How the heck do you try to keep your hands quiet when it seems that you and the horse are constantly bumping against each other? I have this grey pony that I've written about before that just wants to go, go, go. If I give him an inch he will definitely take a mile. So I try to give and release, but it feels (and looks) like we are in a pulling match and my hands can't keep still! I usually have generally quiet hands... but with this little guy all that goes out the window. What can I do differently?