, but to TURN IT LOOSE TO GET HIT BY A CAR?!?!?!?

                  What is WRONG WITH YOU?!?!?!

                  Good lord. You took responsibility for this animal, thus you owe it basic decency. Find it a safe place to go, otherwise you are truly no better than any other animal abuser out there.

                  I can’t even tell me how much your post upset me.

                  Sorry about your cat.
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                  • #29
                    ASB,

                    I completely understand how traumatized she is and upset, and I feel bad for the cat, I really do. I would have sympathized with the OP completely, BUT, one bad, unfortunate incident, doesn't equate to an action of blatant cruelty.

                    She said "No good deed goes unpunished" (and I realize that was said with sarcasm) , but there is thing called "karma" too.

                    Heather

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                    • #30
                      Originally posted by Trixie View Post
                      You know what? You’re really awful.

                      Go ahead and rehome the dog, but to TURN IT LOOSE TO GET HIT BY A CAR?!?!?!?

                      What is WRONG WITH YOU?!?!?!

                      Good lord. You took responsibility for this animal, thus you owe it basic decency. Find it a safe place to go, otherwise you are truly no better than any other animal abuser out there.

                      I can’t even tell me how much your post upset me.

                      Sorry about your cat.
                      Thank you for saying what I was unable to.

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                      • #31
                        I am so, so sorry for your loss. I had to put our beloved family cat down last year, and even this expected, quiet death was traumatic. This is a hundred times worse.

                        I understand your anger. Please don't turn the dog loose though - not just for its own safety, although that too, but because if it hurts someone else's pet or causes an accident you could be held legally liable if you do that. For your own sake, take it to the shelter rather than turning it loose.

                        I am also beyond disgusted by the owner. If she can't find a place for the dog on short notice, fine, but she should be the one picking it up in any case and taking it to the shelter.

                        Once again, so very sorry for your loss.
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                        • #32
                          I am so sorry for your loss of Luna, especially right in front of you. *hugs*

                          But I have to agree with Trixie and dressurpferd01...I understand that you're hurt, mad at the dog, mad at yourself, mad at the owners who dumped the dog on you, but the dog doesn't deserve to be abused/neglected because of it. Call animal control and have them pick up the dog. Doesn't take long, and you're done. Turning that dog loose is neglect and cruelty to an animal who didn't KNOW it did anything wrong, and could easily (running around on the roads etc) cause an accident. Not cool. Take the few minutes and either call AC or drive a few minutes and drop him off. Not too hard and you'll be done. And maybe want to look into some counseling to help you to come to better terms with the loss of your beloved cat and the extreme anger reaction that you seem to be having. Again, I am sorry for your loss.

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                          • #33
                            In my book, dog kills cat- dog gets put to sleep- end of story.
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                            • #34
                              Putting the dog to sleep, fine. But just dumping the dog outside, is cruel, inhumane and illegal!

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                              • #35
                                I understand your feelings, really, I would probably feel the exact same way. But another entreaty against just turning her loose. What if she gets picked up by someone who has cats and this same thing happens again? That would be on you. If you need to put her down, that's fair, or take her to a shelter, but at least that way her history goes with her.

                                So sorry about Luna.
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                                • #36
                                  Originally posted by elysian*fields*farm View Post
                                  Thanks for your condolences. Unfortunately Luna is still dead and will remain so. She wasn't running. But doesn't matter anyway- Dog WILL be gone. Her owner told me to just turn her loose, and let her take her chances if she doesn't find somewhere else for her to go by tomorrow evening.

                                  Since I don't even want to have to look at that dog, much less feed or handle her, that is probably what I will do -- put her out of my fenced yard -- if her owner doesn't come through for her -- too bad. If she is stupid enough to leave the front yard and - gets hit-- too bad-- so sad-- one less cat-killing dog.

                                  When I went out to put dog in her kennel-- outside now-- I had to really stop myself from the almost overwhelming urge to just kick and stomp her.

                                  But I also blame friend's daughter who kept bringing little fluffy stuffed toys for her to play with even after I had asked that young woman not to bring such toys to her. She would come while I wasn't home and toss these to her over the fence.

                                  The daughter also kept telling my friend that she didn't think I was taking good care of her, and that I was cruel because I insisted she be kenneled at night.

                                  Of course "dear daughter" begged off taking her because her landlord wanted a pet deposit.

                                  Dog was only supposed to be here a couple of weeks to begin with and it has been eight fricking months.

                                  As I said -No good deed goes unpunished. I'm sitting up unable to go to sleep with my beloved Luna wrapped in a towel awaiting burial as soon as it is light enough for me to dig her grave.

                                  One thing for sure-- I will NEVER allow another big dog anywhere near my property, let alone in my house or yard.

                                  Looking back on things- I wished I had just grabbed a shovel and bashed her head to make her drop my cat.

                                  And I wouldn't have bothered to bury her- I would have put her out with the trash.
                                  Oh PLEASE, don't do that to her. I understand how angry and upset you are with her, but she is an animal and did what animals do.
                                  If Luna was a rat or a skunk or someother varmint, you would have been happy with the dog's actions.

                                  I had a cat, at my barn, he was fine, at my house, a mile up the road, he would attack and scratch my dog(and I mean vet trips scratches).

                                  Seriously consider bringing him to the vet to be euthanized. If you discard him, you are really no better than any of those other scumbags who do the same to dogs, horses, whatever.

                                  I have known you to be someone who saves horses that have been discarded. Don't do this to the dog, or you will be no better.
                                  We are humans, and God gave us the brain to 'think', not react on instinct. This is the difference between us and animals.
                                  Please don't discard the dog in anger, but either rehome him or have him properly and humanely euthanized.

                                  Our actions live with us the rest of our days, take the high road here, and not dribble with the scum of the earth who discard an animal who doesn't have the capability of understanding why.
                                  Please.
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                                  • #37
                                    Well your "friend" sucks the big kielbasa.

                                    After 8 mos, that dog is yours irrespective of any agreements you have with the Kielbasa Queen,at least in it's mind.

                                    Your house is her house,your yard is her yard and the cat that she never had seen in HER yard was fair game.

                                    Add to that the dingy neighbor chick reinforcing(training) the "kill the furry squeaky things in HER yard"...well the trap was laid for your cat.

                                    If neither you nor your "friend" want the thing, than put it down or give it to some dog rescue that like cat eaters...

                                    but it needs to be away from you for both your sakes

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                                    • #38
                                      THIS

                                      I am so very sorry, I know what this is like. And everyone? Let's try to let the OP vent.

                                      My deepest sympathy to you.


                                      Originally posted by fordtraktor View Post
                                      Oh come on, folks, have a heart, the dog just killed her beloved cat. I would hate it too and not want anything to do with it, then I'd actually do the responsible thing as I am sure EFF will. Emotions are not actions, she is not to be blamed for her emotions any more than the dog is its instincts.

                                      (((hugs))) to you, OP. I am so, so sorry for the loss of your Luna. I hope you are able to find the dog a new situation soon. A shelter would be a quick and easy solution.
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                                      • #39
                                        Elysian, I'm so sorry, and I understand how you're feeling. When something happens to a beloved pet, the natural reaction is to want revenge. I'd suggest you call animal control and have them take the dog, even if you have to say it's a stray.
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                                        • #40
                                          Originally posted by Pennywell Bay View Post
                                          So sorry for your precious Luna. I know you are in pain but letting the dog "take its chances" by just turning it loose, hoping it will leave or get killed, is cruel. Maybe the humane society? A rescue?

                                          I think you serve the memory of your beloved cat better by continuing to show compassion and grace in the midst of sorrow.

                                          Serious condolences to you in your time of pain.
                                          I 100% agree with this.

                                          Elysian Fields, I totally understand how you feel. To witness your beloved animal killed like that is so traumatic. Give yourself some time to recover and mourn your Luna. But to let the dog loose to take it's chances is only compounding the problem.

                                          I've been in your shoes: One of the corgis that I had rescued has a strong prey drive. The first two weeks I had him, he showed no signs of dog agression. Then my mother brought over her beloved maltese, that has been our family pet for 10 years to my house. He looks like a small prey animal, and my corgi nearly killed him. It was awful and just the thought of it gives me anxiety. I had only had this corgi two weeks, but I didn't feel a desire to kill him, or set him loose to get hit by a car. ( I did want to beat the crap out of him!) And my mother doesn't hold a grudge against my corgi. She forgave him because she knew he was just doing what was natural to him.

                                          I am thinking about you and hoping you do the right thing by this dog.
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