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  • He Is Gone

    I helped my good boy over The Bridge today. The cold spell we had, where it dropped down into the teens, told me that I was right a couple of weeks ago.

    And today was glorious. Much warmer. He got to take a sun bath without a blanket on. And he was stuffed full of carrots. And he was loved. He was so loved.

    I am shattered. But I know that it was the last loving thing I could do for him.
    Sheilah

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    Truly one of the most gut-wrenching decisions to make. So sorry for you.

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    • #3
      So so sorry for your loss, I hope your lovely memories always stay with you.

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      • #4
        So sorry for your loss! (((((HUGS)))))
        "You can't fix stupid"- Ron White

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        • #5
          I am so sorry. This seems to be a time for so many to say good bye to their fine equine friends. I still can't believe that Rocky is no more.

          This has been on COTH for years. It is so, so good, and yes, "This it be right."

          SCM1959

          https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=MZJXr0K9qjY

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          • #6
            I’m sorry for your loss. Big (((hugs)))
            ~ Enjoying some guac and boxed wine at the Blue Saddle inn. ~

            Originally posted by LauraKY
            I'm sorry, but this has "eau de hoarder" smell all over it.
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            • #7
              So sorry for your loss. More HUGS to you.

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              • #8
                Add some hugs from me. I'm sorry for your loss.

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                • #9
                  I'm so sorry. I'm happy to hear he got to go warm, safe, and happy though. So many don't get that option. Many ((((hugs))))
                  Leap, and the net will appear

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                  • #10
                    That is probably the hardest thing a horse owner (or any pet owner) can do....but it is the "right thing", when you know it is time. So sorry for your loss...YOU are the brave one and your horse will always love you...and you, him.
                    www.crosscreeksporthorses.com
                    Breeders of Painted Thoroughbreds and Uniquely Painted Irish Sport Horses in Northeast Oklahoma

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                    • #11
                      Very sorry for your loss. Sending virtual hugs to you {{{{{ IdahoRider }}}}}.
                      ~~ How do you catch a loose horse? Make a noise like a carrot! - British Cavalry joke ~~

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                      • #12
                        I'm glad you could be brave for your boy - now it's time to grieve and remember all the good that he was.
                        {{hugs}}
                        ~* Be kind to one another *~

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                        • #13
                          {{{{Sheilah}}}}

                          Susan

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                          • #14
                            I am so sorry for your loss

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                            • #15
                              Sometimes the kindest thing we can do is to replace their pain with our own. {{{hugs}}}
                              "Argue for your limitations and you get to keep them."
                              -Richard S. Bach

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                              • #16
                                Very sorry for you.
                                Tell us one of your favorite things about him- what's something that makes you smile right now, even if through tears?
                                ​​​​​​

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                                • #17
                                  Originally posted by HungarianHippo View Post
                                  Very sorry for you.
                                  Tell us one of your favorite things about him- what's something that makes you smile right now, even if through tears?
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                                  /\
                                  ​​​​​​Do this, it does help.
                                  And, if you can, post a pic of your guy.

                                  {{HUGS}}
                                  You did your best for him.
                                  Glad the weather cooperates.
                                  *friend of bar.ka*RIP all my lovely boys, gone too soon:
                                  Steppin' Out 1988-2004
                                  Hey Vern! 1982-2009, Cash's Bay Threat 1994-2009
                                  Sam(Jaybee Altair) 1994-2015

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                                  • #18
                                    So long good horse.
                                    He had a great friend in you IdahoRider, right through to the end. Condolences and hugs.
                                    One touch of nature makes the whole world kin.
                                    William Shakespeare

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                                    • #19
                                      Thank you for having the strength to make the hardest decision of all.

                                      I know you are devastated right now, but it will feel easier over time.
                                      "He's not even a good pathological liar." Mara

                                      "You're just a very desperate troll, and not even a good one. You're like middle-school troll at best. Like a goblin, not even a troll." et_fig

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                                      • #20
                                        Big hugs for doing the right thing, even when so impossibly hard.

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