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  • #61
    Godspeed, little one. Deepest condolences for those you have left behind and hopes that your bright spirit will bring some comfort
    OTTBs rule, but spots are good too!

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    • #62
      Psalm 34:18 The Lord is close to the brokenhearted and saves those who are crushed in spirit.

      May the God of All Comfort wrap His arms around you during this time. Please know you're being prayed Through.
      <>< Sorrow Looks Back. Worry Looks Around. Faith Looks Up! -- Being negative only makes a difficult journey more difficult. You may be given a cactus, but you don't have to sit on it.

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      • #63
        Sincere condolences to you and your family. My heart breaks for you.
        When blood is the beverage of choice, the sharpest fangs feed first.

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        • #64
          So sorry to hear that Connor passed. Hopefully you and Colleen and your other two kids will move past the sadness soon and be able to enjoy wonderful memories of your beautiful boy.
          Beth Davidson
          Black Dog Farm Connemaras & Sport Horses
          http://blackdogconnemara.com
          visit my blog: http://ponyeventer.blogspot.com

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          • #65
            As others have said, there just are no words to comfort such a loss, just know that you are in our thoughts.
            Rhode Islands are red;
            North Hollands are blue.
            Sorry my thoroughbreds
            Stomped on your roo. Originally Posted by pAin't_Misbehavin' :

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            • #66
              I'm so very, very sorry to hear of your loss. You and your family are in our thoughts

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              • #67
                I am so sorry.

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                • #68
                  So very, very sorry for your loss.
                  http://fromdressagehorsetocowpony.blogspot.com/

                  "I am still under the impression that there is nothing alive quite so beautiful as a thoroughbred horse." -- John Galsworthy

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                    #69
                    Wanted to let everyone know we still have no word on the services for Connor as soon as I do I will post. The reason it is taking so long is because we decided to donate some of Connors organs. We knew as much as Connor helped so many people while he was alive he would want us to do this. We got word that his kidneys have already been transplanted in to two different people and his heart valves were also put in to two different people. We do know now that he continues to help people and parts of him will live on which gives us some comfort.
                    http://colleenrutledgeeventing.com/

                    http://www.facebook.com/#!/pages/Col...51101928314503

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                    • #70
                      I am so very sorry! Sending hugs and prayers!
                      Whatever you can do, or dream you can, begin it. Boldness has genius, power, and magic in it. Goethe

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                      • #71
                        How wonderful that Connor's spirit can continue on through your generous gift. Hugs to you all.

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                        • #72
                          So very, very sorry for your loss.

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                          • #73
                            I am so very sorry to hear this. My thoughts are with you.

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                            • #74
                              we decided to donate some of Connors organs
                              As someone who is marginally connected to this sphere and who has seen and experienced the gut-wrenching process that people go through to make this decision too many times but has also seen the miracles this gift can bring, THANK YOU.
                              Click here before you buy.

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                              • #75
                                To show such generosity during this sorrow is inspiring. Thoughts and prayers to you and your family.
                                Always be yourself. Unless you can be Batman. Then always be Batman.

                                The Grove at Five Points

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                                • #76
                                  I'm so sad for you and the loss of your sweet boy. Words are never adequate at times like this, I am praying for you and your family..

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                                  • #77
                                    Oh no! Heartfelt condolences.

                                    I am in awe that you have decided to save others' lives at this time. Your beautiful son will now touch the lives of even more people, and live on through them.
                                    Born under a rock and owned by beasts!

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                                    • #78
                                      What a wonderful act of kindness and generosity! Godspeed.
                                      McDowell Racing Stables

                                      Home Away From Home

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                                      • #79
                                        I am so very sorry and sad to hear the news. Children are so special.

                                        Please take care of you and your family.

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                                        • #80
                                          I don't even know what to write, I am so moved by little Connor's final act of generosity. Big ((HUGS)) to the Rutledge family, still praying for you guys.
                                          Unrepentant carb eater

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