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  • #21
    take time to heal!

    at has many people depending on me. I can't keep engaging in activity that, when I am hurt, knocks me out of work the way this will.

    Congratulations on thinking beyond your own self interest I would not try and make a major decision right now; wait until you've healed a bit more, you will know when, when, spend some time with your horses; it may be that simply going back/ down a division will ease your concerns/ fears
    Last edited by Carol Ames; Jul. 17, 2010, 07:49 PM. Reason: typos
    breeder of Mercury!

    remember to enjoy the moment, and take a moment to enjoy and give God the glory for these wonderful horses in our lives.BECAUSE: LIFE is What Happens While Making Other Plans

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    • #22
      At 41 I broke my collarbone into nine pieces and cracked or broke all my ribs on the right side. I too had a position of responsibility, but I continued to ride.
      If you are that worried about missing days due to injury, I guess you don't drive or ride in an automobile anymore? More car accidents than riding accidents.
      Get an excellent physical therapist, a good ice pack, and some time to heal. I found my collarbone fractures painfull for two weeks or so then things went much better. I rode months before I was given the green light by the surgeon.
      I wish you good luck!!!
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      • #23
        I was 45 when I had my first major horse injury. Two busted ribs and a partially collapsed lung. I was hauled off to the trauma center where I spent 72 hours on an assortment of drugs before I was released.

        The morning after the fall I remember getting a phone call from my trainer's wife. The first question she asked was whether I wanted to ride again asap or take a break for a while. The first words out of my mouth was I could not wait to get back on my horse again.

        Yes, my job was not happy. Less than 10 days after the accident I was cleared to return to work by the 14th day. I wasn't out of the doctor's office 15 minutes when my boss was on the phone wanting to know when I would be back in the office.

        I returned to work within two weeks and was back in the saddle 24 days after the accident. Yes I wore a vest, and yes I took it easy. I was somewhat nervous until I took my first fall after this incident. After that, I was fine.

        You know, incidents happen. Yes I have a very important job. And I could also be dead tomorrow. Watched my best friend with an important job get killed in an auto accident. You enjoy riding, then ride. Take it down a notch if you have too. Life is too short.

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        • #24
          Originally posted by SouthwestRerider View Post
          I agree with the other posters- you will be better able to think about riding after you are healed and off the Vicodan! You are only 38! If you quit now you will find yourself a Re-Re-Rider, because the bug WILL bite again. I am 58, but just started back three years ago. Hang in there!
          As a 58 yr old Re-Re-Rider, I couldn't agree with this more--the bug will just bite again! With the beginnings of osteoporosis happening, I've already done what Happy2bhere said and adjusted my goals. But the fulfillment of just getting on and riding is more than ever. Hope you are feeling better soon!
          Mon Ogon (Mo) and Those Wer the Days (Derby)

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          • #25
            Do you have a blackberry and remote access to your office? I am scheduled for surgery that will take me out for at least 4 weeks. During that time I will be working via remote to my office computer, using fed ex. (they will come to your house to pick up overnight delivery) and depending on staff members who tend to "step up to the plate" when necessary. If you are an attorney (your user name gives me a clue unless it stands for Tarheel Jumper Dressage which I doubt) you can still bill time, etc. via remote access and talk to clients on your phone.

            I am a rerider too and started again at 37 (13 years ago.) It does hurt more when I fall off now than when I was younger. I sometimes think -- crap, I'd better not fall off because I have to be in the office in the morning for a meeting, etc. That being said, I also tell myself that I need to live my life for myself too and I'd be a she-devil if I couldn't find time to do and think of other things besides the office.

            Sometimes colleagues aren't as understanding when you are injured while participating in a sport for some odd reason. This is true whether you are playing basketball or riding horses. These people are usually the ones that do not have any type of outside life besides the office. I would not dwell on the fact that it was your horse that you fell off of but that it was an accident and accidents do happen.

            Rest up and make decisions when you are feeling better. Do not make any while taking Vicodin (don't have any conference calls either even if they can't see you) you'll wake up one day and think WTF was I thinking!

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            • #26
              NO Tarheel, you can't!!

              I fell off my horse 2 years ago after getting back to riding at 42 and separated my shoulder, and 2 yes 2 surgeries later I'm still in the saddle, even broke my 2 year old filly last week!
              You can't stop now!!
              You are so close to us, where do you ride, if I may ask?
              Support group to your aid!
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              • #27
                The other thing that can help you to feel a little better about the risk vis a vis your job is to make sure that all of your important dates are on a calendar or docket that your secretary or someone else has access to.

                I have everything (and I mean EVERYTHING) on my Outlook calendar. My secretary knows that if anything happens to me, she is to check that calendar immediately and start doing triage on anything that appears to be urgent (hearings, deadlines, etc.), getting others in my practice group to cover for me. It's sort of morbid, but I don't want to get sued for malpractice or get my firm sued because I didn't plan ahead. I started doing this with car accidents and the like in mind, but it would apply to horse injuries that knock me out of action as well.

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                  #28
                  Thanks so much for all your helpful comments. I am sort of embarassed by my self-pitying post. My only defense is that I have been fairly high on pain killers!

                  Re: more info on the incident -- we were cantering some ground poles when it happened. He was a roping horse in his previous life, but since I bought him in October of last year, we have been training him as a hunter. He has a lot of raw talent, but needs to learn where his feet are in order to start jumping. Anyway, he stumbled pretty badly, and my trainer thinks that the german martingale he had on was interfering with his ability to stretch his neck to get his balance back, and that scared him and he bucked. But who knows - any horse can do anything, at any time, no matter how solid their temperment is generally. He is a good boy, and I don't blame him at all.

                  In response to the mom who broke her collar bone with several small children, one in diapers, all I can say is WOW! My responsibilities at the office don't hold a candle to that!

                  Yes, I am a lawyer, and yes we tend to think we are more crucial to our matters than we are. The world has not stopped since I have been away from the office and my colleagues have been great.

                  I totally agree that I just need to focus on getting better physicaly, and then worry about the future. I also suspect that if I give up riding, I will be a re-re-rider down the road. I don't want to stop living my life because of work obligations, and as one person noted, the reason I work so hard is to afford to do the things I love, like riding. Overcoming fear after this fall will be a whole separate issue!

                  I hope everyone else who posted about their collar bones are doing well! Mine is my right, and I am right handed, so typing is a serious pain! The big question is this - what have you been wearing? I have been wearing my husband's big, button down Oxford shirts, but I am not going to be able to wear those to the office when I go back to work! And I have yet to even attempt to put on a bra!

                  Oh, and one other question. I have an area on my right hip and right butt cheek that has been numb since the fall. I assume the impact on that hip damaged the nerve there. I have a doctor's appointment set up for it, but he could not fit me in until early August. Has anyone else experienced this sort of prolonged numbness at the point of impact after a hard fall?
                  Riding a horse is not a gentle hobby, to be picked up and laid down like a game of solitaire. It is a grand passion.... ~ Emerson

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                    #29
                    Originally posted by Summit Springs Farm View Post
                    NO Tarheel, you can't!!

                    I fell off my horse 2 years ago after getting back to riding at 42 and separated my shoulder, and 2 yes 2 surgeries later I'm still in the saddle, even broke my 2 year old filly last week!
                    You can't stop now!!
                    You are so close to us, where do you ride, if I may ask?
                    Support group to your aid!
                    I live in Buckhead, but my trainer is out I20 West, in Dallas, Ga. It is about a 50 minute drive for me. not too much farther than the drive on 400 to Alpharetta.

                    So good to hear from other riders my age who overcame injuries and stuck with it! Thanks so much!
                    Riding a horse is not a gentle hobby, to be picked up and laid down like a game of solitaire. It is a grand passion.... ~ Emerson

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                    • #30
                      Yes - do get this attended to!

                      Originally posted by TarheelJD View Post
                      ...
                      Oh, and one other question. I have an area on my right hip and right butt cheek that has been numb since the fall. I assume the impact on that hip damaged the nerve there. I have a doctor's appointment set up for it, but he could not fit me in until early August. Has anyone else experienced this sort of prolonged numbness at the point of impact after a hard fall?
                      Yes, I have - on several occasions after a fall. In my instances, it was from a pinched nerve. A pinched nerve can be caused by inflammation, or mechanical damage. The sooner you can get this checked out, the better. In my worst case, it was referred numbness from my spine (from landing on a large rock on my back), which my Chiropractor was able to adjust. But I did go to my PCP who checked me out first, and then referred my to the Chiro.

                      In my present case, due to numbness down my left thigh, from my recent pelvic fracture (3 months ago), I'm going back to my Orthopaedic Specialist - who did ask, at the time if I had any numbness - but I had enough pain from the fracture that I didn't notice the numb patch on my thigh.

                      btw - in the first instance ( landing on that rock ) I did enough damage, that I have to have it "adjusted" regularly for continued relief, but in my case that is the solution and no further intervention is required other than regular maintenance.

                      The sooner you get this attended to, the less likely it is to become chronic - had I not had such a hard bang, likely a few adjustments initially would have sufficed.

                      In the meantime, you may want to try some anti-inflammatory meds to see if it makes any difference.

                      Hope this helps. Get well soon!
                      “Your appearance should reflect the care you take in every aspect of your horsemanship... feeding, grooming... everything you do, from the barn to the show ring. Class, people, class…" George Morris

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                      • #31
                        You asked what to wear. Forget the bra!!! I wore button down shirts and sweat pants.
                        Two helpful hints - 1. roll up a cotton sock to absorb persperation in your right armpit. 2. Use a neck roll pillow parallel to your spine to sleep. My surgeon gave me this one - it really helps support your shoulder so you will be able to sleep more comfortably.
                        Ice packs or Cryopak sheets will really help with the pain now and when you start physical therapy.
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                        • #32
                          nerve damage

                          I had nerve damage in the area right below my elbow. I figure that I must have held out my elbow to try and "break" my fall. HA...from a 17.3hh horse over a jump The numbness extended down to my hand, especially the thumb area. It's been two months since the fall, and I have regained a LOT of feeling and strength. Not 100%, but getting better each week.

                          On an interesting note.... I read somewhere recently that it actually is safer for a rider's skull to fall from a greater height. One would think that the damage to one's body would be less from a fall closer to the ground, but this article said that when one is higher, the rider has more time to put out a hand or an arm to break the fall, instead of just crashing down on one's head. For all of us with broken collar bones.....whew..could have been worse!
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                          Oscar Wilde

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