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    You are exceedingly kind; thank you! He and I...

    You are exceedingly kind; thank you!

    He and I sat down last night and divided up all of our assets on paper, as per my lawyer's instructions. All he wants is his car, some specific tools, his...
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    Yup, you pretty much nailed it. Still no...

    Yup, you pretty much nailed it. Still no guarantee it will all go smoothly, but it's not quite the usual "cheating spouse" scenario.
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    The lawyer advised me, IF we can be civil enough...

    The lawyer advised me, IF we can be civil enough to do so, to sit down with him and list all our assets and how we agree to divide everything up. If he agrees to it, and signs it, it's legally...
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    I've actually been (fairly) open about that with...

    I've actually been (fairly) open about that with him... I told him we're both technically entitled to portions of each other's pensions (and told him I don't want his; he says he doesn't want mine). ...
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    Well, I HAVE considered what would happen if Mr....

    Well, I HAVE considered what would happen if Mr. Alter came on here and found this... He may have. He's not even remotely horsey, but he knows about CotH and that I'm on here a lot. There may be a...
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    Wow. Well, there's nothing like a good CotH...

    Wow. Well, there's nothing like a good CotH trainwreck to get my mind off things... Hell, might as well be in my own thread!! :lol:
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    I'd rather not do it at all. I don't wish him...

    I'd rather not do it at all. I don't wish him ill; I just don't want to have to fight over this. But if the fight comes, well...

    It's just not something that would make me feel good to do. ...
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    Realtor is coming on Thursday to give us some...

    Realtor is coming on Thursday to give us some direction. He's the guy who came highly recommended by my lawyer; she's used him herself a number of times.
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    Even though I'm out-earning him at present, he...

    Even though I'm out-earning him at present, he has the technical training and qualifications to significantly out-earn me pretty easily, particularly if he joins a union, even more so if he's in a...
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    We are going to try to stay in the house until it...

    We are going to try to stay in the house until it sells... I wasn't feeling up to that prior to talking to the lawyer, but after that conversation and a long talk with soon-to-be-ex last night, it's...
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    It's not an "other woman" situation, rather an...

    It's not an "other woman" situation, rather an anonymous hookup thing, with more than one other party... Without going into way too many details, let's just say that his actions would not be...
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    I'm hoping to get the asset list and stuff to my...

    I'm hoping to get the asset list and stuff to my attorney before the end of the weekend; I think that's reasonable.
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    But, strangely, I do feel a lot better after...

    But, strangely, I do feel a lot better after talking to the lawyer, even though the news wasn't what I wanted to hear... But at least I now know how to go into the next few months in a manner to best...
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    *sigh* It was indeed a challenging afternoon. ...

    *sigh* It was indeed a challenging afternoon.

    Whoever said I'd feel better after talking to a lawyer, but that the lawyer won't sugar-coat things, well ain't that the truth... What news I got...
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    It's going to be an interesting and challenging...

    It's going to be an interesting and challenging day... I decided to come in to work this morning, just to get my mind off everything for a few hours. Oddly, it's helped, even though I'm mentally...
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    Are you kidding? As a non-religious person, I'm...

    Are you kidding? As a non-religious person, I'm all about the jingles, lol... Seriously, I have to catch myself from writing that on sympathy and get-well cards for people. :D
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    Sorry, duplicate.

    Sorry, duplicate.
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    Nothing would surprise me at this point. I'll be...

    Nothing would surprise me at this point. I'll be waiting with baited breath until Thursday...
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    Thank you for that reminder. You know, I can't...

    Thank you for that reminder. You know, I can't even begin to express how grateful I am for the CotH community over the past 24 hours... I'm hesitant to discuss this with ANYONE I know before I talk...
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    I currently make more than him, but he is grossly...

    I currently make more than him, but he is grossly underpaid at his current job, considering his credentials... The only reason I make more is that I have had this job for 14 years. He's a...
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    Our 10-year anniversary is in 4 days. Nope, not...

    Our 10-year anniversary is in 4 days. Nope, not kidding; he did the deed exactly one week before our 10-year. No chance of a divorce going through before then.
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    Yeah, I'm sorry, but the physical infidelity and...

    Yeah, I'm sorry, but the physical infidelity and bringing God-only-knows what kinds of diseases into our bed-- INTO ME, for Christ's sake!!-- makes me not feel like being very friendly right now. ...
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    Oh, believe me, I've been cycling through those 5...

    Oh, believe me, I've been cycling through those 5 stages all day... One minute bordering on hysterical, the next minute furious... I suspect it'll be this way for a while.

    Staying in the house...
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    This is all so much to process... I haven't yet...

    This is all so much to process... I haven't yet even had enough true privacy to sit and scream and bawl and really let it all out. Seeing my horse and riding today helped, but there were too many...
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    I'm meeting with my attorney-friend tomorrow...

    I'm meeting with my attorney-friend tomorrow afternoon, so that's happening. If anyone can give me any info about what to expect from that process, I would appreciate it... I have never had to...
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