I will just add that the OP should just hire someone to do the mucking out and other work while she sits inside and watches her TV or IPAD or whatever other gadget she has. If you can afford all that, you can afford to hire a mucker for the day.
It's like a jerk in the mouth sometimes, to be reminded how much money some horse people have and take for granted.
To me that OP just sounded like "Gloat, gloat, gloat."
Wow. I didn't get that from the OP at all. I think you have your own issues.