I don't understand why people keep giving out advice if they know she is not going to listen to it anyways.
There is neverany guarantee that any poster on any forum anywhere is everlistening
STOP RESPONDING. Nobody is forcing you to read or hit the reply button. It *is* rude (and immature) to discuss Tiffany like she isn't here and to make passive aggressive comments about her. Geez.
There was a recently deleted topic over in the dressage forum for apparantly breaking rules, seems to me there are alot of inappropriate posts in this topic - perhaps they manage to stay inside the actual rules of COTH but they certainly do not do so in spirit or intent.