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  1. #1
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    Jan. 3, 2012

    Default When you earn more than your husband

    Has anyone had a DH who felt threatened because you earn more than he does, and if so, how did you broach the subject and how did you deal with it?

  2. #2
    Join Date
    Jul. 24, 2008


    My husband doesn't feel threatened because I make more money. If he had a problem, I would suggest he either get over it, or go out and get a better paying job.
    Why must you chastise my brilliant idea with facts and logic? **picks up toys (and wine) and goes home**

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  3. #3
    Join Date
    Feb. 3, 2000
    Nokesville, VA


    I earn a lot more than my husband.

    The important thing is that he knows that I think his job is more valuable, and of greater benefit to mankind (he is a teacher) than mine (I am a techy).

    chief feeder and mucker for Music, Spy, Belle and Tiara. Someone else is now feeding and mucking for Chief and Brain (both foxhunting now).

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  4. #4
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    Sep. 2, 2008
    Greeley, Colorado


    I just got a new job (in the same field as him) and I am making about equal or slightly more than my SO. He keeps his ego pretty in check and he's just proud of me. We both work hard for our money and he understands that
    **Friend of bar.ka**

    Fils Du Reverdy (Revy)- 1993 Selle Francais Gelding
    My equine soulmate

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  5. #5
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    Mar. 10, 2009


    I earn somewhat more than my husband, and since he is IC (tennis coach/teaching pro), my income is steadier.

    It used to bother him some. But he got over it, especially once I made him responsible for some of the household expenses. At one time they were just about all coming out of my paycheck/bank account, and now it's about even-steven.

  6. #6
    Join Date
    Aug. 12, 2008


    DH doesn't mine. He used to joke that I would be his suga momma.

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