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  • We had a meltdown at our first show

    I posted awhile back about going to my first show and riding with a western hat instead of my helmet. Well, we finally made it to a show, the last one of the season. My trainer/BO took two of her horses and my mare. When I got to the barn the horses and tack were all loaded and the truck running waiting for me. I didn’t get the chance to grab my helmet. Crap! We got to the show and I warmed up in the arena with my trainer and I was feeling pretty good and didn’t have a chance to think of riding without my helmet. It was super windy and there were banners tied to the fence which were flapping so my mare was spooking at that. But we worked through it and had a really good warm-up. They asked us to clear the arena to start the classes. It was such a small show that they combined all western pleasure classes into one. I didn’t have the chance to change into my show shirt and it was too windy so no one was wearing a hat. I had to go in as I was. Which was a little disappointing but it was our first show and I didn’t go expecting too much. We went into the arena and all was going well until we started to jog and my mare had a meltdown. She stopped and tucked her head and started shaking her head and backing up. One of her stable mates was in the class but I couldn’t get her to follow her. I couldn’t turn her or get her to go forward; all she would do is backup. With her head so low I wasn’t sure if she was going to buck or what so I dismounted and walked out of the class. I’m not confident enough or experienced enough to try and push her through it. It was frustrating and I took her back to the trailer and untacked her. She became extremely buddy sour throughout the remainder of the day. I couldn’t leave her at the trailer alone and she had to be in constant eye contact of her two stable mates. We stood by the rail while her stable mates did their classes and my mare wouldn’t stand still. Pacing back and forth and pawing and shaking her head. I grazed her and she seemed better. And when she wouldn’t stand still I lunged at a walk in a small circle. She was quiet while walking she just couldn’t stand still. Once back at the trailer tied up with her stable mates she stood quietly even going to sleep.

    Any ideas what the head shaking means? Could it be her way of avoiding the situation? She is an appendix quarter horse with a very short racing career, 17 years old and normally a very quiet packer type. I’ve only owned her two years and she was a dude ranch horse before I bought her. I’d like to show some more next year. My BO and I plan on taking her to other stables and riding her there to get used to new places in hopes of no more meltdowns. Any suggestions?
    Moving on doesn't mean you forget about things. It just means you have to accept what happended and continue living.

  • #2
    Did she get a bee in her ear? Where was your trainer? What did he/she say?
    Concordia means "Harmony" in Latin.
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    • #3
      I gave up reading your post because it needs some paragraphs so desperately. Be kind to your fellow CoTHers and break things up a little. Thank you.
      I tolerate all kinds of animal idiosyncrasies.
      I've found that I don't tolerate people idiosyncrasies as well. - Casey09

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      • #4
        Some horses that are easy rides at home, aren't the same away. Take her to some shows or days away from home with no expectations- don't even ride. Just work on ground manners and relax. Once that's solid, take her to some shows and have your trainer ride her in the warm-up ring, or in an easy class. She needs to be pushed through these little back-up tantrums, so if you aren't confident doing that, don't be the one on her when it happens.

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        • #5
          never forget your hat that played with you all day and becuase of that you had no confidence dont blame your horse like you have she only responded in that way becuase you lacked the confidence becuase you had no hat on
          and your b/o trianer should not have let you go to a 1st show or whatever with out it it takes 2 mins to grab your hat, and 2ndly if one going to a show then get up earlier and prepare yourself for rushing does you no favours so dont blame your horse not her fault whatso ever

          so infuture get stuff out the night before and ready stuff you need and arrive early at the yard so you can prepare your horse and yourself for the show
          Last edited by goeslikestink; Sep. 13, 2010, 12:42 PM.

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          • #6
            Yes, the headshaking and backing-up are a resistance! Don't let her get away with it! Horses learn very fast that if they do a certain thing the rider gets off and they get a break. Like another poster said, she needs to be ridden through it.
            While a show might not be the best place to fight with your horse, horses also learn very fast that you won't discipline them in a show environment and act accordingly!
            If she hasn't done this at home, maybe try setting her up with different environments, to see if you can replicate the situation, so you can learn to deal with it!
            Good luck!
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            • #7
              I agree it is resistance, and probably to some degree the horse taking advantage of your nerves in a new situation! Not to worry, though, it is not the worst problem to have!

              All horses are different- one horse I had was just perfect in a show setting and pinned in her first wp class (1967) two months after I got her at age 2! Others, especially some really talented ones I've had, present a lifetime challenge!

              In your case, I'd work with your trainer and some cooperative riding buddies as follows: First, set up practice classes at home. Have at least an 'announcer' in the middle of the arena calling out commands, use a PA if you have one. Focus on riding as you would in a class (first of all, remember to breathe). But take advantage of the setting to freely correct her as needed, as strongly as needed- ride her through resistance. Next- see if you can get a group to recreate this in a 'foreign' arena. Go there, school as you would at a real show, and then do a practice class, or two, or three. Again- mentally focus on how you would present your horse in a 'real' class, but freely correct your horse as needed. Take advantage of the practice setting to pass other horses, be passed, get someone to come up close behind you, etc and fully expose yourself and your horse to what can occur in a real show setting.

              Finally- go to a real show, enter a class or not, but either way, get on that horse and putz around the grounds, putz around the warmup arena, ride in show arena when allowed on breaks, etc.

              As for fretting about hat/attire, etc, as has been noted, organization is key, on the other hand, don't sweat the small stuff. What is important is that YOU are having fun, and that you challenge yourself to ride your horse and present it to best advantage to the judge. Over time, you will learn the little showing refinements, like how to make tiny corrections when the judge's attention is focused elsewhere, and the like.

              I'm lucky in that my area there is a great schooling show series all summer long, English classes in the morning, western in the afternoon, casual attire. It's a great opportunity to get into a class and really truly correct your horse if it messes up. Also puts horses in a controlled crowd setting which is invaluable experience for horses in all disciplines, inside the arena or out. The way the classes are set up one can start with walk/trot and do a number of classes right in a row, which has the further benefit of being able to continue if horse needs more practice, or reward the horse by calling it a day if the horse has done well in a class.

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              • #8
                OP, I had a similar experience to yours at a recent show. I hadn't shown my mare in 7 years and never before in dressage. So we had the arena to ourselves for our little exhibition -- backing up, calling out to her friends, flinging her head around and then spinning.

                The difference is, I've had this horse a long time. So I just sat on her and rode it out. When the bell rang to begin our test, we went to work and did pretty well.

                My advice is to make sure you're not rushed the next time, so you're not as nervous. Take her to another show to get her used to it and let your trainer take her into the ring for the first time, if horse shows signs of being silly again. I second the advice to tell yourself you don't have to ride if you don't want to. That's gotten rid of nerves for me (and my horse).

                Good luck.
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                the best day in ten years,
                you are SORELY MISTAKEN, MY LITTLE ANCHOVY."

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                • #9
                  hi

                  If you're not comfortable riding when ur horse gets into that 'panic' mode. scratch your classes, and get thee horse to work on the ground longe to get horses attention away from being buddy sour. Something with actual work for the horse.

                  Or tie horse to the trailer and barring any 'trailer damaging tendencies'... leave horse tied up while she has her panic attack. Put food out for her, have a buddy horse come around every 5-10 min to calm her down. But just leave horse to have the temper tantrum.

                  I'm not saying, leave the horse to have a wreck and be dangerous by any means. (ex: keep horse with buddies tied to trailer, when buddy horses leave, take your horse to go longe in a safe area-where should you have a naughty pony, it wont bother anybody-once horse has been longeing for a decent amount of time, take horse back to trailer and leave tied while others are still riding. if she throws a fit, let horse have her fit.

                  keep close enough to watch your horse, and pre-arrange to have one of your horses buddies come and spend 5min with your horse to re-assure that she's not alone! and to calm horse down a bit. Then, repeat the whole process.

                  hopefully i explained myself properly good luck!
                  Carol and Princess Dewi

                  **~Doccer'sDressage~**

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                  • #10
                    Yup, resistance. And it really sucks when in the show ring riding Western and don't have a whip handy for a crack on the arse- but the end of the reins work. Yeah, it'll disqualify you, but at least it gets the horse going forward.

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                    • #11
                      I had nearly the same experience this weekend with my QH mare. She's green though, not that it explains it. And the sad part was it was at HOME. We had a small schooling show at our stables this past weekend. My QH mare has approximately 60 days under saddle and has attended two shows prior to this one, as well as gone on trail rides and participated in a renaissance reinactment games weekend. You'd think she'd be just fine since she's done so well on other trips!

                      But nope... I don't know the WHY ... I'm thinking maybe the stress of so many new horses in HER arena, and it was a smaller arena with about 12 horses in it at once, many of them anxious and nervous ... but no matter what, her behavior was uncalled for! She bucked HUGE in warmup, and was a general problem child. Then in her first class - just walk/trot - she started pulling that again. Mini bucks, the classic QH head tuck and backup that you mentioned, general obstinance. I did NOT, however, dismount and give in. I was grateful it was a schooling show because I just kept her in a corner of the arena and dealt with the behavior, and eventually got her back on the rail and doing what she was supposed to do. I could have solved the problem much faster if there hadn't been 12 other horses in the arena, but you do what you have to do.

                      Of course we didn't place ... and the judge's comment to me was I "needed a long whip for that one" ... but by staying with her and not letting her completely win, and ultimately making her get back on the rail and participating, she did mellow and eventually was her normal self, even winning the crossrails class.

                      Now that you know your mare has this in her, you need to get comfortable enough to handle this stuff.
                      If you don't like something, change it. If you can't change it, change your attitude.
                      ~ Maya Angelou

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