While I am horribly sorry you have to endure this, I had to laugh at the responses on this thread. Thank heavens he is only a BF. If he is cheating, well, you can tell the other woman :Welcome to my nightmare" Reynard Ridge definitely has the soundest advice here. You will one day be grateful for having found this out beforehand. And in all honesty, what are you losing?
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Did this really happen or did you write this just for me? I was wanting a little tale of infidelity, but really, sorry !! As much as the hamburger dinner sounds like a good idea- I'd be gone when he gets back from errands. At least you are visiting rather than living with the cad. I say run, don't walk to the nearest exit, leaving condom where he will find it. Tape it to the refrigerater, no need to leave a note.
What a good dog! In spite of not being able to talk and not having opposable thumbs, he managed to let you know what is what. I think you owe it to him to take him with you when you leave.
I loff you EqTrainer! Yeah, his dog deserves better too!
What RR said is perfect, I just have one thing to add, just in case. You are not losing a thing here, once a cheater, always a cheater in some way or another. TRUST ME! I used to think that statement was only made by the bitter, now I know it is not. There i snot need to be with a guy like that.
I am sorry. Hugs.
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If this story is true, I would leave the guy as much (or even more) for his being stupid as the cheating. I mean really, it wouldn't occur to him to clean up evidence before he has another woman over .
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Wow, I thought I was going to have to wait until the next holiday weekend for an OT day. Thanks Mods!
The story is that it belonged to his brother, which could very well be true. BF was out of town on business before the condom-ment incident. His younger brother came over to dog sit and had a guest over. It makes sense and while I'm not really good at being a lie detector, my BF seemed unfazed by it and didn't even show a hint of thinking uh-oh before he came up with a story. I ended up leaving it where the dog had it and waited for him to see it and dispose of it. We talked about it as he was picking it up and I didn't put on my jealous girlfriend hat, I remained calm.
I hate that I have a suspicious mind, but it is very much possible it was his brother's. I am not going to say anything more about it, but you can bet I'll be keeping my eyes wide open in the future!