Larksmom, I just remembered that you may have been paying directly to the main office via check or credit card. If that's the case, it may not have made it down the email pipeline to me yet for manual activation. Let me know if that's a case, and I'll check with Joanie at the main office at start of business today.
Are you referring to the link from here when you click on the "Upgrade to Premium" button?
That should take you to this screen where you can select the $20 payment from either the recurring or one-time membership drop-down menu. When you click "order" from there, it should take you to Paypal to complete the transaction.
Where in that process were you having trouble, or was it somewhere else?