Again, I've got the opportunity, with my 13 yo daughter, to hunt as a guest, after not hunting for 15 years. We both event.
I know not to wear the colors from my former hunt. As a guest, not a member, would my black dressage coat be acceptable, with a stock tie? Canary vest or not?
My current showjumping coat is wildly inappropriate (glen plaid), but I'd rather not buy a new black hunt coat unless this turns out to be something I do regularly, which I won't know until I see how my event horse reacts.
As for my daughter, she keeps growing, so I'm certainly buying her a new coat--and it'll be all black, as that is the most versatile for pony club. Does she need a vest, or can she go without? We're in the South where it's quite warm.