iheartbeau - I think you'll like Horsecity, for all that it's a bit clique-y. I mainly stick with the H/J forum, lots of juniors there! And no one (from what I've seen in 5 years of membership- oy!) has the NH-gone-horribly-wrong training methods Canadian Golden mentioned. Perhaps I'll see you over there!
"Why would anybody come here if they had a pony? Who leaves a country packed with ponies to come to a non-pony country? It doesn't make sense!"