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  • #21
    We had a boarder named Tonka, sweet TB bay with a white sock, began to have seizers, every so often, like once a month, but they began to get worse and worse.

    The little girl who owned him of course loved him to pieces, her first horse to a non horsey family. They relied heavily on me to help them to know what to do.

    I told them we would just have to see how it goes and we'll know when its right to put him down.

    Well, we had gone to the Upperville HS and it was a long drive home and didn't get to the farm until around 3 am. And I can promise you I am never at the barn at 3 am!We got unpacked and all of a sudden Tonka started seizing the worst he had ever.

    He looked at me and I knew he had waited until I got home to let me know and couldn't wait any longer, it was time. We had been gone 4 days from the farm, which is a long time for me to be away, so I know he must have been really ready, as he would have never expected me to be gone so long.

    So that night I called the owner and told her we had to do it the next morning, of course they and I are very upset, but I knew he couldn't wait.

    But try and tell a 13 yr old little girl that its time. Well the next morning the arrangements had been made for the afternoon, so she could spend the morning with Tonka, she keep says he looks fine, can't we wait, it was killing me to see this adorable little girl in so much pain.

    But then Tonka took over and began siezing,after another, which he had never done before, just one at a time then he would be normal.

    It was like Tonka was showing his owner so she knew it was the right thing to do. I kept thinking thank you Tonka for letting us know you couldn't hang on any longer, we all loved him.
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    • #22
      I have a couple of stories, but I'll tell the one about my current mount.

      I started taking lessons again last autumn after a nasty fall off my only had him two weeks, really, really nice horse. My confidence was completely shot. I was having a conversation with my new trainer about whether I should keep the horse that dumped me or not (he turned out to have a bolting problem, so I was understandably scared to death of riding him.) It moved onto whether I would get a new horse or not and my trainer pointed into one of the fields and said, "That white pony needs a home."

      After I was done riding my trainer and the BO encouraged me to go out in the pasture and introduce myself. With a carrot in hand I walked up to her, scritched her a bit, then turned around to go back to the gate... she followed me back. The trainer and BO's jaws had dropped. The pony had quite a history of running away from anyone who approached her. That she followed me was unheard of. They both emphatically agreed the pony and I needed to get together.

      Long story short, here we are nine months later and I have the best mount I could have ever asked for. She was barely saddle broke when I got her and had some issues due to being abused very early in her life. Now, we scored 73.5% in our first dressage test and beat $20,000 warmbloods. We've been to our first horse trial (pre-comp,) where she took me over every jump without even thinking about it. I've jumped higher with her than I have in over fifteen years. She's an awesome trail horse and acts like she's been doing it for twenty years... she's five.

      I know generally an unconfident rider and a green pony are a recipe for disaster, but for us it was a recipe for success. We've found confidence in each other that I'm not sure we would have found otherwise. I am so incredibly lucky I have her in my life. I went from being scared of going fast to urging her on during cross-country. I grin my way through jumping courses because I'm having so much darn fun with her.

      I'm really looking forward to telling people she's not for sale


      Here we are on the first day we trotted (and she barely steered) in late November


      And now, two weekends ago, when I got my first blue in Equitation since I was a teen.
      Pam's Pony Place

      Pam's Pony Ponderings

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        #23
        You both look transformed by the second photo...

        What great stories...

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        • #24
          [QUOTE=Iron Horse Farm;4999218]\
          If it wasn't for her I probably wouldn't have my husband. I would still be holding out for the 6'2 stock broker and have walked right past the slightly nerdy 5'7 engineer.....because you see, what you want isn't always what you need.

          RIP Aamaraa 1977-2005
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          OHMYGOODNESS.

          this one had my tears brimming over. What a beautiful tale (tail?).

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          • #25
            You guys all write such lovely tributes! I am very glad I opened this thread. Horses are just magical in our lives. We are the lucky ones.
            www.ncsporthorse.com

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            • #26
              I've told this story before about my horse "Bones".

              For months I'd been driving down to where I boarded my two horses and noticing a bay TB looking horse who kept getting skinnier and skinnier. He was in a 2 acre field with no water except runoff from a garage (can just imagine what was in that water). The white trash at the garage were betting on when he'd die. I found his owners. He was an OTB who they bought for their young daughter. He was too hot, so they cut his feed, he had gas, so they cut his feed to nothing. He was dying slowly. His only shelter was an old pig barn with 2' of manure on the floor. I bought him, sure didn't need him, but he needed me. I called him Bones, and you could see every rib from yards away.

              I slowly got weight back on Bones, he turned out to be a lovely blood bay and very sweet. As people have said, they seem to know you've saved them. When it became time to get on his back I was waiting for...drama? something stupid? He stood there and seemed to say, "what took you so long?" He was a gentleman. I had two jumpers who were my "real" horses, one youngster and one campaigner and now i had to find a home for Bones. I thought I found a good one, guy in his 30's, a new rider who wanted a nice horse to ride and have fun. I sold Bones for $500 to him and hoped my fantasy of a happy life for him was fulfilled. It wasn't.

              8 months later I stopped by where Bones was boarded and went looking for my old friend. I found him in a stall with two gates covering the entire front of his stall. I opened his gate and he had his ears back, whites of his eyes showing and a snarl to him...I called "Bones"! and he stopped and looked at me. I told him he was OK and he put his head against my chest and did the horse whuffle saying, "I'm safe". After 10 minutes of petting him and quietly talking to him I was out looking for the guy I sold him to. Turns out every idiot was telling him how to ride the horse, how to discipline him etc...I told him I was buying him back. "Oh, he's an expensive TB, he's worth more than you sold him to me...he's $2,500 or so now if you want him".

              I was 18 at the time and had little money, I couldn't rescue Bones, save him and then let him suffer again. I sold my young jumper, he'd do well and was a super horse...Bones needed me and you don't leave friends to suffer.

              Bones was mine again and I vowed never to sell him again. I was the only one who rode him and he was a good friend. 24 years later I still had Bones. I got to know an old lady who lived near the barn where I kept my guys, she always came to pet the horses and loved Bones..."He likes me and my carrots" she always said. She had a house with several acres and it was even fenced. I spoke with her neighbor who'd known her since she was a girl...her father told her, "She didn't need a horse", then her husband told her "She didn't need a horse"...and then her grown kids told her, "She didn't need a horse". Well, she was getting a horse...Bones.

              I checked her fences and run in shed, everything was great. I pulled up one day to her house with my trailer, feed, hay and an old horse. Off he came and she just stared..."Here's your horse, you do need one". She cried, I cried, all her friends were crying (I called her support staff to get them ready for the horse warming party). I stopped by several times a week to make sure Bones was doing Ok and everything was going well. She had her morning tea with Bones while he ate breakfast. She just sitting in a lawn chair while he snuffled her hair and hands looking for treats and a pat and stood next to her almost asleep. Amazingly, the grandkids were coming by to visit...she wasn't the old grandma' any more, she was the horsey grandma with Bones. He loved being groomed and would stand to be braided with his head down. She had company and her grandkids and neighbor kids to stop by and visit HER horse Bones.

              Bones died 2 years later quietly in the field, aged 30 or so (I never could read his tattoo). He never seemed to ask for very much and was ever the gentleman. He was my noble friend, a nice horse and brought a lady the horse she always wanted. She died 6 months later telling everyone she knew about her lovely horse.

              Bones is the horse I always cry over, can only tell about him in writing since I start snuffling away telling his story. Oh well...
              "Sic Gorgiamus Allos Subjectatos Nunc"

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              • #27
                It's a wonderful thing...

                ...that there is a horse for everyone! We've had a run on plain bays, even small ones, even COLTS!, hallelujah! And these OTTBs, who represent the Finest of Finger Lakes, are magical and moving because they have found themselves into wonderful homes! Truly, it doesn't get more magical than this! Thanks to all who give them a well deserved, and much rewarded, second chance.

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                • #28
                  OH Trehkehener.

                  What a beautiful tribute to Bones. The tears are flowing. I'm constantly amazed at the whim of serendipity, and the beauty of "folks" who find each other when they didn't even know they needed each other!

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                    #29
                    WOW. Sniffle.

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                    • #30
                      Mine is not so much about a magical horse, but a kindness from a stranger.

                      When I was 12 years old, I bought my first horse. Times were tight back in the early 70s, and this was an enormous stretch for my family. I literally saved my 50 cents-an-hour baby sitting money until I had enough to start shopping for a horse (about $300).

                      My first horse was very special. He was a 4 year old palomino quarter horse, very accomplished in the show arena; and he would normally have been thousands of dollars beyond my price range.

                      What made this horse available to me was that he reared up in his stall, whacking his head on something, and damaging a nerve in his face which caused his bottom lip to droop a bit. His show career was over. The insurance company required that he be sold for salvage. He was offered to a friend who gave me the lead...and I had this magnificent horse for my horse budget of $300.

                      Two weeks later he was standing beside a little filly (not mine) when they were both hit by lightening. And killed.

                      I was 12 years old, and devastated. My money gone. My heart broken. No prospects of another horse. I was back to hanging over the fence feeding other people's horses bits of carrots and crying into their manes.

                      About four months later, we got a call from the barn that we bought my horse from. They had gotten word of my horse's death. One of the ladies in the barn (a boarder as best as I remember it, not actually the guy I bought my horse from) had a horse she wanted to give me.

                      I know we see giveaways on COTH all the time. But at that time, never outside of my fantasies had I heard of anyone giving away a horse.

                      My dad and I made the six-hour drive to that barn a second time and picked up the horse of my heart.

                      I have no words to tell you what that horse meant to me. He was something special -- the horse I explored on, got lost with, sat bareback on staring at the stars, impressed my boyfriends with, rode in parades, whiled away my summers with... The horse of my heart.
                      I have a Fjord! Life With Oden

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                        #31
                        Originally posted by Nin View Post
                        Mine is not so much about a magical horse, but a kindness from a stranger.

                        When I was 12 years old, I bought my first horse. Times were tight back in the early 70s, and this was an enormous stretch for my family. I literally saved my 50 cents-an-hour baby sitting money until I had enough to start shopping for a horse (about $300).

                        My first horse was very special. He was a 4 year old palomino quarter horse, very accomplished in the show arena; and he would normally have been thousands of dollars beyond my price range.

                        What made this horse available to me was that he reared up in his stall, whacking his head on something, and damaging a nerve in his face which caused his bottom lip to droop a bit. His show career was over. The insurance company required that he be sold for salvage. He was offered to a friend who gave me the lead...and I had this magnificent horse for my horse budget of $300.

                        Two weeks later he was standing beside a little filly (not mine) when they were both hit by lightening. And killed.

                        I was 12 years old, and devastated. My money gone. My heart broken. No prospects of another horse. I was back to hanging over the fence feeding other people's horses bits of carrots and crying into their manes.

                        About four months later, we got a call from the barn that we bought my horse from. They had gotten word of my horse's death. One of the ladies in the barn (a boarder as best as I remember it, not actually the guy I bought my horse from) had a horse she wanted to give me.

                        I know we see giveaways on COTH all the time. But at that time, never outside of my fantasies had I heard of anyone giving away a horse.

                        My dad and I made the six-hour drive to that barn a second time and picked up the horse of my heart.

                        I have no words to tell you what that horse meant to me. He was something special -- the horse I explored on, got lost with, sat bareback on staring at the stars, impressed my boyfriends with, rode in parades, whiled away my summers with... The horse of my heart.
                        IF only we had a pic... sigh...

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                        • #32
                          Just had to tell my co-workers that my allergies are bothering me. They just would NOT understand reading a thread of sappy horse stories and getting all choked up...

                          I've told this story before. I have a intelligent, sassy crossbred mare that I think the world of. In the fall of 2005, she had already had her share of traumas at a young age, recovering from strangles and purpura only to have us discover that she was pregnant before the age of 2 (due to a fencing mishap her yearling summer that we did not take seriously due to several factors). She delivered her colt about a month after her 2nd birthday.

                          Their pasture mates were staying outside 24/7 but I brought my filly-mare and her colt into a stall every night for special feeding and shelter. Every morning I would bring them out to pasture and watch them canter away to meet their buddies.

                          Except this one morning. The foal cantered off to his aunties. My girl stood and snorted. I watched as she walked up to the fence and nosed around on the ground -- though I couldn't see what there was there to interest her. I was about to walk off when she stomped her foot and rolled a fence tensioner toward me. I said grumble, grumble someone has broken the fence, and walked over to pick up the wire and move it somewhere safe. My filly snorted again and stomped her foot.

                          I turned around -- she had walked about ten feet from the downed wire and was sniffing the ground and stomping, half-rearing. I said "go out with your baby, you silly girl" but she didn't. She reached a damp spot on the ground, and pawed it. I went about my business. She snorted, pawed and put her nose to the ground again, and when she picked up her head, her muzzle was COVERED with blood.

                          Oh hello? Crap! What is going on here? My girl was now totally agitated. I looked out at the three other horses in the field -- two were grazing, one was standing with head at half mast looking miserable. I started to walk toward the miserable one and as soon as I did, my filly galloped off to her baby. Her work there was done.

                          My friend's yearling filly had sliced her leg to the bone on the wire fence. She was weak from loss of blood but we found her in time, and thanks to our vet and my friend's doctoring, the filly is sound and happy, six years old this year. She is alive because of my crazy-smart girl who insisted that I pay attention. She has done other smarta$$ things that are funny and/or frustrating, but this is the one that really blows my mind. I think if I had really headed for the pasture gate she would've grabbed me by the hair and pulled me back in!

                          Here is a pic of my mare and her boy -- I think he was four and she was six in this picture.
                          Last edited by JoZ; Jul. 27, 2010, 11:58 AM. Reason: added pic
                          Shall I tell you what I find beautiful about you? You are at your very best when things are worst.
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