Waning, where are you in VT? PM me if you want. I'm in VT a bit longer and I'm going to help you. There are some other VT COTHers here as well who I will recruit.
Hearing your story makes me more upset about the people who DO abuse the system. Case and point. I have a 'friend' whose husband makes almost as much as my husband. They have a little boy, and live rent free in her grandmother's in-law suite thing. They are on every type of state assistance that you can think of. It makes me sick that they are taking resources that they clearly do not need away from people who really do need them.
i'm here too and will help however i can.
and soon i'll be making several trips a week to fahc for chemo for dh---if i can help you with transportation i will.
where are you? i'm in bolton, hopefully close enough to lend a hand.
horses, errands, whatever
email me at firstname.lastname@example.org