Nov. 26, 2009, 11:19 AM
Menopause - Anyone going through it? How long will I be miserable for?
Anyone else entering the wonderful state of Menopause?
Beside constant fatigue, and I mean constant, but you can't sleep because you're so freaking hot, what else can we expect?
Nov. 26, 2009, 12:08 PM
I've been suffering for about 5 years now.
Lots of things trigger hot flashes, and natch, they are all things I like...caffeine, chocolate, wine, spicy foods... you have to find out what triggers yours and avoid/cut back wherever possible.
I keep a fan going next to the bed so I can throw off the covers and be cooled by the breeze, also keep water on the nightstand, drinking cold water helps.
NONE of the herbal remedies have worked for me.
I'm hoping it all goes away soon.
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Nov. 26, 2009, 12:15 PM
Nov. 26, 2009, 12:22 PM
I've been going through it for about a year. Starts with the night sweats and progresses from there. I did start an herbal pill pack from GNC but those pills are so freaking huge I stopped taking them. Didn't notice much difference anyway. I usually have about 3-4 "power surges" during the day while at work and less (for some reason) while I'm home. I don't feel fatigued unless it's from lack of sleep. It's rare that I can actually sleep through the night and wake up at a normal time instead of 4:00 am. Sucks.
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Nov. 26, 2009, 12:31 PM
My prime time for hot flashes is of course when I've hiked across campus and just stood up in front of the class. Then I can feel it coming, and Whoop! there it is - the red spreads up from my chest to the top of my head, and the sweat starts pouring off me, soaking my shirt and my pants waist.
It's terribly embarrassing, but my students are now used to it, and we all laugh about it when it happens. I hate the nighttime sweats, and the fact that I'm only 43. I'm still getting my period, too, so it's hardly fair. Everything is all wonky and discombobulated, and I have a Dr.'s appointment next month to talk to them about it. I took the pill for a while but it made my migraines just unbearable, and I'm afraid that hormone therapy would do the same. So I'm not sure what I'm going to do, besides grin and bear it. I take antidepressants, which does help, although not with the hot flashes. It makes me more bearable to be around, though.
Nov. 26, 2009, 12:35 PM
I have chemo induced menopause, extra special sucky.
I haven't slept through the night for almost two years. When I do, it is such a difference! It is getting a little more managable. But I have to keep the room COLD! I went to an Event last weekend and, sharing a room, could not get it cold enough. So I didn't sleep the night before a competition, then had to drive home 2 1/2 hours, yuck.
My understanding is it is risky for me to take hormone replacement because I had breast cancer.
So I suffer in not so much silence!
I wish it would go away.
Nov. 26, 2009, 12:40 PM
I seem to be finished, finally. My GP suggested soy milk to help with hot flashes, and it did help me a good bit. However, I was diagnosed with breast cancer in the middle of it, and my medical oncologist then said to stay away from soy milk because the potential influence of the phytoestrogens is not at all well understood. But if you're low risk for BC, you might give soy milk a try. I will admit that I have less issue with fatigue now, and almost no trouble sleeping if I stay active, tho I don't have the energy I had when younger--maybe that's normal?
I will still get the odd hot flash in the spring. Mine were never a serious bother, but did linger around for a long time, probably 4-5 years overall.
I stay away from caffine, chocolate, wine, spicy foods because of acid reflux anyway (which, of course is aggrivated by weight gain--the one menopause symptom I have in spades). I also notice less stress incontinence, as evidenced during sneezing, coughing, and bucking spells (thank god for panty liners, Wintec saddles, and soft-gaited quarter horses), if I avoid caffine, etc.
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Nov. 26, 2009, 12:50 PM
Well, I guess the loss of a period is the only good aspect. Love that part!
I can only get a good nights sleep if I keep the thermostat at 68 degrees or lower. Cats, dogs, nor DH is happy about that..lol
Tried Estrogen for a few days but it brought on the worst period I ever ever had in my life. I could not leave the house for days..
I think the fatigue is the worst part. Most days I can go to sleep at 5:00 PM. and sleep a good portion of the evening.
Nov. 26, 2009, 01:10 PM
I hated not feeling "myself", I'd cry at any little thing and get wild mood swings. I was very depressed and then I got breast cancer. I had sudden full blown chemo induced menopause. My hot flashes were horrible because I was on Tamoxifen which seemed to double their intensity. My kids knew when one hit to run and get me an ice cube or two. Running the ice cube on the back of my neck, around my hairline then on my chest/shoulders made me feel so much better. This summer I carried a travel mug filled with ice cubes when I when I left the house so I could grab one for my hot flashes. I couldn't sleep and was tired all the time. Then after about six months the intensity of the hot flashes dramatically decreased. I still get little ones that are manageable. I feel myself again and not as depressed. I think I'm through the worse part.
I heard sugar can also trigger the hot flashes.
Nov. 26, 2009, 01:51 PM
I am the one you love to hate - absolutely no symptoms at all. Everything just quit working as in period one month then nothing. No hot flashes and I dont even have an inkling what that feels like, although it sounds, well, um, delightful. As to sleeping problems, nada, couldnt sleep before, still can' sleep now (was HOPING for a change in that) and have survived for years on a series of 1 hour or shorter naps with maybe 3 solid hours from whatever time I decide to try to sleep but I do manage 7-8 hours in 24, just all broken up. Some weight gain though but that is mostly attributable to decreased mobility resulting from too many wrecks. Was told I was fine and just carry on, didnt need meds or anything.
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Nov. 26, 2009, 02:05 PM
My transition has been mild but prolonged. Hot flashes started four or five years ago--mostly at night, but not too bad and when I am very physically tired, I can sleep through the night without waking up. I have a fan turned on all the time in my bedroom. Periods are very light and very spaced out. I thought I was definitively in menopause a year ago but I had another period six months later.
Nov. 26, 2009, 02:17 PM
Nothing else to add except maybe you're not alone.
After 9 years the hot flashes are a little better. I did take a yam based estrogen and it helped a lot, but was on it for 5 years and Doc took me off it.
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Nov. 26, 2009, 02:19 PM
Well, timely thread for me. I started with the night sweats years ago, would always be the week of my period. I'm serious when I say that went on for 10 years. Then the periods got closer together (every two weeks) for about 6 months, and then tapered off to nothing - but then the hot flashes came on.
I thought they were gone, I did go for two months with none this summer (and living in Florida I was thankful for that), but guess what - they're back! Guess I didn't factor in hot flashes before deciding to move to FL 5 years ago. They do seem to be sporadic, go a month or two with nothing, then go for a week of hell - I think my body is still trying to trigger a period, but that just is not happening anymore.
And as a 14 year breast cancer survior no HR option for me either, so I just have to tough it out, and pray that they stop eventually.
I'm learning to sleep through the night, I will have a flash just before I go to sleep (no matter what time of day or night) and I go from fry-an-egg-on-me hot to freezing cold, I'm wearing out my bedding from flipping covers on and off.
I think the menopause crap also starting giving me extra heartbeats, went through an ER visit, 24 hour Holter monitor session (not fun when you are having hot flashes and it is summertime in FL, and you are trying to do barn chores, I'm surprised I didn't short out the damned monitor with the sweat).
I have a battery operated hand held fan in my office, that I grab when I feel one coming on, it doesn't really help much.
Now, here is the part I don't get, I was curious to see if it actually raises your body temperature, so I got one of those forehead ttemp strip things, and for whatever reason, it does not register the fact that I feel like I am in the depths of hades, body temp reads normal? What is up with that?
Thanks for letting me vent on this topic, I try not to vent to the family, as I don't want to become one of those crochety old ladies that does nothing but talk about aches and pains and the trials of getting older, but sometimes you just have to get it off your chest.
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Nov. 26, 2009, 02:25 PM
MM, I did not complain about chemo, radiation, smashed up knee, but I whine about the stinkin' hot flashes! They are miserable!
Nov. 26, 2009, 02:30 PM
Start to finish - about six months. I had a normal period one month, then they just stopped. I'd have maybe one or two hot flashes a day, they lasted about 5 seconds. Really none at night, to speak of. And they weren't the sweat runs off your head, either. I'd just get a little warm.
I don't know why it was so easy for me. I never had children and never had a cramp in my life. Regular periods, too, even when I wasn't on the pill. Maybe that had something to do with it?
Gosh, I wonder how women throughout history have dealt with menopause? I don't think I'd take HRT, no matter how bad my symptoms were. The risk would not be worth it.
I heard exercise helps...just wanted to mention that. I do get a lot of exercise (all of my life) which may also have contributed to the easy time I had with menopause. I'm also skinny.
Nov. 26, 2009, 02:31 PM
I can totally relate to that! I will admit that I think that this hormonal imbalance is making me more emotional than I usually am, maybe that is why we whine more?
Originally Posted by shea'smom
(Also, I didn't do the chemo, was too young for Tamoxifen, so the hot flashes are not man-made in my case).
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Nov. 26, 2009, 02:33 PM
Blood clots, irregular heartbeat. I MISS MY PREMPRO!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Nov. 26, 2009, 03:24 PM
The Chillow is your friend! Loved mine!
I also have roasted flax every morning and it seems to help a little bit..
My husband is getting used to the cold room at night and the blankets flying on and off all night long....
Thing I hate most is the memory loss, I feel like an idiot!
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Nov. 26, 2009, 03:55 PM
Nov. 26, 2009, 03:59 PM
Oh man, I am in perimenopause. I'm 38, almost 39. It's horrible. The constant PMS feeling (let's stuff my face with all the food in the world!), the weight gain, the hot flashes...horrible.
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