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Starting over at Paradise Farm....

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  • Starting over at Paradise Farm....

    This past weekend, I took the big step back to riding. My dear, dear friend Amy Zaiser rode Rasta in a lesson with Lellie (more to come about that fabulous clinic! ), and then as the lesson was ending we just quietly went over to the side, and Amy gave me a leg up...I've said this over and over since that moment, I never cried when I broke my neck, but once on Rasta's back, the tears flowed. This picture is about 30 seconds into my first ride back, 6 months exactly to the day of the accident. I know all of you who have been through this with me, will understand and be happy with me. I have a long, long way to go, but it's started!

    ~ it no longer matters what level I do, as long as I am doing it..~ with many thanks, to Elizabeth Callahan

  • #2
    Great Job!!! have fun and take it slow!!

    Make any mistakes going forward!


    • #3
      That is so wonderful! Good luck with your return.


      • #4
        Yay!!!!! That's so awesome!! Congrats!
        Jessica Bortner-Harris
        "Throw your heart over the fence and your horse will follow."


        • #5

          While I don't know you personally I have followed your recovery on COTH, and it's so unbelieveably great to see you back on a horse!!! Here's to you, and your amazing strength to go though hell and back! In many ways I think you're still wearing a halo
          You can't fix stupid.... but you can breed it!


          • #6
            How did you feel, physically -- emotionally I know it was LARGE but can you describe how it felt with your body -- did you feel strong enough?
            Proud & Permanent Student Of The Long Road
            Read me: EN (http://eventingnation.com/author/annemarch/) and HJU (http://horsejunkiesunited.com/author/holly-covey/)


            • #7
              VERY cool Your pony looks happy to have you up there too!
              ** Tact is the ability to tell someone to go to hell in such a way that they look forward to the trip. ~Winston Churchill? **


              • #8
                Congratulations! Very brave.


                • #9
                  yay - y'all look great!!



                  • #10
                    Congrats! The start of a fresh new chapter in your life.


                    • #11
                      How exciting for you!!
                      Blogging about daily life on the retirement farm: http://paradigmfarms.blogspot.com/
                      Paradigm Farms on Facebook


                      • #12
                        Maybe it's the cocktail (or hormones ) but that's got me all choked up, too.


                        • #13
                          LOVE the picture! How brave you have been through all of this. It is a reminder to me to never take anything for granted.
                          Good Boy Rasta!
                          Taco Blog
                          *T3DE 2010 Pact*


                          • #14
                            "Never do anything that you have to explain twice to the paramedics."
                            Courtesy my cousin Tim


                            • #15

                              Thats the sound of everyone in Middle TN celebrating!
                              Big Idea Eventing


                              • #16
                                Welcome back

                                Maybe one day you and I will get to COMPETE together at an event.


                                • #17
                                  Yay! Keep at your PT and keep on recovering. I bet your boy Rasta was happy to have you back aboard, even for a couple minutes of tackwalking Mom.
                                  HAS provides hospital care to 340,000 people in Haiti's Artibonite Valley 24/7/365/earthquake/cholera/whatever.
                                  www.hashaiti.org blog:http://hashaiti.org/blog


                                  • #18
                                    So, so thrilled for you. I just went through a career-ending injury with my horse, and while it was him not me that was hurt, there is so much emotion in finally being able to get back on. It feels like a piece that's been out of place sliding back into its spot, like coming home to sit in your favorite chair after a trip so long you forgot just how comfortable it is.
                                    There may be setbacks along the way, but you are back in the saddle. It only gets better from here!
                                    I evented just for the Halibut.


                                    • #19
                                      Whoo Hoo! Very exciting and very cool.

                                      So glad to see you back in the saddle.


                                      • #20
                                        Congratulations!! I have two friends who had broken their necks (one in a car accident and one riding) and they are both back to riding and competing and doing great. Wishing you the same!!