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No god deed goes unpunished- RIP Luna

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  • I get where the OP is coming from. It sounds like the taking in this dog on behalf of it's owner was a mess in itself. The OP would limp along, for better or for worse, until this unexpected catastrophe.

    And after that, and the dog's owner not stepping up? I get it. why continue to be the only one doing the right thing by the dog in this situation?

    I do think the OP will feel better having not punished the dog for the whole situation. Call up the owner and say "this dog will be off my property in 24 hours. You pick it up, or I'll take it to the SPCA. Whichever."
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    • Originally posted by KristiKGC View Post
      For everyone sticking up for the OP and saying that she is just venting and wouldn't do it, I would like you to re-read the bolded part above. All we have to go on is what the poster tells us. She says she will probably just turn him loose. That is a cruel, heartless act. It isn't my responsibility to assume she's a decent enough person not to actually go through with it.
      Oh for cripes sakes, the poor woman is grieving over her cat that was just killed.
      Astonishing, absolutely no one here has wished death upon something that just turned your world upside down.

      Look at the time of her post - 3:22 AM. Obviously this happened only hours before.
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      • I had a pitbull I rescued from a drug dealer, she was a fighting dog so you had to be extremely careful with her around other animals(by the way her name was Mustang, and NO, she came with that name). She acclimated real well, but had no tolerance for cats. She killed 2 in fact. One was mine, we had a latch on the swinging kitchen door to keep her contained when not home. Exhusband simply forgot to latch it. I came home to find my cat Christy, dead.

        The next one was in our back yard, a fenced back yard that a cat came into. I don't know if it was a stray or someones pet. But it was killed.

        This dog was non human agressive, and I knew her faults. Angry and outraged, yes. But I never wished her death or bodily harm. She had enough of that in her life. When the cat incidents happened it was with in the first 2 years I owned her. She lived for another 8 years and passed away in her sleep at 12. Vet thinks it may have been a stroke.

        Not everyone reacts the way the OP did. I get the feeling that she never liked the dog anyways.

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        • Oh for cripes sakes, the poor woman is grieving over her cat that was just killed.
          Astonishing, absolutely no one here has wished death upon something that just turned your world upside down.
          I agree! We would ALL feel this way if we cared at all about our furry family members. It's just that there are only A FEW here that will actually ADMIT it.

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          • OP, so sorry for the loss of your lovely Luna!

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            • Farmgirl you are really off base, and yes, we are not all cut from the same "mold", obviously.

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              • Yeah I get it. You're mad that several people (me included) told you that you and your husband have marital problems on another thread. It has nothing to do with this thread so get over it and try to get back on topic.
                I really WAS just curious and asking you a question....My apologies!!!!
                I believe I stated in the post that I meant no sarcasm, and no, I never said you were "psychic". I had no intention of offending.

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                • Originally posted by Auventera Two View Post
                  So am I the only one here thinking that the authroties should probably step in, read these posts and REMOVE THIS DOG from this woman's posession? Because seriously, I have a real problem with what's been posted. If this woman is this furious with the dog, who knows if she will feed and water her, or who knows if she'll just snap and beat the dog to death? Wow this is truly one of the most disgusting threads I have read on coth. And a person this unstable doesn't need to be running an animal rescue.
                  WOW! Coming from someone who has let her filly suffer since Nov. 13th without a proper diagnosis?
                  YOU are judging the OP? Maybe the most disgusting thread for some, is watching you let a filly suffer for the past month and a half while you play Vet and then rasp the poor filly's hoof on the non weight bearing leg. That is disgusting!

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                  • Farmgirl you are really off base, and yes, we are not all cut from the same "mold", obviously
                    HUH?

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                    • I think the OP's anger is really not for the dog but for herself. In the end she brought the dog into the house and ultimately the responsibility lies at her feet. I don't blame her for it, just that taking in a dog with no idea how it is around cats or unknown to you is always a risk. She hoped the risk was worth it and it turned out it wasn't. The dog isn't at fault here, some dogs go their whole lives never being around other animals to cause harm, but the dog was put into a situation with cats and this happened. Her anger at the dog is just transferred anger from her own guilt. I feel so sorry for her that her cat was killed, but she took the risk and now she'll have to live with the choice she made. I think the dog needs to be given to a shelter along with the dogs history so the SHELTER can decide what is best for the dog, be it euthanasia or adoption to someone who will be informed about the dogs history of killing cats and who will take the responsibility for the dog (making sure it is NEVER around other small animals).

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                      • Sorry, but IMHO OP has every right to grieve and be angry without being torn apart about it! I feel certain she has not killed or abandoned the dog, and I would not blame her if she rehomed it in some safe way.....Just sayin.....

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                        • I think the dog needs to be given to a shelter along with the dogs history so the SHELTER can decide what is best for the dog, be it euthanasia or adoption to someone who will be informed about the dogs history of killing cats and who will take the responsibility for the dog (making sure it is NEVER around other small animals).
                          Very sound advice, darkmoonlady!

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                          • Chugga chugga chugga CHOOO CHOOO.... Poor Poor mods...
                            If i'm posting on Coth, it's either raining so I can't ride or it's night time and I can't sleep.

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                            • Originally posted by farmgirl598 View Post
                              I agree! We would ALL feel this way if we cared at all about our furry family members. It's just that there are only A FEW here that will actually ADMIT it.
                              Why do a few of you consistently feel the need to speak for everyone when you don't know what you're talking about?

                              Quite a few people have come forward saying that in the same situation, their emotions never caused them to wish harm on the offending animal. Don't try to justify your feelings by saying that everyone feels that way. Its obvious that you haven't got a clue what you're talking about.

                              I think most would agree (though I wouldn't presume to know what EVERYONE feels) we would be extremely upset. How we deal with that emotion is what differs.
                              A lovely horse is always an experience.... It is an emotional experience of the kind that is spoiled by words. ~Beryl Markham

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                              • Originally posted by farmgirl598 View Post
                                I agree! We would ALL feel this way if we cared at all about our furry family members. It's just that there are only A FEW here that will actually ADMIT it.

                                Speak for yourself, please. I had it happen and never once did I feel a murderous rage toward nor even the desire to kick and stomp the dogs that killed my cat.

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                                • So we would all react a bit differently. Of course, we are all different people with ( obviously ) very different personalities. That's the way the world is supposed to be. I just think OP has taken too many hits here, and people should lay off. She's an animal lover, or she would not have these pets in the first place. Therefore I think we might be able to deduce that she probably will NOT harm or abandon the dog. Her emotions are very raw right now. Give the girl a break!

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                                  • Speak for yourself, please
                                    We should ALL follow the SAME sets of rules

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                                    • Originally posted by Auventera Two View Post
                                      Anger is justified - revenge is not. Anger will become tempered with time but revenge is forever. If you turn this dog loose to starve to death or be hit by a car, your anger will soon fade and will be replaced by guilt and remorse. You will carry it with you forever that you directly caused an animal to die alone and in pain. Then you will not only have to carry the pain of your cat's tragic death, but also the pain of the dog's death as well..
                                      Very well said A2. To the OP... hugs and condolences on the loss of your Luna... but don't let your grief blind you into taking an action that will leave a different type of scar that is much harder to erase.
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                                      • Originally posted by Halter Alter View Post
                                        YOU are judging the OP? Maybe the most disgusting thread for some, is watching you let a filly suffer for the past month and a half while you play Vet and then rasp the poor filly's hoof on the non weight bearing leg. That is disgusting!
                                        EXACTLY! Geesh.

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                                        • Originally posted by elysian*fields*farm View Post
                                          Thanks for your condolences. Unfortunately Luna is still dead and will remain so. She wasn't running. But doesn't matter anyway- Dog WILL be gone. Her owner told me to just turn her loose, and let her take her chances if she doesn't find somewhere else for her to go by tomorrow evening.

                                          Since I don't even want to have to look at that dog, much less feed or handle her, that is probably what I will do -- put her out of my fenced yard -- if her owner doesn't come through for her -- too bad. If she is stupid enough to leave the front yard and - gets hit-- too bad-- so sad-- one less cat-killing dog.

                                          When I went out to put dog in her kennel-- outside now-- I had to really stop myself from the almost overwhelming urge to just kick and stomp her.

                                          But I also blame friend's daughter who kept bringing little fluffy stuffed toys for her to play with even after I had asked that young woman not to bring such toys to her. She would come while I wasn't home and toss these to her over the fence.

                                          The daughter also kept telling my friend that she didn't think I was taking good care of her, and that I was cruel because I insisted she be kenneled at night.

                                          Of course "dear daughter" begged off taking her because her landlord wanted a pet deposit.

                                          Dog was only supposed to be here a couple of weeks to begin with and it has been eight fricking months.

                                          As I said -No good deed goes unpunished. I'm sitting up unable to go to sleep with my beloved Luna wrapped in a towel awaiting burial as soon as it is light enough for me to dig her grave.

                                          One thing for sure-- I will NEVER allow another big dog anywhere near my property, let alone in my house or yard.

                                          Looking back on things- I wished I had just grabbed a shovel and bashed her head to make her drop my cat.

                                          And I wouldn't have bothered to bury her- I would have put her out with the trash.
                                          WOW. I hope you don't call yourself an animal lover.

                                          You obviously have some misplaced notions about the laws of nature. Yes, I understand pissed and hurt, but seriously? Basically saying that you hope she gets hit by a car? Sheesh.
                                          The best is yet to come

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