I'm so very sorry. My condolences, for whatever they're worth, to your family. As my 3yro begs me to turn on his bedroom light (that he can reach full well himself) while sitting next to me, and my 6yro watches Kung Fu Panda on the couch next to me, I feel for those kids and your brother.
Thanks all. They had pretty much sold everything, to go work at a homeless church in Florida - its called The Source, for any Floridians out there. They have no TV, or Internet or phone at home. The kids had asked for Nike socks for Christmas. Just a sweet, sweet family. Im going to see about starting a fund for them on Monday, and for anyone who does want to help, just PM me.
I know my husband, and Jesus are taking care of Kelly, so it's not her I worry about. Its her husband and 4 kids that tears at my heart.
Life is just so precious. In all the holiday rush, its so easy for us to get busy with returning gifts , going to parties, and playing with toys. But I promise you will never regret time spent with your loved ones, and an "I love you" is never wasted words.