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  • #41
    Thinking of you. I am so sorry.


    • #42
      Thoughts and prayers for your family. There are no words that can be said at a time like this. Connor was a fighter may he now rest peacefully and his memories live on in all who had the honor of knowing him.


      • #43
        Godspeed, Connor. Deepest condolences Brian and Colleen. Our thoughts and prayers are with you, Connor and all the friends and family members who loved him.
        They don't call me frugal for nothing.
        Proud and achy member of the Eventing Grannies clique.


        • #44
          I am so very sorry, what a sweet little angel he is.
          When I pull on my boots, I know who I am


          • #45
            In Memoriam FAS

            Yet, O stricken heart,remember,O remember
            How of human days he lived the better part.
            April came to bloom and never dim December
            Breathed it's killing chills upon the head or heart

            Doomed to know not Winter, only Spring, a being
            Trod the flowery April blithely for awhile,
            Took his fill of music,joy of thought and seeing,
            Came and stayed and went,nor ever ceased to smile.

            Came and stayed and went, and now that all is finished,
            you alone have crossed the melancholy stream,
            Yours the pang, but his, O his, the undiminished
            Undecaying gladness, undeparted dream.

            All that life contains of torture, toil and treason,
            Shame ,dishonour, death, to him were but a name.
            Here,a boy, he dwelt through all the singing season
            And ere the day of sorrow departed as he came.

            Robert Louis Stevenson

            Thinking of you.. and hoping that you will find some comfort in the words that RLS wrote to a parent, who was grieving for their child. He had sat with the ill child, to give the boy's family a respite.
            They were not known to RLS personally, not friends, only aquaintances, at a spot recommended by physicians at the the time as a "cure".
            I have always been cheered by the humanity and empathy of this verse and I hope it reaches you somehow.
            Last edited by skydy; Feb. 4, 2013, 03:16 AM. Reason: To Add, I Can't Send Via Facebook.


            • #46
              peace, strength, comfort and hugs to all of you as you work through this very sad and difficult time. Hugs across the miles, my heart aches for you.
              “Always saddle your own horse. Always know what you’re doing. And go in the direction you are heading.” Connie Reeves
              Jump Start Solutions LLC


              • #47
                May The Lord hold you and your famy in this most difficult time. Godspeed Conner. My sincere condolences to your family.


                • #48
                  Words aren't enough to ease your sorrow. So very sorry for your loss.
                  Breeders of Painted Thoroughbreds and Uniquely Painted Irish Sport Horses in Northeast Oklahoma


                  • #49
                    There are no words. Love is eternal. Our hearts are with you and your family.
                    --Becky in TX
                    Clinic Blogs and Rolex Blogs
                    She who throws dirt is losing ground.


                    • #50
                      my deepest condolences to you and your family.


                      • #51
                        Grace and peace to you both. I'm so sorry.
                        "And now," cried Max, "let the wild rumpus start!"


                        • #52
                          Heartbreaking. I am so so sorry. Thinking of you and wishing you strength and peace.


                          • #53
                            I can't even begin to fathom....

                            Your family and friends are in my thoughts and prayers.
                            You can't fix stupid.


                            • #54
                              Rest in peace little one...and thoughts and prayers for those you have left behind but who will always remember you. Just heartbreaking.
                              ** Tact is the ability to tell someone to go to hell in such a way that they look forward to the trip. ~Winston Churchill? **


                              • #55
                                I am so very, very sorry. My thoughts and prayers are with you.


                                • #56
                                  I'm so sorry for your loss


                                  • #57
                                    Condolences and many prayers for all of you. Many of us think of having a medically fragile child as being one of the most awful experiences that parents could endure. You have shown us that while fragile children are very, very, hard, they are also a gift.


                                    • #58
                                      I am so sorry for the death of your beautiful little son. My thoughts are with you and Colleen and your family.


                                      • #59
                                        Condolences and prayers.


                                        • #60
                                          I am so very sorry for your loss.
                                          Different Times Equestrian Ventures at Hidden Spring Ranch