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  • #21
    Originally posted by n2dressage View Post
    I think the main point the OP had objection to is that the seller is saying she has nowhere to keep this horse but yet she is happy to trade this horse for a different horse... so where is she going keep the different horse???
    That was my thought.

    And I also wondered how the seller managed to get on the horse bareback in that low-ceilinged barn, without banging her head.

    And sorry, but when standing tied, the halter should be on the horse's head, not around its neck, especially if someone's mounting it. Really dumb.
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    • #22
      ESG, I think what I am getting from the seller is that perhaps she threw that bit about where to keep the new horse for "good measure" - that maybe the entire reason to sell was more about the fact she was over-horsed.

      I agree with you about the halter - I would not do that myself, but it would appear other respectable board members have done so without consequence. I also do not ride in places with low ceilings - I have issues with premature death.
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      • #23
        Those who live in glass houses, shouldn't throw stones.

        At least this person sounds like she's trying to give an honest account of what the horse can and can't do. None of us can possibly know the reason she can't keep this horse over the winter, but can keep another. There could be a hundred reasons that none of us would ever think of.

        She obviously feels the need to justify the sale because she knows that somewhere on the 'net some smart aleck will try to make her look bad for havng to sell her horse.

        She was right.

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        • #24
          ESG, I'm with you and the other posters who said "WTF" to the ad's content and then the added bonus of the picture of her sitting on a horse, that's tied, with a halter around its damn neck.

          And along those lines, there's a certain poster on here who is getting mighty grumpy recently...
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          • #25
            ME?

            I'm always Grumpy.

            The other guys got the good names like Sleepy, Dopey, Sneezy, etc.

            NJR
            Your beliefs don't make you a better person, your behaviour does.

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            • #26
              Originally posted by TheJenners View Post

              And along those lines, there's a certain poster on here who is getting mighty grumpy recently...
              Could that poster be in pain? or is it training related? What is the best way to deal with a grumpy poster? should we put a lip chain on her and give it a yank everytime she says something a little unpleasant, or should we have the vet out for an evaluation.

              (Yes, This is sarcasm.)
              If i'm posting on Coth, it's either raining so I can't ride or it's night time and I can't sleep.

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              • #27
                Obviously everyone on this thread, horses and humans alike, Needs Parelli. Then we can all drink koolaid together and never ever have a horse that will buck us off and need to be sold. To slaughter. Barefoot. while being Rolkured. (Probably need to work Gypsy Vanners into this at some point.)

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                  #28
                  Well obviously a few people missed the point of the original post. In one sentence she says she has to sell the horse because she has no place to keep a horse, then she says she wants to trade this horse for a different one. But....I thought there was no place to keep a horse? It had NOTHING to do with being a beginner or hoof trimming or anything else.

                  Anyway, forget it. Carry on.

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                  • #29
                    (I personally like how every gray horse becomes a blue roan....I didn't see any black points on her, just a gray horse)

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                    • #30
                      Originally posted by HenryisBlaisin' View Post
                      I'd way rather see someone realize when they're in over their head and sell the horse rather than try to work through it when they aren't capable and have horse and/or rider end up hurt and/or afraid.

                      If I lived in that area that horse would already be at my barn. I think she's adorable!
                      me to i think shes has good potential for a nice little allrounder


                      Originally posted by n2dressage View Post
                      I think the main point the OP had objection to is that the seller is saying she has nowhere to keep this horse but yet she is happy to trade this horse for a different horse... so where is she going keep the different horse???
                      why does that matter to you, thats her business
                      look at the photo is the horse skinny, and underweight, does it look like its been ill treated, no it does not, she in m book she has kept the horse well and done a few bits as handling with it, and fed it , so if she choses to get another then thats her bisness as to the same of where she keeps it

                      for all you know the yard might have already taken a client for her stable once she moves out so like i said give credit where its due
                      and what she does is her bisness likewise its your bisness if you chose to tell all and sundry of what your up to,

                      eye in the sky
                      I agree with you about the halter - I would not do that myself, but it would appear other respectable board members have done so without consequence. I also do not ride in places with low ceilings - I have issues with premature death.


                      we not saying we mount horses with low celings and we are saying we get on a horse with a halter round its neck
                      what we are saying is that when we tack up to ride a horse
                      then we place the halter round its neck so the horse is tied to the tie up ring still

                      for exsample, you undo the head collar as you have the bridle in your hands
                      you move it down and buckle it up so its on the neck of the horse and out of the way of its head, as you then going to put the bridle on his/her head by placing your thum in the corner of the mouth, to open it, and then gently putting the bit in his/her mouth then with the over hand thats holding the bridle up towards his/her face you gentle slip over the horses ears- you then undo the lead rope undo the halter and slip the halter over the bridle and re do it up on a loose setting or you unclip the lead rope and attach it to the bit nearest the the post you have the horse tied up to , and then hang the head collar up on the hook provided for it, you then procceed to place your numnah then saddle on the horse back then proceed to attach the girth andanyother peices of equipemnt you ride in - then you prepare for your ride by getting your hat boots and gloves , then one would unclip hte horse or demob the halter and take out of the stable or place where you have just tack it up mount up and go for your ride

                      as for low celing -no one i know rides a horse in an area with a low ceiling
                      now as perhaps this young lady has sat on her horse then doesnt that show you that shes a novice - and of which point if she was in a decent yard with knowledgable people/trianers dont you think that one would surgest to her that this is dangerous and a safty issue

                      could it be that in her novice but caring side of her tha she realises shes been doing things wrong and the yard itself has a no careless attitude so if and when shes does buy a new horse perhaps this young lady is wise enough to know that this isnt the best yard that has her or horses interests at heart

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                      • #31
                        Originally posted by Auventera Two View Post
                        Well obviously a few people missed the point of the original post. In one sentence she says she has to sell the horse because she has no place to keep a horse, then she says she wants to trade this horse for a different one. But....I thought there was no place to keep a horse? It had NOTHING to do with being a beginner or hoof trimming or anything else.

                        Anyway, forget it. Carry on.
                        then why post - it havent you just done the same yourself
                        sernerio might be different but principals the same

                        you pts one horse to get another, within days
                        you sold or leased a stallion to get a foal

                        like i said different senerio's but principals are the same

                        and in the same token you this owner has no place to keep him
                        wasnt you in the same boat when your leased/rented stallion got in with your mares and gelding that you sent him back as you had no where and no proper facilties to keep him

                        again different sernerio- same pricipal
                        dont calll the kettle balck when you do the same self thing

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                        • #32
                          Goeslikestink- I find it hard to take you seriously when it takes so much effort to wade through your bad spelling and grammar. Why do you feel the need to quote my post and attack me for clarifying the original post? Not to mention, it would be mine or anyone else's business that had a nice horse to trade with her to discuss WHERE she would keep the horse since the very first part of the ad states she has nowhere to keep the horse! I'm fine with the horse being too much for her and all of that... I just appreciate honesty in a person which is sometimes hard to come by...

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                          • #33
                            Originally posted by Catersun View Post
                            Could that poster be in pain? or is it training related? What is the best way to deal with a grumpy poster? should we put a lip chain on her and give it a yank everytime she says something a little unpleasant, or should we have the vet out for an evaluation.

                            (Yes, This is sarcasm.)
                            If her shoes aren't too tight, then I would check bra fit. A too-tight bra can make any COTHER a bit cold [backed].


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                            • #34
                              or you could try one of several supplements- but be warned that there is NO scientific evidence to support any of them.

                              At the very least you MUST cut all the sugar out of the diet!

                              Originally posted by Phaxxton View Post
                              If her shoes aren't too tight, then I would check bra fit. A too-tight bra can make any COTHER a bit cold [backed].
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                              • #35
                                ...And if that's all a miss...must be ulcers!


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                                • #36
                                  Originally posted by myhorsefaith View Post
                                  ...And if that's all a miss...must be ulcers!


                                  Or teeth. Perhaps she needs a root canal?


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                                  • #37
                                    Originally posted by Liberty View Post
                                    If that girl rode that mare with the saddle like it is in the pic, no wonder she couldn't get her away from the barn and was subsequently bucked off.
                                    Sorry, maybe I'm blind, but that picture with the horse standing there in western tack looks fine to me.

                                    Please advise as to what is incorrect.
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                                    • #38
                                      Originally posted by RxCate View Post
                                      Sorry, maybe I'm blind, but that picture with the horse standing there in western tack looks fine to me.

                                      Please advise as to what is incorrect.
                                      Not a thing, provided the horse doesn't have to move. That saddle is sitting right on top of his shoulders. It also looks too narrow, but that's hard to say for sure from the photo.
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                                      • #39
                                        Originally posted by n2dressage View Post
                                        Goeslikestink- I find it hard to take you seriously when it takes so much effort to wade through your bad spelling and grammar. Why do you feel the need to quote my post and attack me for clarifying the original post? Not to mention, it would be mine or anyone else's business that had a nice horse to trade with her to discuss WHERE she would keep the horse since the very first part of the ad states she has nowhere to keep the horse! I'm fine with the horse being too much for her and all of that... I just appreciate honesty in a person which is sometimes hard to come by...
                                        wasnt attacking your post was answering it as in an answer to the op as in the same way you answered it as in what the op etc etc

                                        i highlighted the clarification of what you posted to show you what the op is like

                                        you cant have it both ways when your doing the same self thing
                                        in others words dont complain about others when you do the same
                                        saying you as in the op and you is often in gerneral use with me

                                        and yeah you dont know me, do you i am a very experince trainer rider in my own rights and very well respected where i live

                                        2nd i also have a disability as in am very severly dislextic ok to find word when your normal but when you are like me its not so easy spell check isnt always goods becasue there are many reasons for one word and sppell check doesnt do grammer

                                        so sorry tough your have to read for content not context and dont be so quick to pick on people that are at a disavantage

                                        likewise the op picking on a perosn for how she wrote her advert she could be like me
                                        and in which if one is then shes at a disavantage and the whole topic of op is in bad taste and nasty isnt it

                                        and if anyone ones know what it like to be pciked on for the way some one writes then i sure do know how that feels but i also am very strong willed and minded that i take it on the chin and think moron for not thinking all people are equal

                                        of which we all are so what you think is attacking i surgest you think again as sometimes iam blunt to riase a point of view in this case the op

                                        you cant moan about something when your doing the same thing

                                        and i personnally dont go around pretending to be something iam not unlike the op

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                                        • #40
                                          Originally posted by n2dressage View Post
                                          Goeslikestink- I find it hard to take you seriously when it takes so much effort to wade through your bad spelling and grammar. Why do you feel the need to quote my post and attack me for clarifying the original post? Not to mention, it would be mine or anyone else's business that had a nice horse to trade with her to discuss WHERE she would keep the horse since the very first part of the ad states she has nowhere to keep the horse! I'm fine with the horse being too much for her and all of that... I just appreciate honesty in a person which is sometimes hard to come by...
                                          Please be kind to GLS; she has stated that she has some issues with spelling/typing before. If you take time to read her posts, you will see that she is quite the knowledgeable horsewoman
                                          Horse sense is the thing a horse has which keeps it from betting on people.
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