grey mare....I think we come here to share, and ask and listen, and I know you did that, and I know you did what was suggested, and for my part? I will certainly still have sympathy here if you find things didn't work as you'd hoped, or if you had further concerns in the matter.
Anyway. really glad for you !!! You deserved a break in this situation and are trying to please everyone involved, and thats always tough.
"Indecision may or may not be my problem"