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Hobby farm - Can one woman do it alone?

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  • #61
    It can be done

    I lived on 150 acres and had a dozen horses, a dog, chickens and barn cats and I did quite well for myself. The key was getting good help, I had people come in to bush hog the fields in the fall, plow in the winter, help me hay in the summer and lots of friends who loved the work that volunteered around the barn and with the horses. Plus I worked full time on and off. It was a hard but very rewarding life and I'd do it again in a heartbeat.
    The horse I bet on was so slow, the jockey kept a diary of the trip.
    Henny Youngman

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    • #62
      Originally posted by KellyS View Post
      ......I really don't agonize over temps--for me, they fall into 2 ranges--cold and really damn cold. Really damn cold is when you walk outside and your snot freezes in your nose.
      I'm one of those annoying morning people - up and buzzing around by 5am, usually happily, so I get out there an beat the heat! For us, our temps vary from hot and really damn hot!

      Your farm is beautiful, BTW.

      I used to live in Michigan and northern Ohio. I understand your cold temp scale

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      • #63
        Hmmm, well, hmmm. I would say that yes, you can definitely do it on your own but jeez, it's an entire lifestyle choice. And the SO isn't into hard labor. Hmmm, well, don't want to say anything about your relationship because it's yours but well, I can see a lot of resentment with farm life from both parties. SO doesn't want to help fix the broken frozen pipe and you're pissed because he doesn't want to go outside and hold something for you. That type of thing.
        I just think it's an entire lifestyle thing and you have to both be into it.
        Even duct tape can't fix stupid

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        • #64
          Originally posted by Boomer View Post
          I'm one of those annoying morning people - up and buzzing around by 5am, usually happily, so I get out there an beat the heat! For us, our temps vary from hot and really damn hot!

          Your farm is beautiful, BTW.

          I used to live in Michigan and northern Ohio. I understand your cold temp scale
          I hate you...not really. Dragging myself out of bed in the morning is not my favorite part of the day. Those 3 am mornings to go to horse shows...bleck. Not even coffee makes that better.

          But it works well for summer because while I'm still up at the same time, it's a more leisurely pace without stalls to clean. And then the evenings are the nice part of the day when I can ride, etc.

          And thanks! I told Aaron 2 things when we started farm shopping--I wanted a bank barn and old farmhouse. Didn't think we'd ever find something we could afford but everything fell into place with this farm. I hope we are there for a very long time.

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          • #65
            Married here with 3 acres, 2 horses. Full time job and commute, which keeps me gone 10 hours a day, sometimes longer, as I have one of those jobs where sudden OT can crop up with no notice. We got to design from scratch, so it's setup pretty effeciently for minimal work, although there are 1 or 2 things I'd do differenly after living on it for 10 years.

            I 'could' do it myself if I had to. DH mostly just does the mowing, weed wacking, and fence repairs, and he helps with getting hay, etc. But I could do the 1st 3 myself and pay to have the hay delivered and stacked. It is nice to have him around for heavy lifting, as dumping a 50 lb feed bag is a struggle for me.

            A few things that are a MUST HAVE and have make it possible for me to 'do it all'.

            Tractor with mower and front load!
            Chain drag for pasture maintenance.
            Spreader
            Hay elevator (we did the the no-no loft storage to keep the footprint down)
            Farrier who will work on horses without me present! (Ahhh... I loff my farrier!)
            Good power tools.
            24/7 turnout with stall access.

            Most importantly for low/easy maintenace is to have water and electric in convenient places (especially for winter). I have outlets behind the stall walls with a hole drilled through for heated buckets in winter, as well as the well head located under the stall overhang with electric access so I can just fill the 70 gal water trough right there and not worry about hoses freezing in winter. I keep the hose on a reel inside the barn, wheel it 2 feet to the pump to hook up for filling inside buckets. Either way, I never have to carry a filled bucket more than 30 feet, ever.

            DH does resent the time/expense sometimes, but at least he knows that things are setup so that he can say 'do it yourself' and I can. Of course, then he'd have to let me drive his precious tractor and use his power tools, LOL!
            Lowly Farm Hand with Delusions of Barn Biddieom.
            Witherun Farm
            http://witherun-farm.blogspot.com/

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            • #66
              Yes, but there are some things you really need another hand for - maybe not always a man's hand (or strength), but having another person around certainly makes fixing a fence easier!

              So, develop a good support group who can call on each other when the need arises.

              And knowing a reliable handyman is vital (anyone know one in Ocala?)

              Loretta

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              • #67
                Originally posted by Trevelyan96 View Post
                A few things that are a MUST HAVE and have make it possible for me to 'do it all'.

                Tractor with mower and front load!
                Chain drag for pasture maintenance.
                Spreader
                Hay elevator (we did the the no-no loft storage to keep the footprint down)
                Farrier who will work on horses without me present! (Ahhh... I loff my farrier!)
                Good power tools.
                24/7 turnout with stall access.

                Most importantly for low/easy maintenace is to have water and electric in convenient places (especially for winter). I have outlets behind the stall walls with a hole drilled through for heated buckets in winter, as well as the well head located under the stall overhang with electric access so I can just fill the 70 gal water trough right there and not worry about hoses freezing in winter. I keep the hose on a reel inside the barn, wheel it 2 feet to the pump to hook up for filling inside buckets. Either way, I never have to carry a filled bucket more than 30 feet, ever.
                Wow! All that for two horses!! You're spoiled... My must haves are a wheelbarrow, pitchfork, in barn access to water & electric, lawn tractor, a farrier who doesn't need handholding - for sure, and I use a little harrow for pasture/ring maintenance.

                Some sacrifices, and things that just aren't done anymore: Weeding the flower and veggie gardens, I usually give up around the end of June 'cuz it gets away from me by then - too much to keep up. Still pretty, just look at it from afar. I used some weed fabric in the veggies this year so it's not so bad. Clean floors - seriously, what's the point? Vacations... Being sick; well, you can be sick, but you still have to do your chores. I also have fond memories of being a perfectionist and I find myself thinking "good enough" a lot now. New cars, just keep the truck running by all means! Any assemblence of a social life.

                Things I wouldn't trade for anything: The quiet of early dawn, right before the birds start up, foggy mist on the pasture with low nickers coming out of it before you can even see the horses - that's hand in hand with end of the day, chores are done, just got back from the trails and everyone's cooled off and munching hay. I love that sound... Making my own decisions and not being second guessed. Having room for over flow from the shelter. Watching my horse eat grass freely - she didn't get a whole lot of that at the boarding barns. Watching the horses interact from the house when they don't know I'm watching. Saying good bye to my boarders and walking 20' into my house. The novelty of looking out the kitchen window while doing dishes and seeing your horse just right over there; I don't think it'll ever wear off.

                My husband does help a bit, if begrudgingly. He was raised with no animals ever, not even a gold fish. He deals for the most part, helps to support my habit financially and gets a little jealous at times. He knows it's my lifelong dream to do exactly this and loves me, so there you go. It'd definitely be more fun if he rode, but it works.

                If you have the opportunity, go for it. It's awesome!!
                If you destroy the land, you destroy the animals;
                if you destroy the animals, you destroy the people.

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                • #68
                  You definately need to work smarter, not harder, to get somethings done.

                  I had to fetch 100 bales out of the field, load it in the horse trailer, bring it home and restack it last summer by myself as the BF couldn't get time off to help.

                  So... I brought plenty of cold water and a heavy furniture dolly. Granted, all the men who were there loading their trailers probably snickered while I took the dolly, loaded two bales and rolled it to the trailer and stacked it. But by gosh I got 'er done.

                  As far as fencing, I have Gallagher electric rope. I like it because it pops hot, looks good and it's a one-woman show to work with it. I did need help to set corner posts, but I drove T-posts, strung the lines and tensioned it. And if a repair is needed, it is oh so simple.

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