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Hobby farm - Can one woman do it alone?

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  • #21
    I lease a farm that is 30 minutes from my home...better than boarding and until we finally buy our own, it is the best situation for me. I leave home every morning at 6 (or 5 sometimes) to feed and bring in (summer schedule...feed and turnout in winter). I then drive 45 minutes to work a full time job, and then go back after work where I feed, turn out, clean 5 stalls, try to ride, etc, etc.
    Yes, it can be done. I do get burned out sometimes. Right now, my oldest daughter is home from college and is a big help, but I am dreading when she leaves next month. She will take one of her horses with her, hopefully a rescue will be adopted, and I will just have 5 then (right now I have 7...1 boarder, 2 rescues and the rest mine). I am really over my limit right now...4 or 5 is a much better number to deal with.
    (and then I drive home...1 teenager, a husband, an aviary, 2 dogs, rabbits, cat and a house..I really cannot wait til we buy a farm)
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    • #22
      I did it on my own,3 Horse's, 8 acres,a young child,and a full time job,winters were the hard part,but I managed.
      But one caution, Beware of any help you hire,I found myself with a "psychotic" hired hand,who would turn up any time of the day /night,luckily when I fired him he stayed away, but it could have been worse...try and get as much info as possible on anyone you hire.Good luck.

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      • #23
        I have 22 acres, work 9.5-10 hour days M-F. I also have 1 show horse, 2 retirees, and 3 horse boarders.

        It can be done, but it is a tremendous amount of work. My favorite expressions have become:

        "Do what you can and let the rough edge drag until next time"

        or

        "You eat an elephant one bite at a time"

        My boyfriend is very helpful for things like weedwacking and helping figure out what's wrong with various pieces of equipment that always seem to breakdown right during the heavy mowing season. My parents come to MS a couple times a year to help with odds and ends.

        I don't go on vacation. I can sneak out for a weekend horseshow, but it takes a lot of work - have to have farmsitters lined up for twice/day, the farm dogs need fed....

        But it is satisfying to have my own place. It's stressful/lots of work at times, but most things that are worth having are.

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        • #24
          I'm not sure why one would differentiate between a "hobby farm" vs. a "business farm". If the owner is a sole woman, the issues are the same.

          Yes, it can be done. But you have to be organized, lay out your farm so that you can do things in a time effective manner, etc. And be prepared for back up if you became seriously injured.

          Things like pneumonia, the flu, broken foot...things like that don't count as serious..
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          • #25
            Originally posted by KellyS View Post

            Summer is a little easier on a working woman's schedule.....
            Wow. For me just the opposite. Winter is MUCH easier. I actually have days off. All the equipment has been preped for winter and is sitting in it's location until spring (for the most part).

            I use winter to piddle with inside the house/barn repairs that got put aside during the other months.

            There's no mowing/weedwacking/spraying, which takes phenomenal amount of time starting in April and lasting to Mid-October.

            I didn't look to see where you are - maybe up north? I bet winter is a drag, used to live up there.

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            • #26
              I don't have a hobby farm, I have a breeding business. Shedule F and everything.

              If you are doing it alone, the things to consider are turnout/run-ins so horse won't be stuck out in bad weather or stuck in should you get held over at work or some such. Free choice hay (round bales for me) is ideal.

              I designed everything from scratch, and have it all set up for minimal care & maintenence. It isn't easy always, but it works.

              Things I would LOVE: a tractor. A real riding ring. A tractor. Reliable farm sitter. A tractor.
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                #27
                Thanks for all the replies. My fiancee, who is VERY supportive of my horsey habit, has told me that if I want a farm in the future, I will need to do the work. I've been wondering lately if that is at all possible.

                But I'm also wondering if I would ever be able to give up riding 6 days per week, which I know I probably wouldn't do if I had my own place.

                I'm at a full-care boarding facility now, which is nice, but I miss doing my chores every day and doing everything the way *I* want, the way it was when I was at a self-care facility. I like doing morning feeds (honestly, I found it MUCH easier to get up early when I knew the horses were waiting for me!) and I have no problems with not going away on vacation, etc... We haven't gone anywhere for the last 10 years and don't feel like we're missing anything ...

                There have been a few farms that have come up for sale in my area lately, so I;ve been dreaming a little...

                Keep the stories coming, they are very inspirational!
                Jigga:
                Why must you chastise my brilliant idea with facts and logic? **picks up toys (and wine) and goes home**

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                • #28
                  Originally posted by saultgirl View Post
                  Well, can a single woman run a small hobby farm alone? For say, two or three horses, and if she has a fulltime job?

                  Yup - former BigCity {ahem} girl here. Farm has been up & running for 5 years next month.
                  2 horses, 5ac.
                  It isn't a showplace, but it is neat and workable.
                  Setup for my convenience and the horses'.
                  Stalls are open 24/7 to the sacrifice paddock that in turn opens on either side to a pasture. Access to any or all by gates.

                  I work 4 days a week and volunteer on the 5th.
                  Fortunately work is 10min from the farm. Volunteer job is back in Chgo but it gets me back to the City for a day so I don't totally lose my kul-chur & swah-vay.

                  Are there any gals here who do it?

                  See above
                  And I DO take vacations - I leave tomorrow for a week visiting my Dad in CA.
                  I used to have neighbors who horse-sat but now I have a young girl who comes 2X day to feed horses & barncat for $20/day. Well worht it for the peace of mind.
                  This time she'll also look after my recently-acquired chickens and look in on the housecat.

                  Are there women here who do it with their husband's help, who could not do it alone?
                  I'm a widow, so this does not apply to me.
                  I wish DH had been able to join me here and do those "manly" things I used to delegate to him. I still hate & fear electricity, but am getting very handy with small machinery.
                  It is amazing how much you can learn to do when you have to.
                  Good neighbors (with equipment I can't afford) are very helpful here.
                  My drives get plowed, fields get bush-hogged & one neighbor even cut & baled the 1/2ac in front of my pasture - got 27 nice bales off it that I let him keep for his ponies.

                  I am finding it all very do-able - even including nasty Midwest Winters and broiling Summers.
                  There's always Spring & Fall to look forward to and many nice days to enjoy in between.
                  *friend of bar.ka*RIP all my lovely boys, gone too soon:
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                    #29
                    Originally posted by sid View Post
                    I'm not sure why one would differentiate between a "hobby farm" vs. a "business farm". If the owner is a sole woman, the issues are the same.
                    I'm thinking a barn with 2-3 of my own horses vs having boarders... I don't think the issues are the same! I don't want any of the stress of having boarders!
                    Jigga:
                    Why must you chastise my brilliant idea with facts and logic? **picks up toys (and wine) and goes home**

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                    • #30
                      4 acres, 3 horses, 2 + dogs, random chickens, 2-20 cats on any given day (an iguana rehab. at the moment) and a full time job at an animal shelter. I'm insane, but it's totally doable, not all that hard and I still have time to ride. Go for it, you only live once ~ if you do it right, once is enough!

                      I must run, I just watched one of my horses gallop in from the pasture looking rather lame - ugh!!! Forget what I just said, it's a big fat pain in the bum!!

                      PS: I don't have two dimes to rub together either, no housekeepers for me.
                      If you destroy the land, you destroy the animals;
                      if you destroy the animals, you destroy the people.

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                      • #31
                        Things like pneumonia, the flu, broken foot...things like that don't count as serious..
                        Yup, too true. One does find out what is considered "serious" when they have livestock on a farm, LOL!

                        Thanks for all the replies. My fiancee, who is VERY supportive of my horsey habit, has told me that if I want a farm in the future, I will need to do the work. I've been wondering lately if that is at all possible.

                        But I'm also wondering if I would ever be able to give up riding 6 days per week, which I know I probably wouldn't do if I had my own place.
                        Of course it's possible. And don't forget, you've got Coth as back up. Quite a few posters on here and you can ask whatever you need and usually get great answers. (and some that make you shake your head, LOL) Kings Ransom moved out on her own in KS and did it all solo. And was a nervous wreck at first IIRC. But she was on here all the time asking questions and learning and over time was happily toodling around on her own first tractor and using her own new power tools and hooking up and unhooking her own generator, etc. It only *seems* scary before you do it. After you do it and keep learning...you end up feeling a huge sense of accomplishment. Yes, single females can change fuel filters and hook up generators and use a weed wacker and do repairs, etc. It's actually all quite simple once you start doing it.
                        I do have a husband and he's wonderful and loves the small farm and all the animals. His only chores on the property are cleaning the gutters. (I don't do heights) Other than that I do everything else. This week I refinished the deck and front porch, cleaned the house siding, did some fence repair, replaced some plumbing in the barn, replaced a gasket in the hydrant, changed the oil and filters in the tractor and greased it (actually just got out of the shower after that one, LOL) and did a tune up on the lawn mower and sharpened the blades. Oh, and normal chores such as weedwacking and mowing the lawn and grass paddock, trip to the transfer station, etc. Also just prepped the shutters for painting. All totally normal everyday type chores for me. In winter I swap the mowing for snow removal.
                        The biggest help: Getting the *right* tools and equipment for all the jobs you will be doing. Seriously...bringing horses home to a farm means long shopping trips to Home Depot and the nearest small engine shop. There's no such thing as too much stuff...or too many tools. With the right stuff you can can anything.
                        You jump in the saddle,
                        Hold onto the bridle!
                        Jump in the line!
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                        • #32
                          I did it for 10 years when I was in my prime. 70 acres, several outbuildings, really cold house, 6-12 horses at various ages, 2 dogs, cats and chickens a flower garden and veggie garden. Huge lawn that I was OCD over, took 5 hours to mow.

                          Showed, horse camped, bred, and did ground training. Worked 4, 12 hour days swing shift, was gone 13+ hours. I did not have a tractor or ATV.

                          In the summer I worked from before sun up til after sun down. I had a couple burly male friends that helped me out with things I couldn't do myself. I became very good at "brains not braun". Everything was planned to the hour in advance. I made extraordinary lists. Learned how to do some electrical, and mechanical work,and could put anyone to shame constructing hot wire fences. I sucked at carpentry but could use all tools effectively.

                          I really wanted and needed to succeed at this, and I did, all the while producing some CH horses.

                          There would be days where I was DONE, literally would sleep 24 hours. My body is pretty wracked up now especially my back.

                          Could I do it alone now at 50? NO WAY!

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                          • #33
                            I think I want to move to Cullowhee where MonstrPony lives. It looks wonderful!!
                            I realize that I'm generalizing here, but as is often the case when I generalize, I don't care. ~ Dave Barry

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                            • #34
                              Originally posted by saultgirl View Post
                              Well, can a single woman run a small hobby farm alone? For say, two or three horses, and if she has a fulltime job?

                              Are there any gals here who do it?

                              Are there women here who do it with their husband's help, who could not do it alone?

                              It is very possible. I bought my farm, well, it was just a house and land initially. I had the 4-stall barn and indoor put up, post and rail fencing of the entire 5 acres (except the leach field)the first year and had an outdoor ring with lights done the 2nd yr. I worked a 55-60 hr week and I was 45 yrs old when I started this. I was able to prove that a middle-aged woman could certainly do it by herself.

                              BUT, if you are as anal about the care of your horses, you have to be willing to make other sacrifices. I started my day before 5 AM and rarely got to bed before 11PM. Of course I was generally asleep before my head hit the pillow. I rarely watched much TV beyond the local news and weather and any that I did try to watch, I'd fall asleep and miss the end. I never was a big movie or theater buff so that was no loss but sometimes it was hard finding time for friends. That is something you really do have to make yourself do or you'll go batty.

                              I also found that even though I had shown my entire life before the farm, I realized that buying a tractor was more important than 1/2 dozen shows. During the first yr while the barn was being built, selling my townhouse, taking care of 2 horses, working full time and settling my Mother's estate, I didn't have time to compete. After everyone left for the first show of the season, I realized I didn't miss the showing at all but I knew I was going to miss the socialization so I started to volunteer at some of our more local shows just to keep in contact with friends.

                              I did all the basic maintenance for horses, all gardening, mowing and shoveled snow from around the barn as needed and all the general housework. I did have the long driveway plowed though and anything that needed heavy equipment or fencing done by others. Fortunately though I did not have a job that required any significant travel.

                              I'm now 63, retired and really enjoying the farm much more than I could ever imagine.

                              Good luck if you do pursue this. It can be done.

                              A word of caution though, you really need to be very, very, very safety conscious for yourself and your horses. You cannot allow yourself the luxury of getting hurt. Also, carry a cell phone except when you take a shower.

                              Oh, and you have to make time for riding otherwise you might as well stick to boarding. I rode a minimum of 4 days and sometimes 6 days/wk unless it was brutally cold or a really muggy summer day.
                              Last edited by msj; Jul. 17, 2009, 08:54 PM. Reason: added last paragraph about riding
                              Sue

                              I'm not saying let's go kill all the stupid people...I'm just saying let's remove all the warning labels and let the problem sort itself out.

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                              • #35
                                It can be done as you can tell by all of the posters here and I have to add that although it is a tremendous amount of work it is so rewarding. When I walk through our property I look around and think - wow this belongs to us. It makes me feel like Julie Andrews at the beginning of Sound of Music where she is spinning around on top of the mountain. Of course, we don't live on a mountain we live in the swamp.

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                                • #36
                                  Pintopiaffe...so what are you trying to say? You need a tractor...?

                                  My tractor is my best friend. I've had her for 20 years (I bought "Miss K" new in the days of John Deere's and thought I'd be run out of town by my neighboring menfolk farmers...seeing what they thought was some blonde dizzy on a "jap" product.) We're talking the 80's.

                                  I love Miss K because when I had boarders I could climb on board and head to the pastures, deisel running loud and watch my boarders trying to flag me down because they wanted to talk about "Buffy" and if they should buy a white pad or something in teal...and I could pretend I didn't hear them.

                                  Many, many good uses for a tractor like "Miss K" to make farm work easier (first and foremost) but they have many other cerebral uses as well...as well.
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                                  • #37
                                    I do it all myself..no extra money to hire any help these days...its killing me! Plus I work full time and am taking college classes and study every night....(went back to school after 40 years!)

                                    Wouldn't dare have company over as the house only gets straightened once a week.

                                    As someone said..it can be done...But that doesn't mean you will EVER have time for much else.
                                    "My treasures do not sparkle or glitter, they shine in the sunlight and nicker to me in the night"

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                                    • #38
                                      30 plus horses, 60 acres, 3 dogs, 3 cats, 3 foster kids. And what is now a part time job building barns, fences, farm care, hay sales and anything else that keeps me from punching a clock.

                                      Coming to the farm is coming to a state of mind. I love the farm and worked all my life to be able to make a living in order to just farm. I dont ride any longer unless my friends really bug me to go for a trail ride. Still have my own horse of 18 years so she enjoys it when I do take her out. She is ridden by the kids the rest of the time.

                                      I mow and mow and mow and mow. I clean fencelines all summer long and mow some more. I fix fences and mow some more. Summer is a lot more work than winter as it usually is in the south. Winter was harder in Canada.

                                      It can be done if you want to do it. But, its a labor of love. Oh and what is sick?

                                      Having reliable help is important. One day, I am gonna do that.
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                                      • #39
                                        Yes -- 4 horses. I ditched the husband in 1996 since he was pretty worthless on the farm. I did everything myself back then, so doing it alone wasn't much of a change.

                                        I do admit that I HATE it when my tools, mowers, etc. don't work. I am terrible at fixing things (I have a mental block against it I think). It is amazing to me that sometimes I spend as much time fixing the mower as I do mowing.

                                        It's not that hard. As one of my old bosses used to say, "It's discipline my friend, just discipline". I tell myself this every morning. The work becomes a habit, and it hardly feels like work.

                                        At least we don't have to go to the gym to get a workout! Seven days a week, no excuses.
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                                        • #40
                                          I consider myself really lucky in that my next door neighbor was a member of the county sheriff's dept so I felt incredibly safe. He also did remodeling and repair for me on a part time basis and would be over at a moment's notice if I had a serious problem. I've told him now that he's retired he is NOT ALLOWED TO MOVE until I sell the farm and that's not for another 10 yrs probably.
                                          Sue

                                          I'm not saying let's go kill all the stupid people...I'm just saying let's remove all the warning labels and let the problem sort itself out.

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