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  • Hug your horses tonight . . .

    the last two weeks have been horrible at my barn. Two fellow boarders have lost their horses - one a week ago Sunday to impaction colic. And one just last night - came in from turnout three-legged lame - xrays revealed a shattered shoulder. Not sure if it was a kick or a fall, but awful none-the-less. Both horses were older (20's) but enjoying life and the occassional trail ride.

    My guy will get extra hugs and kisses tonight as well as a multitude of silent prayers.

    Life just sucks sometimes. Hard enough to lose a beloved friend - even worse when it's during the holidays.
    http://fromdressagehorsetocowpony.blogspot.com/

    "I am still under the impression that there is nothing alive quite so beautiful as a thoroughbred horse." -- John Galsworthy

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    I am so very sorry to hear that. My heat goes out to all involved. What a NOT Merry Christmas. My prayers are with all of you!

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      #3
      Originally posted by farmgirl598 View Post
      I am so very sorry to hear that. My heat goes out to all involved. What a NOT Merry Christmas. My prayers are with all of you!
      Thank you - it's been a rough six months at the barn. We've had a total of 5 losses - 2 were planned - the other 3, incl these 2, were not. We forget how fragile our friends really are.
      http://fromdressagehorsetocowpony.blogspot.com/

      "I am still under the impression that there is nothing alive quite so beautiful as a thoroughbred horse." -- John Galsworthy

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      • #4
        You guys are in our thoughts.

        I don't know what I'd do if we lost one of ours. It was hard enough when one fractured his pelvis. I cried just seeing him in pain.
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          Originally posted by Tiger Horse View Post
          Thank you - it's been a rough six months at the barn. We've had a total of 5 losses - 2 were planned - the other 3, incl these 2, were not. We forget how fragile our friends really are.
          ... and the havoc winter weather can cause. My older girl also had an impaction colic when the weather got bitterly cold earlier this month. The ice always scares me too.
          Free bar.ka and tidy rabbit.

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          • #6
            Tiger Horse, I'm sorry for the losses in your barn. You are so right. I am thankful every day for my horses because things can change in an instant even when you doing your best to keep them safe and sound.

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              Yes. Absolutely.
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              a 501(c)3 organization helping 501(c)3 equine rescues

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                #8
                Originally posted by LaLuna View Post
                You guys are in our thoughts.

                I don't know what I'd do if we lost one of ours. It was hard enough when one fractured his pelvis. I cried just seeing him in pain.
                Thanks very much. I can not even imagine. But for the grace of God . . .

                The horse involved last night was across the barn in the other aisle with her heartbroken owner. I went over to see if there was anything I could do, but there were plenty of others around already. I said a quick prayer and got out of the way. No sense in clogging the aisle. And I could tell the owner just couldn't handle one more, "I'm so sorry, etc."

                Thank goodness the barn manager was there - he can be kinda grumpy and hard to approach on a day-to-day basis, but he really, really handles these situations with a grace that is amazing. He is so kind and patient - and absolutely wants what's best for the horse. I've seen him handle calls with the vet when the owner is just too overcome to speak anymore.
                And he always, always has everyone leave the barn before the
                disposal truck comes - that's something he doesn't want anyone to have to witness, esp the owner. He wouldn't want it known, but he has a heart of gold.
                Last edited by Tiger Horse; Dec. 17, 2010, 05:04 PM.
                http://fromdressagehorsetocowpony.blogspot.com/

                "I am still under the impression that there is nothing alive quite so beautiful as a thoroughbred horse." -- John Galsworthy

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                  #9
                  Originally posted by chemteach View Post
                  ... and the havoc winter weather can cause. My older girl also had an impaction colic when the weather got bitterly cold earlier this month. The ice always scares me too.
                  So true. My guy had a really slight bout of gas colic about a month ago and I was a wreck for days . . . let's not even think about the ice . . .
                  http://fromdressagehorsetocowpony.blogspot.com/

                  "I am still under the impression that there is nothing alive quite so beautiful as a thoroughbred horse." -- John Galsworthy

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                  • #10
                    So sorry to hear of your losses.
                    Holidays do make us wear our hearts closer to the surface, but it is hard to lose a friend any time it happens.

                    In this bitter cold I am glad I have a haydunker - yes his bucket is a mess, but I don't have to worry he's not drinking enough!

                    I hug my horses every night, even the snottylittlepony who pins his ears and "allows" me a cuddle.
                    *friend of bar.ka*RIP all my lovely boys, gone too soon:
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                      Originally posted by chai View Post
                      Tiger Horse, I'm sorry for the losses in your barn. You are so right. I am thankful every day for my horses because things can change in an instant even when you doing your best to keep them safe and sound.
                      Thank you - you are so right.
                      http://fromdressagehorsetocowpony.blogspot.com/

                      "I am still under the impression that there is nothing alive quite so beautiful as a thoroughbred horse." -- John Galsworthy

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                        Originally posted by 2DogsFarm View Post
                        So sorry to hear of your losses.
                        Holidays do make us wear our hearts closer to the surface, but it is hard to lose a friend any time it happens.

                        In this bitter cold I am glad I have a haydunker - yes his bucket is a mess, but I don't have to worry he's not drinking enough!

                        I hug my horses every night, even the snottylittlepony who pins his ears and "allows" me a cuddle.
                        Just yesterday I decided to start adding some salt to my guys beet pulp mash every evening - figured it certainly can't hurt and having him drink more is a real plus this time of year.

                        There will be lots more hugs from now on . . .
                        http://fromdressagehorsetocowpony.blogspot.com/

                        "I am still under the impression that there is nothing alive quite so beautiful as a thoroughbred horse." -- John Galsworthy

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                        • #13
                          Wow, I am so sorry for the loss of those horses. Both the dangers of impaction colic and the ice have me scared right now. I try to offer buckets of very warm water at least once a day in addition to the water in the heated buckets, which is cool but unfrozen. Two of my three horses will drink a bucket of warm water right down, even though they have a full heated bucket in their stall. One just drank two buckets of warm water completely empty and wants more, so I'm on my 3rd trip out with hot water (I've been taking breaks to get warm, which is how I happen to be reading this). I was contemplating turning them out because they are climbing the walls, but it is icey here, and this thread reminded me forcibly why that is not a good idea.

                          Thank you for posting this.

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                          • #14
                            So, so sorry...

                            and yes, I go down the isles every night and kiss, pet, hug each of my ten and another ten boarders. I love them all no matter who they belong to or how much they might piss me off sometimes! I think sometimes people forget that the BO/BM grieves too - as we see them, feed them, bring them in/out every day.

                            Peace to all of you!
                            "A lie doesn't become truth, wrong doesn't become right, and evil doesn't become good, just because it's accepted by a majority." Rick Warren

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                              #15
                              Originally posted by ToiRider View Post
                              Wow, I am so sorry for the loss of those horses. Both the dangers of impaction colic and the ice have me scared right now. I try to offer buckets of very warm water at least once a day in addition to the water in the heated buckets, which is cool but unfrozen. Two of my three horses will drink a bucket of warm water right down, even though they have a full heated bucket in their stall. One just drank two buckets of warm water completely empty and wants more, so I'm on my 3rd trip out with hot water (I've been taking breaks to get warm, which is how I happen to be reading this). I was contemplating turning them out because they are climbing the walls, but it is icey here, and this thread reminded me forcibly why that is not a good idea.

                              Thank you for posting this.
                              Wish I hadn't had to post it - but, I guess it is a good reminder. Hope you are warmed up by now.
                              http://fromdressagehorsetocowpony.blogspot.com/

                              "I am still under the impression that there is nothing alive quite so beautiful as a thoroughbred horse." -- John Galsworthy

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                                I am so sorry, Tiger Horse.

                                A good friend of mine lost their horse to colic earlier this month, another had to put her old horse down, and I am worried about "my" Blaze whom I can't ride anymore and who has lost his stall at this cold time of year.

                                Loss makes the cold even colder.
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                                People Who Hate to Rush to Kill Wildlife Clique!
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                                • #17
                                  Originally posted by chemteach View Post
                                  ... and the havoc winter weather can cause. My older girl also had an impaction colic when the weather got bitterly cold earlier this month. The ice always scares me too.
                                  Ditto this-Princess had me in near hysterics with "what ifs" again the other day with a mild colic. I could do without winter I think.

                                  My thoughts and condolences are with your barn family at this difficult time.
                                  Michael: Seems the people who burned me want me for a job.
                                  Sam: A job? Does it pay?
                                  Michael: Nah, it's more of a "we'll kill you if you don't do it" type of thing.
                                  Sam: Oh. I've never liked those.

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                                    #18
                                    Originally posted by Wellspotted View Post
                                    I am so sorry, Tiger Horse.

                                    A good friend of mine lost their horse to colic earlier this month, another had to put her old horse down, and I am worried about "my" Blaze whom I can't ride anymore and who has lost his stall at this cold time of year.

                                    Loss makes the cold even colder.
                                    Sending warm thoughts for Blaze.
                                    http://fromdressagehorsetocowpony.blogspot.com/

                                    "I am still under the impression that there is nothing alive quite so beautiful as a thoroughbred horse." -- John Galsworthy

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                                      #19
                                      Originally posted by Grataan View Post
                                      Ditto this-Princess had me in near hysterics with "what ifs" again the other day with a mild colic. I could do without winter I think.

                                      My thoughts and condolences are with your barn family at this difficult time.
                                      I hate winter - and it's not just about the cold anymore.
                                      Even when you try to do all the right things - stuff just seems to happen . . .

                                      Thank you.
                                      http://fromdressagehorsetocowpony.blogspot.com/

                                      "I am still under the impression that there is nothing alive quite so beautiful as a thoroughbred horse." -- John Galsworthy

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                                      • #20
                                        So sorry for all the losses. Just put my old girl down last week. Winter is can be soooo hard on these gorgeous, noble, loving, and DELICATE oldsters!!

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