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  1. I'm sorry to hear that... I just went through an...

    I'm sorry to hear that... I just went through an extensive dental extraction with my older rescue cat; he had all but 3 teeth pulled, though there were no complications that I know of. The vet had...
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    Yep, these exactly. I got the text while at work,...

    Yep, these exactly. I got the text while at work, shortly before leaving for the day... Thankfully I have an office with a door; I was able to close it and just sat there and cried.

    It's so...
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    Good morning! How funny that this thread got...

    Good morning! How funny that this thread got resurrected this week...

    Big news! I am officially moved out and living in my own place!!! Closing finally happened on February 27th. With tons of...
  4. It's not an automatic dealbreaker, or else I...

    It's not an automatic dealbreaker, or else I wouldn't have bothered even mentioning it. I just asked what others would do in such a situation.
  5. Yeah, I'm definitely not judging him based on his...

    Yeah, I'm definitely not judging him based on his alleged father... this guy seems to have his head on straight, by all accounts seems to be a great dad, has 2 kids doing well in school, and like I...
  6. Well like I said, I work in the criminal justice...

    Well like I said, I work in the criminal justice field, I have a bit of an understanding of how these charges work... I also understand that they throw the book at someone with the expectation that...
  7. Well he did mention doing some work for his dad...

    Well he did mention doing some work for his dad recently... But who's to say if he meant bio-dad, or a stepdad who's always been "dad?"

    I don't have any children and don't want any of my own; he...
  8. Adventures in dating... Megan's Law in the family?

    So I've been wading around the shallow end of the internet dating pool for a little while, VERY casually and am not looking for anything serious at the moment. I've been talking to a guy, we clicked...
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    After being married to a gamer whose gaming...

    After being married to a gamer whose gaming would, at times, escalate to way addictive levels (think 18 hours/day on the weekends, I am not kidding), and with similar angry outbursts, I refuse to get...
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    Sorry, duplicate.

    Sorry, duplicate.
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    My "hurt" is that I can't get away from him quick...

    My "hurt" is that I can't get away from him quick enough. Being stuck continuing to live with this monster is wearing on my last nerve, and having to see/hear/smell his presence is more of a...
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    *snort* Want him? He's ALLLLL yours!!

    *snort* Want him? He's ALLLLL yours!!
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    LadyE, you are a strange one........... A porn...

    LadyE, you are a strange one........... A porn website, i.e., site that stockpiles thousands of porn videos (mostly amateur-submitted I think), with a "meet local people" section. NOT your usual...
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    Funny this just popped up again, as I was...

    Funny this just popped up again, as I was actually thinking of posting an update last night... This will probably be a very long update; sorry in advance.

    Well, I had hoped to be out of the house...
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    Again, thank goodness for my lawyer, lol...... ...

    Again, thank goodness for my lawyer, lol......

    The only reason this is even possible is because STBX's and my finances have always been separate, and the mortgage (even though it is in both of our...
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    Just wanted to chime in with an update... It's...

    Just wanted to chime in with an update... It's been about a month since I last posted on this thread. What a crazy month it's been!!!

    The divorce is still very much happening... I filed the last...
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    I missed the poofed grilled cheese thread.... ...

    I missed the poofed grilled cheese thread.... Can someone either please explain it to me here or PM me?? The curiosity is killing me...
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    I rather stupidly checked out the online dating...

    I rather stupidly checked out the online dating scene recently.... Just separated from a 10-year marriage and was, frankly, petrified at the thought of dating again, and what options are available...
  19. I so totally get it...... I'm recently...

    I so totally get it......

    I'm recently separated, really have zero interest in canoeing right now (and let's be honest, one can kayak instead and have a LOT less hassle), but there are times...
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    Yeah, not even close. I know I had told him...

    Yeah, not even close. I know I had told him MULTIPLE times, before and since we've been married, that if he ever cheated or hit me, it's done. And there sure was never a conversation about "well...
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    Without going into enormous detail, let's just...

    Without going into enormous detail, let's just say this was not the usual "I found someone I care about more than you" scenario. It was not. STBX has issues, interests, and predilections which have...
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    To each their own... I really only have two...

    To each their own... I really only have two non-negotiables-- you don't cheat, and you don't ever lay a hand on me. Everything else, I could have (and have) dealt with, but that was a boundary that...
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    Update... STBEX and I sat down and wrote out the...

    Update... STBEX and I sat down and wrote out the separation agreement... Lawyer typed it up and returned it. It's now signed and notarized by both of us. So the worst, legally, is now over I think....
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    You are exceedingly kind; thank you! He and I...

    You are exceedingly kind; thank you!

    He and I sat down last night and divided up all of our assets on paper, as per my lawyer's instructions. All he wants is his car, some specific tools, his...
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    Yup, you pretty much nailed it. Still no...

    Yup, you pretty much nailed it. Still no guarantee it will all go smoothly, but it's not quite the usual "cheating spouse" scenario.
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