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  1. #1
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    Default Does your age (older) ever stop you from purchasing (Update - He's mine! Pics! pg4)

    So I have almost made up my mind to purchase another. Well...adopt one actually. I will fill in the details later on (for those of my BB pals who have read my previous posts ). It is through an off the track organization so I don't want to really talk about it publicly yet.

    He is 5. I am 37. So that means, when he is 30, I will be....ummm...67.

    So I think about that...a lot...because I am a keep-them-forever kind of gal. It almost seems a little overwhelming.

    Has anyone else went through this? With Lou, she was already mine and I was ready to do the next 15 years without a hitch....and I bought her when I was 29, so I was still thinking that I was "so young". But a new one makes me kinda...I dunno...nervous.

    Any advice out there?
    Last edited by LouLove; Apr. 8, 2009 at 11:10 AM. Reason: Update Post
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    Ummmm....buy it anyway and worry about that in 30 years????



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    Yup, I find it very scary that at 53 I am now the proud owner of an 8 year old and a 5 year old. I'm praying that at some point 20 year old DD will take the younger one off my hands, expecially as I selected him for her and I do tend towards keeping them for life! DH warns that I will never be able to retire.
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    Bought a 5 yr old when I was 50. I just figure it gives me a hunt horse until I'm 65.



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    OP: I wouldn't worry. By the time your horse would be older, your life will be different, and you will have plenty of time for contingency planning. I thought, when I read the title, that you were 60 and getting a 3 year old. No worries. (I'm 44, w/ a 7 year old.)
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    Default I knew you guys would make me feel better



    You all rock - very much.
    Last edited by LouLove; Mar. 4, 2009 at 03:49 PM. Reason: spelling and grammar
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    I bought a weanling when I was 49.
    Last edited by Janet; Mar. 4, 2009 at 04:26 PM.
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    chief feeder and mucker for Music, Spy, Belle and Tiara. Someone else is now feeding and mucking for Chief and Brain (both foxhunting now).



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    I bought an unstarted 2.5 year old Ara/App when I was....62. I'm almost 64. Still among the living. It's been interesting. He's about 16.2 and still growing/filling out. Going to a show - first for this year - third in his life - and doing Intro 2 on Sunday, at about 8:00 A.M., which means getting up at 5:00 A.M. Groooaaaaannnn......



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    Default Do it-- you both will benefit

    You are not to old to adopt a baby/project at 37!

    You will also not be too old to ride your finished horse.

    Plan as best you can for his/her retirement (as it sounds like you already do for your horses), and you will have at least one more great relationship with a horse.

    Who knows? This horse may help you stay young later on!



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    Please. You're 37. As Jill Conner Browne would say, at your age you are still a larva.

    I bought a recently gelded rising 4 yr old for my first horse, when I was 40. What the heck - I did worse at picking my first three husbands. We live and learn.

    But I digress.
    Bought a 5 yr old when I was 50. I just figure it gives me a hunt horse until I'm 65.
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    Talking your just a sprout yet!

    Currently 47 and adopted my first "wild one" in 2007. She's 2 this summer...and also have a 2 yr rescue, a 4 yr a 5 yr and a 6 yr (greenbroke)...my tried and true 13 yr trail horse and a gentled but never really started under saddle 11 yr mustang mare =)
    I'm gonna fill the arena with pillows this summer (just in case ) cause my goal is get 2 started and 1 restarted!!



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    Quote Originally Posted by pAin't_Misbehavin' View Post
    Please. You're 37. As Jill Conner Browne would say, at your age you are still a larva.

    LOL.

    Yes, I think when you ARE 65 things may look a bit different to you.

    For sure, take the horse. Maybe start him a little "college fund" and put away a few dollars a month in a special account to take care of him should you pass away untimely.

    I guess you can't name a horse a beneficiary of life insurance.
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    Take the horse, and when you are 60 years old you will have the most awesome dead-broke trail horse to pal around on !
    "I can explain it to you, but I can't understand it for you..."



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    If Baby Belgian lives as long as His Greyness, I will be 87 at that point. I just hope Baby Belgian's thoroughbred paranoia will have subsided by then.

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    I bought a yearling when I was 60! He's coming 3 and I will be backing him in late summer or fall. Should be interesting!



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    Bought my "last horse" Dec 07. I will be 50 when I get to start riding him.
    I too did think , gee just buried my 32 yr old mare. If this guy lives that long he may just outlive me.
    No worries though, cross that bridge when you come to it.



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    Oh you younguns'. I have friends riding in their 70's. I'm still the kid at 55. My friend, same age, just bought a 2 year old for me to break. I don't plan on hanging up my spurs anytime soon. 39? You got plenty of time!
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    Quote Originally Posted by MelantheLLC View Post
    LOL.

    Yes, I think when you ARE 65 things may look a bit different to you.

    For sure, take the horse. Maybe start him a little "college fun" and put away a few dollars a month in a special account to take care of him should you pass away untimely.

    I guess you can't name a horse a beneficiary of life insurance.
    I am "coming 62" in a few months, so ditto that, and yes you surely CAN name a horse as a beneficiary. I have all four of my horses named as the beneficiaries of a 40K policy.

    That way if I want to change their caregiver, I will do it in my Will, it's much easier than changing the beneficiary on the insurance policy.

    When I called the insurance company to ask that question, I was surprised that I only got about 10 seconds of silence on the other end, and then she said she had to check to be sure but thought I could.

    When we wrote all this into our Will, the attorney never bat an eye because I live in horse country. His comment was that my request was nothing compared to some others he's had to write into Wills

    To answer the OP's original question, yes I do think about outliving them. My four range in age from 12-1/2 to 23, so I think I can make it.

    This is my second crew of Keeper Horses in my lifetime. There will be no replacements when this last crew of Keeper Horses starts crossing over.



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    I think that sometimes. I am 52. But the thing is that alot can happen in 30 years. Up until last year my Abi was going to be my terminal horse. She was 8 when she had to be euthanized. So then I decided that Andy who is 13 would be my terminal horse. He had emergency colic surgery on Friday night. So.... I am not so worried about 30 years from now any more. We just go one day at a time.



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    I think it is admirable for you to worry, just shows you are a true horse owner.

    Certainly one option would be to set aside money for a fund that could pay for a retirement endowment at one of the TB sanctuaries.
    Maybe you and a friend could draw up an agreement to be each other's horse guardian, in case of death or emergency?
    And certainly you can make a horse a beneficiary of a will or insurance with an (human) executor. Leona Helmsley did it, left her dog millions - or was it billions?



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