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Because Mr. Flight Check is the Best HusbandintheWorld, for Christmas he gave me

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  • Because Mr. Flight Check is the Best HusbandintheWorld, for Christmas he gave me

    weekly lessons with Lesley Grant-Law

    Last year I took as many as I could with her from Jan-March, before my season kicked into gear. But it was a struggle, because that is my slow time of year announcing-wise.

    So this year the wonderful DH (one of those rare men who Really Listen) gave me what I wanted most- a cute little card with a rhyme telling me to book those lessons!

  • #2
    Awwww!!! That's an AWESOME gift!!! Good job Mr. FC


    • #3
      Whooot! High five Mr. Flightcheck!
      Real Horses. Real Riders. Real Results! www.wvhorsetrainer.com


      • #4
        Yay Ed! He's the best. FPM wont be so thrilled though!


        • #5
          Could Mr. FC counsel my husband? That's awesomely perfect.
          If you believe everything you read, better not read. -- Japanese Proverb


          • #6
            Mine did pretty well...

            We exchanged ... our individual purchases! Therefore, he gave me a new saddle and I gave him a security camera system. But in addition, he bought me boot socks, tack sponges and treats for Froggy. A winner!
            T3DE 2010 Pact Group
            Barefoot Eventers Clique


            • #7
              Mr. Flight Check is major league wonderful!
              "Never do anything that you have to explain twice to the paramedics."
              Courtesy my cousin Tim


              • #8
                Awesome, i love her! She is a great instructor, and breaks it into easy to do and understand segments!
                May the sun shine on you daily, and your worries be gone with the wind.


                • #9
                  Wow! Im so jealous!!


                  • #10
                    Go Mr. FC. Looking forward to seeing you guys soon.
                    OTTBs rule, but spots are good too!


                    • #11
                      For our anniversary this year, mr. asterix gave me a picture of a ratty mitten....
                      it was not a good mitten, not at all...
                      it was in fact...
                      a bad mitten.
                      The man had planned a trip to Badminton, 2012.

                      God bless them, when they get it, they really get it.
                      The big man -- my lost prince

                      The little brother, now my main man


                      • Original Poster

                        Asterix, that is perfect!

                        One year i got 3 blocks of wood with the word "board" on them.


                        3 month's board at Rocking Horse during the winter season!


                        • #13
                          Those are some awesome gifts, and fantastic hubbies! (Love the "bad mitten" idea!!)


                          • #14
                            Originally posted by asterix View Post
                            For our anniversary this year, mr. asterix gave me a picture of a ratty mitten....
                            it was not a good mitten, not at all...
                            it was in fact...
                            a bad mitten.
                            The man had planned a trip to Badminton, 2012.

                            God bless them, when they get it, they really get it.
                            A+ for creativity

                            Awesome gift Flightcheck. It's great to have SO's who "get it". Mr ACME realizes that he will never understand why I get ecstatic over a really nice 'forward downward' transition, but he's okay with that.

                            And he's okay with me toddling off to Rolex without him and the teens knowing I'll drink too much Kentucky Ale, spend too much money, and talk too much about all the amazing rides I saw when I get home.

                            Ahhh, life is good . . .
                            Always be yourself. Unless you can be Batman. Then always be Batman.

                            The Grove at Five Points


                            • #15
                              Wow.....what really cool husbands! Can I say jealous? Honestly, wow, that is so cool! In my next life, i want a husband who loves me!
                              May the sun shine on you daily, and your worries be gone with the wind.


                              • #16
                                So jealous!!!!! She was here with with Leslie and taught some private lessons. Really liked her and was hoping I might have an opportunity at some point. Yep, Ed is a keeper. He is so creative. Terry isn't very creative, but he is a keeper too. Hope to see you both this year!!!!


                                • #17
                                  Yeah Mr. WW (he wouldn't be impressed if I threw "queen" in there lol) did good this year too. He covered the OTTB i impulsively bought (who is turning out better and better every day) and is going to pay my board on both my new guy and my sweet "newly retired" heart horse for the year.

                                  He can certainly be a big d!ck sometimes.....but yeah, he listens. Even if he doesn't get the horse thing, he knows it makes me happy so he deals. What a great hubby.

                                  Three cheers to the partners and spouses who support us, no matter how big or small.
                                  A quick tutorial on interval training: Conditioning your horse for eventing


                                  • #18
                                    Just wanted to throw another one in there, mine gave me a new saddle for Christmas Well, will be a new saddle once we can make arrangements with a saddle-fitter to try some saddles out. Love that he encourages me to go to the barn cuz he knows it makes me happy


                                    • #19
                                      What an amazing hubby!!!


                                      • #20
                                        Do any of these amazing hubbies have amazing single brothers?