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  1. #81
    Join Date
    Oct. 18, 2000


    I'm really happy for you and your horse! I hope things continue to improve for you both.
    Brothers and sisters, I bid you beware
    Of giving your heart to a dog to tear.
    -Rudyard Kipling

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  2. #82
    Join Date
    Oct. 9, 2000
    Oregon, sitting on my couch looking out the window at a mountain


    Great news! Congratulations on your fun and productive lesson with Tracy Lert - sounds like you are definitely headed in the right direction!
    My Mustang Adventures - Mac, my mustang | Annwylid D'Lite - my Cob filly

    "A horse's face always conveys clearly whether it is loved by its owner or simply used." - Anja Beran

  3. #83
    Join Date
    Nov. 20, 2007


    Quote Originally Posted by TuxWink View Post
    I could have written this same exact post! Scary! Like you, it took me 10 years to get out of dodge, so to speak. Looking back I feel like such an @ss, but I'm also confident that my ex trainer will, " herself in, all on her own," so all I can do is move forward and be grateful I've escaped.
    Oh wow, TuxWink...I thought I was the only one.

    You know the craziest that I have had so many people come up to me in the past couple of months, congratulating me for leaving, and I'm hearing more stories about this woman than I ever imagined.

    I felt like such an @ss for staying so long too...but looking back..there were reasons why I stayed. She made me feel like she was the only one who knew best for my horses, and that they were going to deteriorate without her training and care. far, after 2 months, they are doing better than ever.

    Hopefully, the more we can share our stories...the less people will have to go through the same situation. It was through the help of COTH, that I was able to make the break! Posting about the situation and having people back up what I knew in my own mind, gave me the validation to make the changes.

    Good luck, OP! I'm glad you were able to get out of your situation before much more damage was done to your horse. I have one very frightened mare, that is going to take a lot of patience, understanding and care to get past her issues. Fortunately, I have the time to work with her, and she is going to be fabulous once I can get her confidence back up. She trusts me, and I have found a couple of really good people to work with that I think can help us make it through.
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  4. #84
    Join Date
    Sep. 18, 2007


    Confidence is a lovely thing...arrogance is not pretty.

    Taking the high road is probably the better way...there are times I wish I had done that rather than stoop to the level of the offender.

  5. #85
    Join Date
    Apr. 29, 2012


    Just saw this thread and have to say I'm insanely jealous of you riding with Tracey Lert and so happy you've found the guidance and support you need. Tracey is the thing I miss most about the Bay Area, having moved out of state! Enjoy your rides with her!

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