Honestly, like I said (again) before if I read something on here I would always assume that there were two sides to a story and I would never jump to conclusions over some he-said-she-said BS on a bulletin board.
You say that it's being held in a private way, yet you come here and air out the OP's dirty laundry as well....
FYI - currently she has another of my ponies she has not paid for and we have been forced to retain counsel to get him back. For someone with so much money, blah, blah - she should pay up and stop stealing ponies!! I have tried to sit back quietly but now I am just tired of it.
If I were in your shoes I would leave out the personal attacks and witty come backs and just leave it with "We are handling this matter privately."