FP, if you'd do some easy checking, there are several facebook accounts set up to let people in NJ know what's going on and where to get supplies: Jersey Shore Hurricane News, NJ Weather Blogs are 2 and I'm sure there are more.
What woud you prefer--No FEMA at all? For somebody who seems to have trouble follow them around, I'm finding your whining a little annoying.
Someone posted a picture on the internet of a shark swimming in someone's back yard in New Jersey. You see the deck of the house and there it is, a smallish shark not 3 feet away. !! It's on the Weather Network so presumably they vetted the picture as legit.
I sure hope things get organized and settled soon. Winter will not wait . . .