Yup, single here, too. I totally get what you are saying. In fact, I did think yesterday how nice it was that I didn't have to worry about being here at this time and there at that time, in order to not disappoint anyone or have the other's family feel slighted because "we" didn't eat dinner with them or open presents first thing in the morning, or whatever their tradition is.
I hope that I meet the right guy for me, but in the meantime, I am quite content to go along only having to worry about doing what makes me happy
yeah i am really enjoying my time out of the city right now on my parents farm in the middle of nowhere...it is cold out, the fire is going....I sat with my mom beading jewelery..and tonight we are going to the barn together and test out the new grooming kit I gave her for the horses...life is good..I even had an afternoon nap..hehehe
First time single for Christmas in 5 years...
I would be TOTALLY FINE with it... if I wasn't STRANDED on top of a mountain with my family. If I could be with ponies, I'd be as happy as can be..
Honestly, the lack of stress before Christmas has been AMAZING... no shopping craziness- only shopped for my family (all 5 of us) and my best friend.
Proudly living in my "let's save the world bubble"!
Being single this Christmas has been a blessing. It's a tough time of year due to family drama and I was very uncomfortable bringing in a new relationship into that kind of stress. Not to be anyways... cheating b*tch!
I've been single for a long time. I got tired of being played and having my heart broken, so I haven't even dated in a very long time. Most of the time I really don't mind, but it's tough on me during the holidays, especially as I am somewhat estranged from my immediate family.
yeah I am tired of games, and men's genreral lack of enthusiasm for a relationship here in Toronto. I am siick of the one always trying. I like being by myself. and with my horses. Although I am a little worried about one of my old horses here on my mom's farm. he as a weird swollen sheath..I posted aabout it in the off course forum.
Me! I am single and I just turned 29. I thought by this point in my life I would be married but honestly I like being single. I am open to a relationship but am not pursuing one. I think as time goes on I get more set in my ways and I am happy to not have to compromise. I have a great job and live well and I wouldn't say I am lonely though I am alone. I actually really enjoy my alone time. It is a little sad for me sometimes as I have an unrequited love thing with my longest time friend but that is because I love him not because I want a boyfriend. Cheers to all of the single people!
Single and fine with it. Do I hope to be in a relationship at some point? Absolutely. Am I going to change who I am for someone else, or just to get a guy? Nope. The right guy will find me eventually, and I am patient. Then there is that dog thing... Mine are bed hogs too! Oh, and the moving every few months - FL, NC, KY, NC, FL - winter to summer to winter.