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    I don't see how the OP is being a stalker. To me...

    I don't see how the OP is being a stalker. To me a stalker a) is threatening and b) refuses to take no for an answer. Nothing here suggests this guy feels threatened or has told OP no. I guess we...
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    What about how he feels? You're obviously...

    What about how he feels? You're obviously important to him or he wouldn't try to maintain the relationship. So now you're just going to ditch him, because you're not getting what you want? That's...
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    The problem is he has a girlfriend, which means...

    The problem is he has a girlfriend, which means he's not available right now. I think I'd try to secure my place in line without scaring him off. You don't want to get friend zoned, but at the same...
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    The other girl was aggressive. She got him. You...

    The other girl was aggressive. She got him. You were passive. You didn't. And... he complained the other girl was bugging him and yet, she's the one he went for. What does that tell you about him? It...
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    She and I have been friends a long time, longer...

    She and I have been friends a long time, longer than either of us has known SO. She met SO first and introduced us. She's helped me through some hard times and we've always had fun together, although...
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    SO had just been clean long enough for us to...

    SO had just been clean long enough for us to begin dating. She was afraid the stress would cause him to relapse. He said, he was an addict not a child and would be just as stressed regardless. I let...
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    Jealousy in relationships

    A good friend of mine is also good friends with SO. She knew him, before I did and was friends with him. They are in the same type of business, although they've never done any business together...
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    And I don't mean that you should dump him,...

    And I don't mean that you should dump him, because he is an addict, if he is one. He would need to get clean and have been clean for at least a year, before you could date him. He would also need to...
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    A tiger in the room sounds aggressive to me. If...

    A tiger in the room sounds aggressive to me. If someone said that to me, I would think they meant they were holding back a lot of anger. I'm pretty good at reading SO, but it is sometimes a bit...
  10. E At this point, I wouldn't get Hung up on why...

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    At this point, I wouldn't get Hung up on why he did it. The important thing is that he did something that made you feel bad and is not what you want. If you don't speak up for yourself, he won't...
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    He can't expect to have "new relationship"...

    He can't expect to have "new relationship" butterflies (whatever that means), because this is not a new relationship. Sadly, I think what he may have meant is that he loves you as a friend, but...
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    Bob is a sensible man, who is interested in...

    Bob is a sensible man, who is interested in having something serious and long term with you. He knows that you can't have that with him right now. And he is right for at least four reasons:

    1....
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    Is there any reason you like being with Dave? No...

    Is there any reason you like being with Dave? No relationship is far better than a bad one. I think you're with Dave to make yourself feel better about not being with Bill. It's a way of affirming...
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    I don't do the whole jealousy/ possession thing....

    I don't do the whole jealousy/ possession thing. Dating ends one of two ways: you stay together forever or you break up. Your guy and his ex broke up. That's why she's his ex. She either doesn't want...
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    Poll: Infants count as people, but an infant does not...

    Infants count as people, but an infant does not have "boundaries." If you think an infant has a sense of social decorum, then you need to take a class on child development.

    As to the other,...
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    Poll: There are many unladylike things I do in the...

    There are many unladylike things I do in the privacy of my own home. I can pick my nose or eat pasta with my hands in private or whatever else where no one can see. No one knows except me and I do...
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    Poll: I was raised to be a lady. There are some things...

    I was raised to be a lady. There are some things a lady simply would never do - this being one. There are some things that should not be done in public and I think the question of whether it's sexual...
  18. Do you believe in ghosts and/ or demons?

    Who here believes in ghosts and/ or demons? Anyone ever seen or experienced one? I saw the Conjuring on Fri and have been wondering. I don't believe, but on the other hand I would have never bought...
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    I think he has issues. Everyone does at some...

    I think he has issues. Everyone does at some point. Two things are clear to me:

    1. He needs to get control of his children. Why? Because he's their father. He doesn't have the option of opting out...
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    I think you like him as more than a friend and...

    I think you like him as more than a friend and are trying to decode whether he thinks of you just as a friend. I think he tacked the "man" on the end for one of three reasons.
    1. He peppers his...
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    He's an abuser. He hasn't manifested yet, because...

    He's an abuser. He hasn't manifested yet, because he's grooming you. If you don't get out now, you and your daughter will become his victims and I don't care what the domestic violence people say: as...
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    Fine Carlos could be a fat 80 year old white guy...

    Fine Carlos could be a fat 80 year old white guy in a nursing home. Unless you have met him in person and he has given you his email address, you can't know you're chatting with Carlos or who you're...
  23. Think about it this way. You come to my barn and...

    Think about it this way. You come to my barn and say how much you like my horse. I smile and say, "Thanks so much." You leave. I'm terribly disappointed, because you didn't ask to buy my horse when I...
  24. He doesn't sound so great to me. However, you're...

    He doesn't sound so great to me. However, you're probably meeting him at a low point. I think you should take a lesson from the movies and from divorce court. The movies: your soulmate is sometimes...
  25. By "love interest" I mean someone you love...

    By "love interest" I mean someone you love romantically and want to have a relationship with. You can have a love interest without having sex with that person, but someone you just have sex with is...
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